Conduct Unbecoming a New Man
Sermons on Colossians
Please turn in your Bibles to Colossians chapter three, as we return to our exposition of Paul's epistle to the Saints in Colossae. Colossians chapter three, picking up a section where the apostle deals specifically with Christian ethics or how the individual and ultimately the church is to behave As those who have received the grace of God, those who are new creatures in Christ Jesus, those who have been born again by a sovereign act from on high. The last time we were in Colossians, we focused on verses one to four in chapter three, where the apostle says that we are to seek those things which are above verse one, where Christ is sitting at the right hand of God. He says, set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth. For you died and your life is hidden with Christ in God. When Christ, who is our life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory. So we see that sanctification or living the Christian life begins first and foremost in our minds as we focus upon the Lord Jesus Christ. The Bible doesn't call us to moralism. It doesn't say just stop doing bad things and start doing good things. That is incorrect. We are to think of Christ, we are to believe on Christ, we are to walk in Christ, and it's from that vantage point we are to do what Paul has called us to do in the following verses of which I'll pick up reading in verse five. He says, therefore, put to death your members which are on the earth, fornication, uncleanness, passion, evil desire and covetousness, which is idolatry. Because of these things, the wrath of God is coming upon the sons of disobedience in which you yourselves once walked when you lived in them. But now you yourselves are to put off all these anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy language out of your mouth. Do not lie to one another since you have put off the old man with his deeds and have put on the new man who is renewed in knowledge according to the image of him who created him. where there is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcised nor uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave nor free, but Christ is all and in all. Amen. Let us pray. Father, we come to your scripture now and we pray for your spirit to be upon each one of us. We thank you for the work of our Lord Jesus Christ. We thank you that you made him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in him. We thank you, Lord, for gospel mercies, and we thank you for gospel sanctification. We pray that you would just give us the mind of Christ. Even now, as we study your scripture, we pray that you would forgive us of all of our transgressions. God, the bare reading of scripture lays us low. It humbles us. It causes us to reflect upon your holiness and upon your righteousness and upon our own sinfulness. God, I pray that we would respond in a manner consistent with the scripture. We would be like Isaiah, the prophet. Woe is me, for I am undone, that we would cast ourselves fully and completely upon your mercy in our Lord Jesus Christ. And it's in his most blessed name that we pray. Amen. Well, in the United States military, I'm sure it's the same in Canadian military law. There is a particular code of conduct that men who are in that are in various branches of service must engage in. It's the Uniform Code of Military Justice. And Article 133 says that an officer must engage in conduct becoming an officer and a gentleman. And again, I'm sure that's true of the Canadian military. When you see a man who's a major or a general or a colonel, he must conduct himself in a manner worthy of his status, in a manner consistent with what he has been vested in or what the authority has been vested with by the Canadian government. That's what we find here in verses 5 to 11. The Christian is to engage in conduct that is becoming a new man. And Paul specifically highlights conduct that is unbecoming of the new man in verses 5 to 11. In fact, this whole section from chapter 3, verse 5, all the way to chapter 4, verse 6, can be summarized in four basic themes. First off, we are to put off. Put off wickedness. Chapter 3 verses 5 to 11, which will be our focus this morning. We are to put on righteousness. Chapter 3 verses 12 to 17. We are to be subject to one another in the way that we relate to one another. Chapter 3 verse 18 to chapter 4 verse 1. And then we are to watch and pray. Chapter 4 verses 2 to 6. That is Christian duty. I submit that if we take this passage seriously, we have enough to keep us busy until the Lord Jesus comes in glory. We are to put off, we are to put on, we are to be subject, and we are to watch and pray. And that by virtue of our relationship with God through the Lord Jesus Christ, which is solely and alone by faith. through his mercy to us. Now, there are two parallel sections in verses five to eleven verses five to seven. The Apostle says we are to put to death the sins of the flesh and then in verses eight to twelve or eight to eleven. Rather, he says we are to put to death the sins of the time. So, sins of the flesh, sins of the time. And in each of these sections, they're constructed the same. He gives a particular duty or command. He gives the specific sins we are to avoid. And then he gives reasons why we are to do this. And I hope that we'll be able to cover this entire section this morning. But notice first, the putting to death the sins of the flesh. Verses five to seven. Therefore, put to death your members which are on the earth. That's the duty we are to put to death. That means it is to be a decisive break. We're not to entertain sin. We're not to keep it in our backyard. We're not to play with it on occasion. We're not to enjoy its passing pleasures as we see fit. But rather, as new men in Christ, we are to put it to death. We are to take no prisoners. We are to grant no quarter. We are not to engage in any sort of a peace treaty, but we are to deal decisively with these sins of the flesh. Paul is not playing games. God is not playing games. He has not saved us because we put these things to death. He has saved us by grace in order that we may put these things to death in order that we may let our conduct be becoming of our status as new men and new women in Christ. Just so you know, when I say new man, it means all of us. I'm not going to be gender What is it? Gender sensitive. If you're a woman and it offends you, repent. Man covers man and woman in the Bible. That's just the way it is. We don't need to be gender specific or sensitive because our culture doesn't like to refer to mankind without referring to womankind. No, when I speak of the new man, if you're a woman, that includes you, provided you are in the Lord Jesus Christ. So, Paul says, therefore, therefore, put to death your members which are on the earth. That's an interesting statement, your members which are on the earth. Well, where else would they be? Our members aren't on Saturn, our members aren't on Pluto, our members aren't sort of floating around in the heavens. The idea is, is that we take those instruments that at one time we used to sin with, and we put to death those sins. Paul uses a similar construction in Romans 6. He says, do not present your members as instruments of unrighteousness. But now that you've been redeemed, you can take those hands, you can take those feet, you can take that tongue. In this context, you can take those sexual organs and you can employ them in the means by which or the means for which God intended you to use them. That's the idea here. And then notice, he gives the specific sins, fornication, uncleanness, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry. Now, I believe all of these, this cluster, all refer to sexual sin. I know we think that this is the most sexually profligate time that has ever been in the history of the church. But the context in which Paul wrote was very sexually wicked. Sodomy was rampant. Fornication was rampant. Paul, on very many occasions, condemns this particular sin. And it's no accident here that the language that he uses refers to that area of sexual immorality. The first, he says, fornication. This is illicit sex, unlawful sex. Sometimes Christians get condemned as being anti-sex. No, we're not. We're anti-sinful application of it. God ordained it as he has decreed. For good, but used in a proper context. He has put it for use in a covenantal context, namely in the context of marriage. We do well to be familiar with the Westminster Larger Catechism. In fact, that's a bit of homework for you. You can download it on the Internet. The Westminster Larger Catechism. Look up questions 138 and 139. Meditate upon that. I don't think fornication is just something that exists out there. I don't think it's something that exists just among the heathen or among the pagans. Paul is writing to a church. He is writing to Christians. He is writing to those who had died with Christ and who had been raised again. We can't just say, oh, it's all about Hollywood and their wickedness and their pornography. There's probably a lot of wickedness and pornography in the hearts of all of us in this room. And so, take the Westminster Larger Catechism, 138 and 139. 138 says what is required by the Seventh Commandment, and then the 139 says what is forbidden by the Seventh Commandment. And I'll just read that. 139, what are the sins forbidden in the Seventh Commandment? Fornication, according to the Scripture, is quite broad. It's not just marital unfaithfulness. There's another word for that. That's adultery. Fornication is a much broader offense, and I think the Westminster divines are on to something when they say the sins forbidden in the Seventh Commandment, besides the neglect of the duties required. So everything that you're supposed to do according to 138, you don't do that. That's a sin. Then they say, are adultery, fornication, rape, incest, sodomy and all unnatural lusts. all unclean imaginations, thoughts, purposes and affections, all corrupt or filthy communications or listening there unto wanton looks, impudent or light behavior, immodest apparel, prohibiting of lawful and dispensing with unlawful marriages. Allowing, tolerating, keeping of stews. A stew is sort of like a brothel, a house of ill repute. And resorting to them. So you may say, well, I don't have one, but do you go to one? And then it goes on to say, entangling vows of single life, undue delay of marriage. Isn't that beautiful? Some men knew the Bible. They knew sin. First Corinthians chapter 7. You know what Paul says to those who are burning lust? Get married. Oh, we're so holy and we must go pray for 40 days. No, go get married. And engage in what God has given you license to engage in. Undue delay of marriage, having more wives or husbands than one at the same time, unjust divorce or desertion, idleness, gluttony, drunkenness. You say, well, how do those things affect? They affect. Unchaste company, lascivious songs, books, pictures, dancings, stage plays, and all other provocations too, or acts of uncleanness, either in ourselves or others. I feel in many respects I could just say amen right now. We could all get on our faces and we could confess sin probably for the rest of the day. You see, conduct unbecoming of a new man is to engage in this kind of garbage. To engage in this kind of lust, this kind of wantonness and sin. Paul goes on to say uncleanness. And again, it's usually associated with sexual sin. He then says passion. The passion is not always bad. We should have a passion for God. The word indicates a driver force which does not rest until it is satisfied. If you have a passion for Jesus, that's commendable. But the fact that Paul links passion here with uncleanness and fornication, and that he does likewise in Romans 1.26 and in 1 Thessalonians 4.3 indicates to me that the passion in view is sinful. It's ungodly. It is desiring sexual sin in a way that is condemned by Jehovah himself. And then notice what he says, evil desire. Again, desire is good. The word desire used here is used of the bishop or the overseer in First Timothy chapter three verse one. If any man desires the office of overseer, that's a good thing. But Paul specifically says this is an evil desire. Again, since it's connected with passion, uncleanness and fornication, the evil desire here has to do with sexual sin. And then notice what he does and covetousness. I don't think Paul is now left sexual sin and he's dealing with materialism. I think he is still dealing with sexual sin. He is still dealing with that area of passion and evil desire that flushes itself out in fornication, which becomes covetous in nature, which ultimately ends in idolatry. Now, I don't think this ought to be surprising for any inhabitant of 21st century North America. What is one of the idols that is paraded around us on a daily basis, but sexual sin. We live in a nation that is just riddled with people wanting to take their clothes off, wanting to engage in ungodliness and unlawfulness. The Apostle says this is covetousness, which is idolatry. Doug Moore, a commentator, said this. Jewish writers habitually trace the various sins of the Gentiles back to the root problem of idolatry. Paul does this in Romans chapter one as well. He says that the Gentiles are the heathen of a man apart from God. He professes to be wise, but he is futile in his thinking. He has exchanged the glory of the incorruptible God for that which is corruptible, for that which is like man. He starts with idolatry and from that fountain, he then fleshes out all the particular sins that are peculiar to man. So Paul's doing the same thing here. When we look around us at what appears to be a sexually liberated day and age, we ought to see it for what the Bible says is idolatry. We didn't gain sexual freedom and liberation in the 60s. We gained bondage. You see, God's freedom is doing what he has made you to do. Bondage is doing that which is contrary to his will. We got it all backwards. People look at Christians and say, wow, you're so restricted. You have no fun. You have no liberty. You have no joy. What does the Bible say? The Bible says only in God is there joy, is there freedom, is there liberty? Only in God is there the ability to enjoy those things he has made without becoming slaves to them. I mean, I fear even typing in pornography statistics on Google for fear of what it's going to yield. But I know it's huge. You know, the pornography industry makes more money than all professional sports combined. Have you ever thought to yourself, man, a baseball player is way overpaid. Fifty million dollars a year to play baseball. And then these guys whine, oh, it's so hard to play a game. Poor baby, go to the coal mines. Go dig ditches. I don't want to hear you whining because you get paid $50 million a year to play baseball or the hockey. Oh, don't touch hockey in Canada. I'll touch it all I want. They're making a whole bunch of money for what? Putting a little puck into a net. They're getting paid more money than you and I will ever see combined in one year to play a game. You take hockey, you take baseball, you take football, you take basketball, you take the entertainment industry, you take all of the receipts, and you put all that money together, and they pale compared to pornography. We live in a nation of idolaters. Men enslaved, women enslaved. This isn't freedom. This isn't liberty. This isn't bliss. What is it but to be governed by genitalia? What is it to be but to be a worshipper of the creature rather than the creator who is over all God blessed forever, Paul says in Romans 1. Exchanging the truth of God for the lie. Worshipping that which the Lord gave to be enjoyed in a covenantal context, but ripping it out of that context and using it to serve our own lusts. It's conduct that is similar to the animals. You know, the animals are just doing what instinctively comes to them. Man is supposed to know better. Man is not to degrade himself like that. Man is not to be governed by his physical passions. Man is to be governed by his love for God and his love for fellow men. What about the objectifying of the women involved in this sin? The objectifying, the treating as if it's just something for your own amusement. These are image bearers of the living and the true God. And again, it's not just unique to 21st century North America. The Apostle Paul had to deal with it. There is nothing new under the sun. Now granted, in Colossae, they didn't just have to click their mouths and see every undoubtedly thing imaginable, but their culture was saturated with it as well. So, Moose says, Jewish writers habitually trace the various sins of the Gentiles back to the root problem of idolatry, and especially was this true of sexual sins. Putting some other God in the place of the true God of the Bible leads to the panoply of sexual sins and perversions that characterize the Gentile world. Paul reflects this tradition here. Sexual sins arise because people have an uncontrolled desire for more and more experiences and pleasures, and such a desire is nothing less than a form of idolatry. Go back to the Old Testament for a time. You know how Baal was appeased? You know how you called upon Baal? You know how you worshiped Baal? Through sexual experience. You see, it's connected intimately to religion. In 1 Corinthians 6, Paul has to tell the Corinthians, flee sexual immorality. Why? Because they were still engaging in it. Corinth was a hotbed of sexual sin. The verb or the noun Corinth became a verb to Corinthianize. That meant to fornicate. God's people had to deal with this in both the Old and the New Testaments. They have to deal with it today. And the way we deal with it is to not engage in it, to put it to death, to deal viciously with it, to deal violently with it, to take no prisoner, to grant no quarter. One man that I have seen on an Internet forum says it's like starving a sumo. Sumo wrestlers probably take in about eight to nine thousand calories a day. I think I'm in the ballpark. Seven to seven to nine thousand calories a day. It's enough for some of you to live on for a week. This guy says we need to starve the sumo. Don't drop him down to three thousand because he's just going to get angry. Don't drop him down to two thousand because he's going to eat you. See with sexual sin you don't just appease it a little bit. You deal decisively. As Jesus says, you pluck out right eyes and you hack off right arms. Because it's far better to enter into life named than to enter into hell with all of your limbs intact. One man, A.T. Lincoln, commenting on the parallel passage in Ephesians says, all idolatry is a form of covetousness. For by refusing to acknowledge life and worth as a gift from the Creator, it seeks to seize them from the creation as booty. So instead of saying, thank you, Lord, for providing this good gift that I may enjoy in the context of covenantal marriage, we see something that the creation has and we plunder it for our own use, and then we become enslaved to it. He says, sexual lust elevates the desired object, whether a person's own gratification or another person, to the center of life and is antithetical to the thanksgiving, which recognizes God at the center. And that's profound. I want to charge the young people. Most of us in this room grew up when there wasn't the Internet. And it wasn't so easily available. There used to be boundaries between a man and the sexual sin that he could actually accomplish. Those boundaries with the advent of the Internet are gone. No, I'm not saying get rid of the Internet, get rid of the modem. If it has to be that way, then do so. The Bible says, keep your heart with all diligence. The Bible says, govern your passions. The Bible says self-control and self-discipline are essential and necessary. There is that temptation there that is right there in the way that it wasn't there for the Colossians or the Corinthians. One man is well said, we see more in a day in terms of the opposite sex being undressed than probably most Puritan men ever saw in their lives. I mean, billboards, bus stops, everything. It's all over. It's a sexually crazed culture. Now, notice Paul is not calling us to monasticism. He's not saying, leave Colossae, build huts up on the hill, and live there and chant. That's not what he says. He says, in the midst of your ungodly culture, you put to death your members. In the midst of an ungodly culture, you exercise self-control. In the midst of an ungodly culture, you pray, you read, you fast, you weep, you get brethren, you have accountability, whatever it is, so that you can put to death these sins. So the Bible doesn't call us to retreat. It calls us to advance in the power of the gospel. The power of God's Holy Spirit, you young people and you need you children. You need to understand this is an enslaving sin. This is something that does not take prisoners, it does not grant quarter, it consumes to the uttermost. You say, oh, preacher, you're just going overboard, Paul says, put it to death. That is a unique temptation facing the children of our age. And you are fools to engage in it. Be afraid. Be very afraid. And you know, in the context, that's Paul's reasoning. Why should we put these things to death, Paul? Look, verse six, because of these things, the wrath of God is coming upon the sons of disobedience in which you yourselves once walked when you lived in them. That's amazing, isn't it? Why should I put to death my members that live on the Earth? Because God's wrath is coming upon sinners. Doug Moore points out that there were vice lists and virtue lists throughout this period. You compare Galatians, Ephesians, here in Colossians, vice lists. Here's vices we're to put off. Virtue lists. Here's virtue we're supposed to put on. The difference, however, is that the pagans, when they called people to put on vice, it was for the greater good of the state. It was for the greater good of their own happiness. It was moralism, doing the right thing for the wrong reason. Here, Paul says, put these things to death, because if you don't, you're going to go to hell. Oh, well, that's pretty severe. Yeah, well, we need to be treated severely from time to time, don't we? The old football coach, you said fear is a great motivator. I heartily amen that. We can preach all the love in the world, but sinners need to hear and we as sinful Christians need to hear God is angry when we sin. God is a God of wrath. God is a God of fury. Paul's use of vice and virtue lists were consistent with the literature of his day. However, in the New Testament, the vice lists function to depict the lifestyle of people who are in enmity with the holy God of the Bible and who thus suffer eternal condemnation. Don't do this, why? Because the wrath of God is coming upon the sons of disobedience. Now we can take that as coming in one of two ways. It's coming in the future, on that day of judgment, that great day of God's wrath, when he separates the sheep from the goats and he visits the goats with eternal condemnation and punishment. But when we compare with Romans 1, we see that the wrath of God even comes now. It even comes now in the form of sexual disease or sexually transmitted disease. The wrath of God comes upon men even now as they engage in such wickedness. And while it's not mentioned here, we look at first Corinthians six Galatians five, Ephesians three, when he highlights these vices and he calls Christians to not engage in these things. He says the wrath of God is coming. And he also says such things exclude someone from his kingdom. In other words, if you live this way, you're not going to heaven. You may think you're a Christian, you may pretend to be a Christian, you may say all the right Christian things, but if you are not putting to death these deeds that are on the earth, you're not a Christian. Bill Hughes, a pastor in Boca Raton or Coconut Grove in Florida, he had a good illustration with reference to the old man and new man. He said, imagine if you had two women that really desired to be married. And one of the women pretended to be married. She went out and bought a ring and put it on her finger. She bought a veil and a dress and hung it in her closet. She pretended to be married. And there was another woman who actually got married. Her man put the ring on her finger. They signed the book. They lit the candle. Everything was legalized. Everything was sanitized. Everything was good. As much as that first woman wants to be married, she's not. That's moralism. A lot of people act like they're Christians. A lot of people try to be Christians. Let me just tell you, if you want to try to be a Christian, you're going to fail. You could try to be married all you want. You could try to be something you are not all you want. The only way to be a Christian is to believe the gospel. And I want to qualify this 100 times as we move through this passage. A Christian is not a Christian because he puts to death the deeds of the body that are on the earth. That's not why we're Christians. We're Christians because Jesus died and rose again. We're Christians because God in Christ is reconciling the world to himself. We're Christians by God's grace because he regenerated us. He made us alive. He gave us the gift of faith. He caused us to believe the gospel. That's why we're Christians. And you Christians, when you're out there witnessing to an onlooking world, don't convey to them, I'm a Christian because I don't do this. I'm a Christian because I do this. I'm a Christian because I don't go here. I'm a Christian because I do go here. I'm a Christian by the grace of God. My hope is built on nothing less than Jesus' blood and righteousness. I dare not trust the sweetest frame, but wholly lean on Jesus' name. If sin is killing its thousands, bad Christianity is killing its tens of thousands. We got to get the gospel right. We are not saved because of what we put off or what we put on. We are saved because our Christ bore the wrath of his father at Calvary and he died and he rose again and he ascended on high. And by the grace of God, we look to him and we live. Isn't that beautiful? Don't mess up the gospel, either in your word or deed. Don't tell someone you need to stop this, that, or the other. I remember John Owen in Volume 6. He says, we do a lot to try to convince Christians of a particular sin when they're nothing but sin. If you're not a Christian today, don't leave here and say, wow, I fornicated. I'm a sinner. I fornicated. I've got to stop. Fornication is a symptom of a much larger problem. You're at enmity with the living God. Your heart is far from Him. You need to be born again. You need to believe the gospel. Don't try to clean up. Don't take this as a checklist and say, OK, I'm not fornicating anymore. I'm not unclean anymore. I haven't had passion anymore. I don't have evil desire anymore. I'm not covetous anymore. I'm not an idolater anymore. Therefore, I'm going to heaven. That's not what this is about. Not at all. He says, God's wrath is coming upon the sons of disobedience. And then he says, notice in verse seven, in which you yourselves once walked when you lived in them. What does this do but humble us? Because we could be very proud. Oh, we're not like those wicked people in Hollywood or Holly Weird, as we might even want to call them. We're not like those wicked people who live in Vancouver. We're not like those ungodly Joneses that live next to us. What does Paul say? In which you yourselves once walked. You used to engage in fornication. You used to engage in uncleanness. You used to engage in passion. You used to engage in evil desire. You used to be a covetous idolater. You were all these things, but for the grace of God, but for the mercy of God, you are lumped in with that unblessed lot. And you were rightly deserving God's wrath. Don't be proud. Don't be arrogant. Don't feel like you've arrived. Again, that just bugs me about us as Christians. We can walk around as if we've just somehow made it. As if we've arrived. As if we've performed or accomplished something and God has given us that big cookie out of the sky. It's good for us to remember from whence we've come. It's good for us to be like the Apostle Paul. I was formerly a blasphemer and a persecutor and an insolent man. I don't think Paul's writing there in 1st Timothy 1 just for rhetorical intent or effect. I'm going to make them feel bad. Tear. Sweat on brow. Sob, sob. No, Paul never forgot what he was. He never forgot the divine transaction that occurred at Damascus on the road to Damascus. He never forgot the righteousness of Christ in whom we stand. And that's the way we as Christians need to be. We need to remember in which you yourselves once walked when you lived in them. Let's quickly move on to the putting to death the sins of the tongue. Verses eight to eleven. Would you love the Bible? it finds us all out. You, right here, may be a paradigm of sexual fidelity. You may have lived your 20 or 30 or 40 or 50 years never having cast a lustful glance. I doubt it, but maybe. You may have never clicked on to a pornography site. You may have never thrown in a triple X-rated movie. You may be never engaged in the filthy conduct, or the talk rather, going on in the locker room at work. You may be the paradigm of sexual purity in our midst, but you have all sinned with your tongue. Now, why do I say this next grouping of five? Again, parallel sections. Do this five things, or put to death these five things. Now he says, put off these five things, and then adds one. Why do I say these five things all refer to the time? Notice in verse eight, but now you yourselves are to put off all these anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy language out of your mouth. I believe anger, wrath and malice are the attitudes, the internal disposition, the heartbeat that fuels the blasphemy and filthy language that comes out of our mouths. In fact, anger and wrath are very similar to one another. Not a lot of difference in the wording that Paul uses here. If we could make a distinction, we might say the anger means a mental excitement to which bitterness gives rise. The wrath refers to a burning anger which flares up and burns with the intensity of a fire. This is not a righteous indignation. It is a sinful hostility. And then he goes on to say malice. This is the vicious nature that is bent on doing harm to others. Those are the three attitudes that feed the blasphemy and that feed the filthy language and that feed the deceptive language that comes in verse nine. You see that. So, I say he's using this or this sins of the tongue captures this section here in verses eight and nine. And the specific sins are abusive speech. Notice in verse eight, blasphemy. And we often think of blasphemy as saying bad things about God. In this context, it's saying bad things about men. And so it might rightly be interpreted or translated as slander. Saying bad things about people. Should we all just shut our Bibles, get on our faces and ask God to have mercy on us now? Or do you want to wait until you get home? Because we've all said bad things about others. We all have. Maybe the holy, perfect, pure, you know, exception to this rule, but the rest of us are wicked in this respect. With reference to man, slander is the better translation, indicates the attempt to belittle and cause someone to fall into disrepute or to receive a bad reputation. We often preface this with a statement that we're not doing this. It's like taking something that comes out of the back end of a dog and trying to polish it up and put a ribbon on it and hand it to somebody. I don't mean to be crass, brethren, but that's what we do, and it's worse. I'm not trying to offend you, and then we offend them. I don't want to gossip, and then we gossip. I'm not trying to slander, and then we slander. As if our qualification somehow makes it OK. We're sickening. We do this. I know we do this. I have a mouth that does this, and I have two ears that picks up when others do this. I don't want to say anything hurtful, but now there are words that we need to say. Let the righteous smite me. I'll count on a blessing. There are times when we have to be hard with somebody or firm with somebody. But I think more often than not, we abandon those rules of civility, of godliness and of righteousness. And we let fly whatever we want under the guise. I'm not trying to do this. Well, whether you're trying to do it or not, you just did it. Let's go back to Bridges commentary on the progress, think twice. before you speak once. A few months ago, someone in my home said the Bible says speak twice or think twice before you speak once. Now, I had two responses to that. First of all, no, the Bible doesn't say that. That was Bridges commenting on Proverbs. But the second was, praise God, I said that enough that somebody in the house actually heard it and picked up on it. Think twice before you speak once. slander, and then he goes on to speak of filthy language. Verse eight filthy language out of your mouth, filthy talk, dirty speech, abusive language. Edie says it signifies what is noxious, offensive or useless and refers to language which so far from yielding grace or benefit has a tendency to corrupt the hearer. Is our word calculated to impart necessary edification, as Ephesians 4 says? Are we promoting godliness in our heroes? This is where we need to take these things seriously. This isn't just some idyllic picture of what life should be as a Christian. This really has binding on us as Christians. We need to do what the psalmist prayed, set a guard over my mouth. Oh Lord! Use the illustration before. When I was in the service, we were in England and we went to the tower of Buckingham Palace. I'm sure those brethren that have been to Buckingham Palace can testify. The guards there have a reputation for just standing still and not being marred, not looking away, not being caught off guard. Well, me and my buddies tried to do that. We mocked the guard, we said things, everything short of touching him to get him to move and yell at us and swing at us or something. He just stood there motionless. Big hat, outfit, the whole spiel. David says, set one of those over my mouth, God. In fact, give me two, one on either side. Because I know the potential for danger. I know the potential for harm that resides in this pit. What does James say about the tongue? It's so little. It's tiny. But oh, what a world of iniquity. You know what James says? We contain beasts. But no man can tame the tongue. It is an unruly evil. We can tame bears to dance. We can tame lions to dance. We can tame alligators. We can't. Some people can. They can open their mouths and put their head in between alligators' jaws or crocodiles' jaws. Some people actually do that. James says no one can tame the tongue. It's an unruly evil. Do you ever think about that? Your biggest potential to harm after your heart is your tongue. Have you ever thought, really, about the people you love the most, you've hurt the most, because the way you speak to them? Why is it that familiarity breeds with us the idea that we can say anything we want to people? You know what? There's times that you should just shut your mouth. What does Solomon say in the Proverbs? Even a fool is counted wise when he shuts his mouth. Guy could be as ignorant as a rock. Guy could be as smart as a stump. The man could have an IQ of five. He couldn't think himself out of a paper bag, and yet if he shuts his mouth in a given context, everybody will look around and say, wow, he's wise. Smart man right there. Why? Because he chose not to exercise this organ. We need to choose not to exercise this organ more often than we do. And then notice the reason why. The old man has been put off. This is gospel motive. Why do we put to death the sins of the flesh and why do we put off the sins of the tongue. Because the old man has been put off. The old man is dead. There's a lot of debate about the old man new man in Christian theology. Some people say well the old man is raising up again. No he isn't he's dead. You know what the problem is? When you sin, your new man is engaging in conduct unbecoming. Repent. Do you want to blame the old man? My old man rose up. Take responsibility as a new man who is not living consistently with gospel ethics and repent. You see, Paul says it's been dealt with decisively. Chapter two, verse 11, you die. Chapter two, verse 20, you die. What's he talking about? We didn't physically die, we spiritually died with Christ and we were made alive together with Him. We are new men in Christ. That Adamic nature is dead. What we are in Adam, what we lost in Adam, has been given to us anew, restored in Jesus Christ. This is gospel ethic, gospel motivation, and the language here of putting off the old man was done by the grace of God through faith in Jesus Christ. Verse nine. Do not lie to one another. Oh, there you go. There's another sin of the top. Don't lie. Don't want to run over that. Lord God is God of truth. He forbids lying. Lying appears twice in these six things the Lord hates. Yea, seven are an abomination to Him. Two of them are lying. Tell the truth. Don't lie. Hopefully, Christians will forgive you. But even if they don't, God will. Proverbs 28, 13 says, Whoever confesses and forsakes We'll find mercy. You cover your transgression through lies. You'll not prosper. You confess it and forsake it. You'll find mercy. Don't lie to one another. Don't lie in the church. Don't lie in the covenant community. Somebody says, how are you doing? Don't say great. I'm just fantastic when you're a shambles. Now, you may not want to weigh them down with all of your trouble. You could say something to the effect of pray for me, brother. I've seen better days. You know, maybe not everybody has the time to hear all our particular woes at a particular time. We don't lie and say everything's great when everything isn't great. We're good at that. Everything's great, and it's not great. That's your own Sunday. How you doing? Everything's great, and it's not great. What does Galatians 6-1 tell us? Bear one another's burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ. How can we bear one another's burdens if we're all walking around with big fake smiles in our polished Sunday suits saying everything's great? I'm jacked up, you can pray for me. Please, everything isn't great. Pray. Paul said that. Brethren, pray for us. Why? Because everything isn't always great. Paul said in Ephesians 6, pray that God would give me boldness that I may speak the gospel as I ought to speak. Why is Paul praying for boldness? Because it didn't come naturally to him. Don't lie to realize that the old man has been put off with his deeds and you put on verse ten, the new man who is renewed in knowledge, according to the image of him who created him. Isn't that a beautiful thing? And look what's in view here. I want everybody. I know it's twelve ten. Stay with me, please. I want you to get this. I want you to understand something. Look at it. And I put on the new man who is renewed. Literally, it is was being renewed. Regeneration produces renewal. This is the thought of Romans 12 verses 1 and 2. Do not be conformed to this world, but what? But be renewed or be transformed, rather, by the renewing of your mind. OK, so keep that Romans 12 to be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Notice here, verse 10, and put on the old put on the new man who is renewed for being renewed in knowledge, according to the image of him who created him. Now we were dullards to miss the reference to creation. God created man in his own image. But, of course, through sin, that image has been affected. It has been marred. It has been distorted. But you see, in Christ, that image is restored. That image is being renewed. That image is being made better. That image is being brought into focus, if you will. And notice the specific reference. We are being renewed in knowledge. Be transformed in the renewing of your mind. Colossians 3, 1-4, set your mind on things above. My question as I work through this passage is, what happened to the church? What happened? Why have we left the centrality of preaching, the instruction of God's holy word, The place of preach the word, the ready in season and out of season. Convince, rebuke, exhort with all long-suffering in teaching. Why have we left that apostolic model that we find in Acts 2 and they continued steadfastly in the apostles doctrine? Why has entertainment taken priority in the church? Why has our felt need taken priority in the church? Why have puppets and ponies and programs taken priority in the church? Why don't we get the reality that we're to take this and put it into heaven? And the way that we do that is by burying our face in this book. And then I was reading Daniel 9 this morning, and Daniel is confessing sin. You know what he says? He says, all these curses of the law written in Moses are coming upon us for our iniquity and because we don't understand your truth. You see what happens today? Judgment comes. We got to stop abortion. I agree wholeheartedly. We got to stop sodomy. I agree wholeheartedly. We got to stop all these other evils that are going on in the world. I agree wholeheartedly. And we need to study theology. Watch God chase through the prophet in Hosea 4, 6. In Hosea 4, if I turn there, I want you to see with me the thought here. And this is not a departure from the text. I believe it is exegetically sound from Colossians 3. The emphasis is on the intellect. And I don't mean you've got to have an IQ of 200. You've got to be a brain. You've got to have degrees. No, you need to use your noodle. You need to use your head. You need to use your mind. And you need to study God's Word. Because the Bible says when you know God's Word, hopefully your actions will follow suit. That's the connection. This putting off does not mean join a monastery. This putting off does not mean put on a hair shirt. This putting off does not mean take ashes and put it in your suit. This putting off does not mean taking knives and gouging yourself so that you don't sin. This putting off means Think God's thoughts after him and don't do what he tells you not to do. Look at Hosea 4 verse 1. Hear the word of Jehovah, you children of Israel. For the Lord brings a charge against the inhabitants of the land. This is legit. This is a covenant lawsuit. Hosea is a lawyer right here. It is a technical term that he is employing to say God is angry. He is bringing the heat on Israel. Notice the general indictment. There is no truth or mercy or knowledge of God in the land by swearing and lying, killing and stealing and committing adultery. They break all restraint with bloodshed upon bloodshed. Therefore, the land will mourn and everyone who dwells there will waste away with the beasts of the field and the birds of the air. Even the fish of the sea will be taken away. Now, let no man contend or rebuke another, for your people are like those who contend with the priest. Therefore, you shall stumble in the day. The prophet also shall stumble with you in the night, and I will destroy your mother. My people are destroyed for what? For lack of knowledge. He's just indicted them for killing and stealing and committing adultery. And hear me, brethren, I think these are bad. But I think they flow from a prior commitment. When we reject the knowledge of God, we live like the devil. And we have professing evangelicalism that can't define justification, that do not know that we're saved by grace alone, through faith alone, by Christ alone. We have evangelicals that probably haven't read the whole Bible. And yet they think somehow God's giving them a new word. I'm not picking on brethren. I'm not at all. My heartbeat is that people would read and study the scriptures. That's really all I ever want is for you to say, well, I'm going to read my Bible today. Praise God, I could die in peace. My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge, because you have rejected knowledge. I also reject you from being priest for me, because you have forgotten the law of your God. I also will forget your children. The text in Daniel 913, as it is written in the law of Moses, all this disaster has come upon us. Yet we have not made our prayer before the Lord, our God, that we might turn from our iniquity and understand your truth. We need to turn from our iniquity, brethren, and we need to study the Bible. We need to set our mind on things above where Christ is. Could be the case that we're moving toward what Amos prophesied for the nation of Israel. Behold, the days are coming, says the Lord God, that I will send a famine on the land. We often think about that. What if Costco blew up? What if there were no more Walmarts? What if Superstore went the way of all flesh? What if the power grid collapsed? There is devastation more severe. But I will send a famine on the land, not a famine of Bradnor, a thirst for water, but of hearing the words of Jehovah. They shall wander from sea to sea and from north to east. They shall run to and fro, seeking the word of the Lord, but shall not find it. Mark Devers says here, instead of hearing the cry of God's prophets, the people of Israel would, several decades later, hear the battle cry of the Syrian invaders. C.H. Spurgeon says your neglected Bibles hide your God. Your neglected Bibles hide your God. This is what Paul is saying in Colossians 3. How do you put to death and how do you put off? You need to read your Bible. You need to pray. You need to, dare I say it, read theology. We'll stretch our minds for anything and everything that interests us. Think of all the time, the effort, the money that is spent on pornography. Isn't our God worthy of some time, some effort, and some money? If you're too poor to buy a book, I have plenty in here. I'll give you one. Free of charge. Take it and read it. There's really no excuse for us in the 21st century to be negligent of basic Christian theology. There's really no excuse whatsoever. Let's return to Colossians 3, make a couple of concluding thoughts, and then we go. The first, of course, is the emphasis of the passage. Oh, no, I don't want to miss this. Verse 11, whether it's neither Greek nor Jew, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave nor free, but Christ is all in all. Not only has the old man been put off, not only has the new man been put on, but there is a new humanity in operation. And in that new humanity, racial distinctions do not keep us from the same Lord. Doesn't mean when you become a Christian, if you were formerly an Italian, you become Dutch. Or if you were Dutch, then you become Italian. Or if you were a Gentile, now you've got Jewish blood in you. That's already saying. He is saying, however, that in Christ we are all one new man. And it's interesting, the various categories that he highlights here. He speaks of the particular distinctions that were there, whether they be racial, ceremonial, cultural or social. When he mentions the barbarians and the Scythians, you got to think here, the Scythians were a subset of barbarian. Scythians were very barbaric barbarians. The word barbarian came from sort of how they made fun of the way they spoke. Bar-bar. That's how they speak. Bar-bar. They can't even speak in a good tongue. They call them barbarians. The Scythians were basically intermediaries in a slave trade. They trafficked in slavery. They trafficked in grain. They were looked upon as the worst of the worst. In fact, Raymond says concerning them in the Jews looked upon them as exemplars of the lowest form of barbarians. He goes on in the church. None are to be so regarded. So in this new humanity, the racial distinctions that might be going on in the Roman Empire, the things that separate men out there within the church walls, a Scythian may preach the gospel to you. A barbarian may serve the Lord's supper to you. A Gentile may show you to your seat. You see what this new status has done, it has broken down all those discriminatory things and has made us one new man in Jesus Christ to bring him glory and to bring him honor. The emphasis of the passage, the sins condemned in verses five and eight are those things not becoming a new man in Christ. You cannot profess to be a Christian and live in these things. Notice what I said. You cannot profess to be a Christian and live in these things. The very fact that they're repeated several times in the New Testament indicates to me that sometimes Christians may fall into these things, but hopefully they repent and forsake those sins and find mercy with God. The Christian is to put to death and put off those things that are contrary to his position as a new man. Again, you're not to play games with that. Paul doesn't say do these things, but don't get caught. Do these things when you're all alone. Do these things so that nobody else sees you. He uses radical language, which shows us the radical nature of the Christian life. You are to put to death these things. Romans 8, 13. If by the spirit you do mortify the deeds of the flesh, you will live. It is to be hard core. The old man is dead. That means when you sin, you cannot blame the old man, but you must take responsibility as a new man who has sinned and repented. Again, you read literature on sanctification, you see a lot of ink spilled on this old man, new man thing. The old man is crucified. That's what the Bible says. Which also indicates to us, you don't have to say, I'm not saying we'll ever be perfect and all that, but follow the argument. You can't say I couldn't help myself. Yes, you could. One very misunderstood passages, First Corinthians, Chapter 10 in this regard, First Corinthians, Chapter 10. You may turn their first well, therefore, let him who thinks he stands taking less default. No temptation is overtaking you, except such as is common demand. We identify their own way. We like that, and I like it, too. When I fall into temptation, I'm not all alone. There's brethren who have gone there before me. There's been there's other brothers in my my boat. There's other people that are other pilgrims that are tried and suffer as perhaps I am. That's what Paul says here. Notice, first of all, no, no temptation has overtaken you, except such as is common to man. You can't say, oh, I'm all alone. Nobody knows what it's like. Yeah, we do. Yeah, we do. You know, maybe our circumstances don't parallel yours exactly, but you're not an island under yourself and everybody's against you. God's against you. The world's against you. You're all alone. Everything's bad. No, it's never that dramatic. Sorry. Take it from one who thinks that way sometimes. You've got to realize the world and God and the kingdom and the church are a whole lot bigger than us. We think we're it. We think we're the center of the universe. If you ever find it, there we will be. Hello, we're the sign. I am the center of the universe. That's not right. But now, what does Paul say in verse 13? But God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able. Why, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape that you may be able to bear it. You see, so sometimes Christians will fall into sin and say, I have no choice. not according to First Corinthians 10. You had a choice and you as a new man chose to engage in conduct unbecoming. Take responsibility and repent. And then, as I said, want to reiterate, the Christian is not a Christian because he doesn't commit these sins. The Christian is a Christian because of the gospel. The sooner this idea dies out, we're Christians, we don't, we don't, we do, we do. We're preaching the false gospel to the non-Christian. Somebody says, how come you're going to heaven? I hope it's not because, well, I don't fornicate. I don't use filthy language. That's not why we're going to heaven, in case you didn't know that. If you're going to heaven, it's because you've believed the gospel of Jesus Christ. You've believed on him. That's why we're going to heaven. And as far as we're able, we need to communicate that to others. And then finally, if you are not a Christian, I hope that you see that acting like a Christian doesn't make you a Christian. Let me just say that again, because I think sometimes after especially a little longer of a sermon, a little bit more, we got to look at some text. We can kind of get lost in the shelf. Wait a minute. OK, I'm going to take this message on. OK, I just can't this and I can't this and I can't this and I do this and I do this and I do that and I'm OK with God. No. Acting like you're married, like the girl in the illustration, putting a ring on her finger, putting a veil on her head, saying I do to an invisible partner doesn't make her married. Right. We actually say that's weird, wouldn't we? That's weird that she thinks she's married and she has no marriage partner. It's weird when someone thinks they're a Christian because of what they don't do or because of what they do do. It means they haven't understood the gospel. The gospel is not a warm religious feeling. The gospel isn't simply what we identify Christianity with. The gospel is good news. Good news centering on the message of Jesus Christ. That he came into this world. That he lived a perfect 33 years. Never sinning, never breaking the law of God, never reneging on a promise, never fornicating, never engaged in unclean thinking, never engaged in filthy talk, never engaged in any of the things condemned there. He fulfilled the righteous requirements of God's law. And then he came to the cross and he died. Why did he die? To take away the sins of his people. And then after that he was buried and then he rose again on the third day. He appeared for 40 days to his disciples and then he ascended on high where he now sits at the right hand of his father. That's the gospel. That's the good news. And the Bible teaches much to the chagrin of every man out there who is unconverted that when you believe that good news you are saved and you're going to go to heaven. That's offensive to people. Somebody could come to me and say, why are you going to heaven? Because I believe the gospel. But Mother Teresa did so many things better than you. Yeah. Well, no one goes to heaven because of how many good things they did. We go to heaven because of the finished work of Jesus Christ. So if you are here and you don't get that. Talk to Pastor Cam, talk to Deacon Steve, talk to me, talk to somebody and hear what the gospel's all about. It's not just stop and do, it's believe. It's look and live. You fail or you mistake on this point and there are eternal consequences. It's not about what we do. It's about what Jesus has done. And when we believe that, then our conduct will be affected. When we believe the truth, then the idea is, is that we'll go out and live like new men. We'll live like Jesus followers. Well, let us pray. Father, we thank you for the Holy Scriptures and we thank you for the emphasis in this passage upon the gospel of Jesus Christ. And we thank you that you have not dealt with us according to our sins nor rewarded us according to our transgressions. We praise you that as far as the East is from the West. So you have removed our iniquities. We know it's only because of what Jesus Christ has done, his life, his death, his resurrection. And our father, I pray that any and all who do not know Christ as Lord and Savior would believe this gospel today. that they would stop with their attempts at works righteousness, that they would stop with their attempt to please you in their own flesh and in their own strength. God, I pray that you'd open up their hearts and cause them to receive your truth. And may they indeed come to know Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. And for your people here, God, for Christians, for those who have died with Christ, for those who have put on the new man that is being renewed in the knowledge of him who created him. God, I pray that we would put off these things, that we would seek to deal aggressively and violently with our sin, that we would know the scripture, that we would study your word, and that it would not be said of us, my people are destroyed for a lack of knowledge. God, go with us now, we pray in Jesus' holy name. Amen.
