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Matthew chapter 7. Matthew chapter 7. This morning
we looked at the woman which was a sinner that's converted
by the grace of God. She comes to the Lord Jesus.
She shows, demonstrates her love and her worship and adoration
for Christ. And we meet with the judgmental
attitude of the Pharisee. He both judges the woman and
the Lord Christ. And so I thought we would develop
that idea of judgmentalism. It's an unfortunate reality that
judgmentalism is probably not confined to Pharisees in the
first century. But judgmentalism can indeed
infest our own souls, our own hearts. It can affect our relationships
with wives, with husbands, with children, with parents. It can
affect our relationships within the church. It's one of those
subjects that we ought to often address and search our own hearts
so that we do not fall prey to that mindset demonstrated by
that Pharisee. His was a bit conspicuous, it
wasn't so overt like, say, the Pharisee in Luke 18, that thank
God that he wasn't like other men. thanked God that he wasn't
like that tax collector there, so it can be somewhat hidden
at times, other times it can be a lot more open and visibly
demonstrated, but it's good for us to see what Scripture says
concerning this and seek by the grace of God to guard our tongue,
to guard our minds and our hearts. I love that Psalm, Psalm 141,
that we began worship with. What does David say? Set a guard
over my mouth. We need sentries, we need sentinels,
we need armed guards watching diligently over our mouths so
that we don't use them as a means by which we sin. Well, let's
look at Matthew 7. I'll read the verses 1 to 12,
but our focus is on 1 to 5 this evening. Judge not that you be
not judged. For with what judgment you judge,
you will be judged. And with the measure you use,
it will be measured back to you. And why do you look at the speck
in your brother's eye, but do not consider the plank in your
own eye? Or how can you say to your brother,
let me remove the speck from your eye? And look, a plank is
in your own eye. Hypocrite! First remove the plank
from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the
speck from your brother's eye. Do not give what is holy to the
dogs, nor cast your pearls before swine, lest they trample them
under their feet and turn and tear you in pieces. Ask, and
it will be given to you. Seek, and you will find. Knock,
and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives. And he who seeks, finds. And
to him who knocks, it will be opened. Or what man is there
among you, who if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone?
Or if he asks for a fish, will he give him a serpent? If you
then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children,
how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things
to those who ask Him? Therefore, whatever you want
men to do to you, do also to them, for this is the law and
the prophets. Amen. Well, let us pray. Father,
we thank you for the written word. We pray for the ministry
of the Holy Spirit. We pray that he would help us
to understand this passage, help us to apply this passage, and
may you, by your grace, keep us from sinning the sin of this
passage. Grant us the grace, God, to deal
with people in a righteous way. Grant us the grace, God, in our
families, and in our church, and wherever we find ourselves,
to exercise self-control, and to exercise selflessness, and
to judge with righteous judgment, not according to our own wicked
and preconceived notions. We ask now that you would guide
our study, and we pray in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ.
Amen. Well, as we look at chapter 7,
verses 1 to 5, there is, as I said, a prohibition against judgmentalism. This is in the larger context
of the Sermon on the Mount. The Lord Jesus went up, He sat
down, and He began to speak authoritatively, declaratively. He spoke the truth
as it concerned the kingdom of God Most High. So we might suggest
that this is a kingdom ethic. This is the way we are to conduct
ourselves as kingdom citizens. We say, by God's grace, we have
entered into the kingdom. We say, by God's grace, we are
washed in the blood of the Lamb. We say, by God's grace, we have
believed on Him, we have repented from our sin. Well, we must live
like that. We must live consistently, and
that empowered by the Spirit, not suggesting that we can just
dig down deep and do what God says concerning His kingdom.
We need the Spirit every step of the way, but we need this
written Word to define for us the conduct that we are to imitate,
the conduct that we are to demonstrate with reference to life in God's
kingdom. So this prohibition against judgmentalism,
there are three particulars that we ought to notice. In the first
place, there is a prohibition, verse 1. Secondly, some explanation
in verse 2. And then thirdly, an illustration
in verses 3 to 5. But note first the prohibition.
Judge not that you be not judged. Now, this text, unfortunately,
is oftentimes used as a weapon. When Christians speak out against
any sort of evil, non-Christians show their biblical literacy
by quoting Matthew 7.1 and throwing it in the faces of Christian
people, saying, but you're not supposed to judge. You're not
supposed to engage in judgment, because Jesus says that in Matthew
7.1. I submit that this is a very
abused text in our generation. But I don't
think it's only been in our generation, for J.C. Ryle, writing in the
1800s, said this concerning the abuse of Matthew 7.1. He said, the first portion of
these verses is one of those passages of Scripture which we
must be careful not to strain beyond its proper meaning. It
is frequently abused and misapplied by the enemies of true religion.
It is possible to press the words of the Bible so far that they
yield not medicine, but poison. You see, if we took that interpretation
that we are never, ever to exercise any sort of judgment whatsoever,
it would put us in antithesis with the Bible itself. There
are several instances where God's people are called to judge, and
interestingly enough, in this very context. Notice in verse
6, "...do not give what is holy to the dogs, nor cast your pearls
before swine, lest they trample them under their feet and turn
and tear you into pieces." Now that's an odd suggestion, recommendation,
commandment by our Lord if He means we are universally forbidden
from ever exercising judgment. Isn't there a degree of judgment
involved in identifying who's a pig and who's a dog? Jesus
isn't name-calling here. He's talking about the enemies
of true religion. He's talking about the enemies of the cross
of Christ. There comes a point in time in our evangelism. There
comes a point in time in our lives. There comes a point in
time where our own safety or the safety of others that we
love comes into jeopardy, and we are not to give what is holy
to the dogs. We are not to cast pearls before
swine, lest they trample them under their feet and turn and
tear you in pieces. That demands judgment. That demands
discernment. That demands the exercise of
identifying what a dog and a pig are and how we are not to deal
with them. As well, we are called to judge
in matters of doctrinal orthodoxy. Notice in verse 15, Beware of
false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly
they are ravenous wolves. It would be hoped that the church
would practice this more diligently. We are to beware of false prophets.
Doesn't that demand discernment? Doesn't that demand discrimination?
Doesn't that demand a certain degree of judgment? So 7.1 cannot
be a universal prohibition. As well, we are called to judge
in matters of church discipline. If we continue in Matthew's Gospel,
we get to Matthew chapter 18, where Jesus says, if your brother
sins against you, go to him. If he hears you, if he repents,
then you have won your brother. If he doesn't listen to you,
then take two or three witnesses. If he doesn't listen to them,
then tell it to the church. If he still refuses to hear the
church, then let him be treated as a tax collector and as a heathen.
That's judgment. That's discernment. That's discrimination. As well, in the New Testament,
we are called to judge in matters concerning sins and the eldership.
1 Timothy 5.19, there is a process, do not receive an accusation
against an elder without two or three witnesses, but the very
mandate itself identifies the reality that discernment, discrimination,
and judgment are pronounced. As well, we are called to judge
in civil disputes. In the Church, 1 Corinthians
6, the Apostle Paul recognizes that the people of God have the
collective wisdom to adjudicate in matters concerning the people
in the body. As well, Romans 13. Society,
government, civil rulers are to exercise judgment. Can a Christian
never occupy a position of authority in civil government? Can a Christian,
because of Matthew 7.1, not be a judge in a court? Can a Christian,
in light of 7.1, not be a prosecuting attorney? Because after all,
you're not supposed to judge. No, there is a lawful place for
the exercising of judgment. It is not an unqualified and
universal prohibition to never engage in judgment. It is rather
a prohibition against a particular activity that we are all often
prone to in dealing with our brothers and sisters in Jesus
Christ. Calvin defines it thus, these
words of Christ do not contain an absolute prohibition from
judging. I hope everybody sees that, right?
Matthew 7.1, I'm sure you've heard it. Judge not lest you
be judged. If I were to say, hey, homosexuality is wrong.
Well, who are you to judge? Abortion is wrong. Well, who
are you to judge? The Bible says you're not supposed to judge.
We are most certainly supposed to judge in those matters. We
are most certainly supposed to press the law of God Most High,
not only in our private lives, but family and church and society. These words of Christ do not
contain an absolute prohibition from judging, but are intended
to cure a disease which appears to be natural to us all. We see
how all flatter themselves, and every man passes a severe censure
on others. This vice is attended by some
strange enjoyment." In other words, the judgmental person
that Jesus is condemning here is petty, is censorious, is fault-finding,
is nitpicking, and there is, as Calvin says, some strange
enjoyment to it. He says, for there is hardly
any person who is not tickled with the desire of inquiring
into other people's faults. Now, you might say, well, I know
people like that. I know there are certain people
like that. You have to admit, brethren, that that's probably
in all of our hearts to some degree or other. Somebody were
to come into church and say, Wow, I had a great week, everything
was wonderful, and I got a promotion at work, and my wife made me
eggs and brought it to me in bed. You'd probably start to
zone out and just go elsewhere, because that's not really that
interesting. But he happened to come in and say, You know,
I got picked up in the park for engaging in some sort of immoral
behavior. For whatever reason, that demands
or grabs our attention. It's the same reason that on
the news they don't show people that are faithful, people that
work hard, people that do what they're supposed to do. They
pay their taxes, they shovel their driveways of the snow. We're drawn to those things,
unfortunately, which are base and which are dark, and that's
what the prohibition has to do with. The meaning of the text
specifically, it forbids a nitpicking, fault-finding, petty approach
to our brother's shortcomings. As Calvin said, it is often attended
by some strange enjoyment. Now, I must suggest at this point,
if there's some strange enjoyment in our hearts concerning something
wrong with our brothers and sisters, we need to get a handle on that.
There ought not to be some strange enjoyment about such things. We ought to love our brethren. We ought to esteem our brethren.
We ought to want to promote our brethren. We want to weep with
those who weep. We want to rejoice with those
who rejoice. We don't get mad at the guy who
had a great week. Because we didn't have one. No,
there ought not to be some strange enjoyment attached to this particular. This involves an utter disregard
for that principle of love indicated in 1 Corinthians 13, 7. Love bears all things, believes
all things, hopes all things, endures all things. You see,
this nitpicking, fault-finding, petty, censorious attitude is
contrary to 1 Corinthians 13, 7. As well, it's contrary to
Colossians 3, 13. We are told there to bear with
one another and forgiving one another. Royal again. He says,
What our Lord means to condemn is a censorious and fault-finding
spirit, a readiness to blame others for trifling offenses
or matters of indifference, a habit of passing rash and hasty judgments,
a disposition to magnify the errors and infirmities of our
neighbors and make the worst of them. This is what our Lord
forbids. It was common among the Pharisees.
Grant Osborne adds, the key component here is the absence of love. You see, Jesus is not saying
never exercise judgment, never exercise discernment, never exercise
discrimination, but he is saying that when you do, with reference
to the people around you, do it in a biblical way, do it in
a godly way, don't do it in a way that is demonstrated by or displayed
by these Pharisees. That man this morning in Luke
chapter 7, isn't that pathetic? I hope that's not us. I hope
we would never say this man, if he were a prophet, would know
what manner of woman this is. She's a sinner. Guess what, Simon? We're all sinners. We're all
in this boat together. We've all got problems. We've
all offended God. We've all raised our fist at
the Most High. We have all breached His commandments.
We have all lacked conformity unto His law. We have transgressed
it. We have done every evil thing
under the sun. So it's not the case that we,
with our sort of self-righteousness and our high-mindedness, look
down upon others. That's what Christ is condemning
in the passage. And note the reason for the prohibition. Notice specifically, that you
be not judged. Now the judgment here is most
likely God's judgment upon you. It's most likely the danger,
the reality, that if you live a life like a Pharisee, if you
live a life of nitpickiness, if you live a life of fault-findingness,
then you are not going to do well at the throne of God Most
High. Doesn't James tell us, So speak,
and so do, as those who will be judged by the law of liberty.
For judgment is without mercy to the one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment. If you have shown no mercy, if
you have not been kind, if you have not been a man, a woman,
a boy or a girl of love, you're not going to find that at the
throne. I saw an article recently posted
on a blog with reference to pornography, and it was seven reasons you
should not indulge in pornography. Now, I just skimmed the article.
I can't vouch for every jot and tittle of it, but the first one
was striking. The first reason why you should
not indulge in pornography. Indulging in pornography will
send you to hell. It's a pretty candid way to treat
that particular subject, isn't it? You get the gist, you get
the drift, you get the understanding. A man or a woman who engages
in a regular indulgement in pornography unrepentantly is in danger of
hellfire. Well, if we look at our passage
and we understand what Jesus is saying, we might also suggest
that this thing condemned by Christ, this self-righteous attitude,
this judgmentalism, Do not indulge in it because you will end up
in hell. This is something that the people
of God need to take to heart. We are quick to judge pornography,
and rightly so, but we're not always so quick to judge judgmentalism. As I mentioned this morning,
we condemn the crack dealers and we condemn the prostitutes,
but we don't condemn ourselves for what Bridges calls respectable
sins. Not Charles Bridges, the author
of Proverbs, but Jerry Bridges, who recently passed and went
to be with the Lord. It's a book called Respectable
Sins. The idea behind the book is that
within the life of the Church, there are respectable sins. Not really, but at least theoretically. We preach against abortion. We
preach against sodomy. We preach against euthanasia.
And, well, we should, but our self-righteousness, our gossip,
our slander, our judgmentalism are sins that don't seem to be
so severe. They're sins that don't seem
to be so grievous to God. Well, Christ on the mount certainly
dealt with this particular sin. Do not be judgmental. Do not
be pharisaical. Do not be nitpicky. Do not be
censorious. Do not be a fault finder. Do
not go against 1 Corinthians 13, 7 and Colossians 3. Bear
with one another. Be ready to forgive one another. Don't always be so quick to pounce
upon a person, but rather exercise love. This is the point of our
Savior's words in this very passage. Now, note in the second place
the explanation that He gives. Prohibition, verse 1, judge not
that you be not judged. Secondly, the explanation. For
with what judgment you judge, you will be judged, and with
the measure you use, it will be measured back to you." The
idea being that if we judge persons according to our whims, according
to our feelings, according to our standards, according to what
we conceive is the best way to operate, then we will find ourselves
at the bar of God in a very bad situation. We will understand
what James meant when he said, Judgment is without mercy to
the one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment.
Christ spoke elsewhere concerning the righteousness of judgment.
We are to exercise judgment, as I hope we've already demonstrated,
but in John 7, 24, he says, Do not judge according to appearance,
but judge with righteous judgment. You know, if somebody flings
7-1 in your face, fling 7-24 from John back in there. So I'm
just kidding. You don't want to get in a flinging
match. But the Christ who prohibits in 7.1 in Matthew's Gospel is
the Christ who defines how we are to judge in John 7.24. For
with what judgment you judge, you will be judged. And the measure
you use, it will be measured back to you. If you engage in
life as a petty person, if you engage in life as a merciless
person, if you engage in life as a fault-finding person, then
you will stand before the throne of God and have to give an account
for such things. Mercy, charity, love, graciousness,
kindness, gentleness, faithfulness, self-control, the fruits of the
Spirit. Those are the sorts of things that ought to characterize
our interpersonal relationships, certainly in our churches, but
in our homes. Brethren, isn't this what Solomon
spoke to concerning the man who'd rather, you know, it's better
for him to live in the wilderness or better live on his rooftop
than with a nagging woman? Probably that woman was nitpicky.
Probably that woman was fault-finding. Probably nothing that man ever
did was good enough for her. That's a wretched and a terrible
way to live. And Christ condemns it, and Christ
says, don't do it. You are kingdom citizens. You
have received grace. You have received mercy. You
know what the love of God is all about. You are to exercise
discernment, discrimination, judgment, all those things, but
you're supposed to do it in a proper way. Do not judge according to
appearance, but judge with righteous judgment. And then notice, thirdly
and finally, the illustration that Christ uses. The illustration,
the speck and the plank, verses 3 to 5. Now, sometimes people
object to humor in preaching. I don't think there's a place
for telling jokes in the pulpit, but I don't think the pulpit
ought to be devoid of humor. A woman once came to C.H. Spurgeon
and said, Mr. Spurgeon, in your preaching you
say many funny things, and this was a complaint on her part.
And he said, Woman, if you knew how much I held back, you'd be
proud of me. You can't read a Spurgeon sermon
or a lecture without laughing. I mean, one of the most excellent
things in print, dealing with the subject of depression, outside
of the Bible, is Spurgeon's The Minister's Fainting Fits. Now,
while it's called The Minister's, it is applicable to each and
every one of us. But in that, you'll go from,
you know, the hilltop of sadness and gloom, or probably the valley,
and then you're laughing, because he just says funny stuff. Christ
said some funny stuff, brethren. He wasn't a stuffed shirt. He
spoke the language of his day. Now, he wasn't vulgar, he wasn't
godless, he wasn't unholy, he didn't sin, but just think about
it. You've got this log sticking
out of your eye, and you're going after to police the speck in
your brother's eye. That's funny. The picture that
it suggests, it's like what Jesus does in Matthew 23. They strain
out the gnats and they swallow the camel. There was a kid, had
to be standing there, that laughed out loud at that particular time.
They would have texted back then, he said something, LOL, because
it was funny. Think about it, he uses these
sort of illustrations to highlight the wickedness of this manner
of life. Look at what he says in verse
3. And why do you look at the speck
in your brother's eye, but do not consider the plank in your
own eye? He says, or how can you say to
your brother, let me remove the speck from your eye, and look,
a plank is in your own eye. Hypocrite! First remove the plank
from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the
speck from your brother's eye. Now, this type of fault finding
takes effort on the part of the judge. I think we have to appreciate
this. This fellow's got a plank hanging
out of his eye, and he's going after the speck in his brother's
eye. That takes effort, brethren, just to navigate that plank so
that you don't bang it against a wall and try to find the speck.
Who's got that kind of time? The people condemned in this
passage. Fault-finding, nitpicky, censorious people that always
go after the faults of others. Just back it down. Listen to
Solomon, Proverbs 4. Keep your heart with all diligence,
for out of it spring the issues of life. Don't you love the fact
that God, through Solomon, told us to keep our own hearts? He
didn't tell us to keep everybody else's heart. He didn't tell
us to be the RCMP of people's hearts in Chilliwack. He didn't
tell us to go knocking on people's doors to look for specs. Just
mind your business. Mind your ways. This type of
fault-finding is a betrayal of that law of liberty that James
speaks of. So speak and so do as those who
will be judged by the law of liberty. This type of fault finding
is a rejection of biblical procedure. You've got this plank, he's got
this speck. You are not to go after those
sorts of things. Now, in some instances, and as
Christ continues, deal with the plank, then go after the speck. The remedy of the brother is
in view. You ought to want to help and
to correct, but Christ is dealing with the procedure that is used.
Deal with your issue, get your house in order, then you'll be
better poised to deal with the specks in other people's eyes.
Because happiness, joy, harmony, charity, love, all those things
are in view. And this type of fault-finding
is a failure to come to grips with one's own shortcomings,
failures, and sins. You do see the ridiculousness
of this. I've got a log hanging out of
my eye, and I go over to Dawn and say, you've got this speck
in your eye. What's her first response? You've got a log hanging
out of your eye. Isn't it? Now, beware of this. I mean,
that's an issue, too. Somebody comes to correct you,
reprove you, rebuke you in the name of Christ. They want to
do so lovingly and righteously. Well, what about you? You've
got all these issues. Yeah, yeah, I do have all these
issues, but insofar as I'm trying, I've withdrawn this log so that
we can deal with the speck. Let's not be hyper-defensive
when people try to correct us. Praise God if there's people
in your life that are honest enough to tell you what's what.
If you don't have anybody in your life that's honest, you
don't have a wife or a husband that will actually say, you're
acting like a fool, then you're in trouble. Brethren, we're not
at the place where we ought to just float to heaven without
any help whatsoever from anybody else. The point is, procedurally,
tend to the plank that's in your eye before you go and do spec
surgery on your brother. John Stott says, we have a fatal
tendency to exaggerate the faults of others and minimize the gravity
of our own. In Lewis's screw tape letters,
he has this letter 3. Screw tape to wormwood. Aggravate
that most useful human characteristic, the horror and neglect of the
obvious. You must bring him to a condition
in which he can practice self-examination for an hour without discovering
any of those facts about himself which are perfectly clear to
anyone who has ever lived in the same house with him or worked
in the same office. Let him examine himself for an
hour. He's not going to be able to discern what everybody around
him already sees. This type of fault finding may
as well be a means of hiding one's own sin. Remember that
planks and specks come from the same place. Note the indictment that is pronounced
here in our text. Verse 5, Jesus says, hypocrite.
Now, this is a word that is used concerning the unbelievers in
Matthew's Gospel. Matthew 6, 2, 5, and 16. But it's not confined to them.
There are times when the people of God engage in hypocrisy. There
are times when the people of God swing their planks in an
attempt to try and get the specks out of the eyes of others. Spurgeon
says Jesus is gentle, but he calls that man a hypocrite who
fusses about small things in others and pays no attention
to great matters at home in his own person. And then note finally,
with reference to this illustration, he gives an exhortation in verse
5. First remove the plank from your
own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from
your brother's eyes. Now there's two ways we can go
here. Does that mean we have to be devoid of any sin whatsoever? I'm a plankless man, so I'm coming
after your speck. No, that's probably not what's
in view. What's in view is the thing condemned
in this very passage. Lloyd-Jones explains it this
way. If you really do want to help others, and again, that's
the end view. It's not good that a brother
has a speck in his eye. And you all know what that's
like. You get something in your eye, it's quite irritating, isn't
it? It's nice to get that speck out. Well, spiritually speaking,
you got a speck in your life, it's nice to rid yourself of
it. It's nice to have a brother who comes along and helps you.
You know, your wife, your husband might, you know, put their finger
on your eye and pull out the shard or the whatever that's
in there. It's good to have that assistance. The end game in view
is to help your brethren, but there's a proper procedure in
helping your brethren. Lloyd-Jones says, if you really
do want to help others and to help to rid them of these blemishes
and faults and frailties and imperfections, first of all,
realize that your spirit and your whole attitude has been
wrong. If you are doing what this passage condemns, if you're
fault-finding, if you're nitpicky, if you're petty, if you're censorious,
the first method of speck removal is to realize that you've been
wrong in the way you've gone about it. Deal with the plank. Deplank yourself and then you
can help him. He says this spirit of judging
and hyper-criticism and censoriousness that is in you is really like
a beam contrasted with a little mote in the other person's eye.
France comments, while it is possible that the critic here
is to be understood as aware of his own failings but concealing
them, it is more likely that he is criticized for failing
to apply the same standards to himself that he applies to others
and thus being unaware of the inconsistency of his behavior. Brethren, the reality is that
in our interpersonal relationships, people are going to sin against
us. People are going to do things against us that are wrong or
inaccurate or unkind or untoward. They might not do something against
us, but they do something against God, and we, because we love
them, want to go to them. We need to check our spirits,
we need to guard our hearts, and we need to imbibe the ethic
of the kingdom, and we need to do so in a manner that is consistent
with the law of God Most High. We do not judge according to
appearance, but we judge with righteous judgment. We do not
judge devoid of love, and kindness, and gentleness, and all those
things that are evidenced by the people of God throughout
history. We are to imbibe the ethic that Jesus enjoins upon
us in this particular passage. In conclusion, the first place,
the manifestation of this particular sin. We've already covered this.
Pettiness. Pettiness. There's a sense, brethren,
we can't fix the world. In case you haven't realized
that, you cannot fix the world. I'm getting to the point where
if people aren't actually assaulting me, I'm okay with that. Maybe
I'm lowering the bar to some degree, but if they're not hurting
me and putting knives in me, then I'm okay with that. It's
a pettiness that oftentimes settles upon the hearts of God's people. We're not the police. We're not
God's police. We've got to leave room for the
Holy Spirit of God. And again, brethren, I'm not
saying we don't go to brethren. We do go to brethren. We go in
the way that Jesus specifies. But pettiness. As well, fault
finding. It's tough to live under that
kind of regime, that everything you do is wrong. Again, I gotta
think that man who'd rather live on the rooftop or he'd rather
live in the wilderness has a wife that's condemned by this particular
text. Then it can be husbands, too,
that are this way to their wives. As well, being hypercritical.
Hypercritical. As Steve mentioned this morning,
it's easier to complain about political leaders than it is
to pray for political leaders. Yep, guilty, right here. I need
that admonition all the time. I need that reminder all the
time. I need 1 Timothy 2, you know,
on my forehead, pray for kings and those who are in authority
because it's easy to complain. They give us lots of reasons
to make it easy to complain, to be sure, but that doesn't
get us off the hook. But this hypercritical attitude
or an excessive eagerness, you know, when you have to deal with
somebody who's in sin, there's an excessive eagerness That's
not really good. A person who's going to deal
with sin effectively in the life of somebody else prays about
it. They agonize about it. It's tough
to go and say, Brother, you've got a speck in your eye and I
want to try to help you get it out. If you're, you know, running
to him to grab his back, just back it down. Excessive eagerness
is not a good thing. Curiosity, peevishness. These are some of the words suggested
by John Calvin. As well, we ought to appreciate
the gravity of this particular sin. In a certain sense, it is
an arrogant assertion of our authority over others. I don't
mean that in some charismatic, Pentecostal, spiritual authority
thing. I just mean we assume the role
of lawgiver and we stand in judgment over brethren. That's not a good
place to be. As well, it is certainly an expression
of self-righteousness. I mean, going back to the illustration,
if my plank is about to hit Dawn in the head when I go after her
speck, she's going to say, what about the plank in your eye?
My self-righteousness is such that it clouds my vision. I don't
even see it. All I see are specs, and I'm
on a mission. I'm SEAL Team 6 when it comes
to specs. It doesn't matter, I've got a
log hanging out of my eye. It is a demonstration of a lack
of charity, and it is a practical denial of the doctrine of remaining
corruption. at least to the reality of remaining
corruption in our own hearts and lives. If you recognize that
every one of God's people has remaining corruption except you,
you've got big problems. You've got remaining corruption
like the rest of us. Thirdly, the prevention of judgmentalism. Now, I didn't master these. This
is my list of how I've mastered judgment. No, no, no. But just
musing upon, reflecting upon certain scriptures, I think these
can at least be helpful. Certainly not an exhaustive list.
In the first place, seek the gracious influence of the Holy
Spirit in your life. I mean, shouldn't that be where
God's people start with every sin, with every issue, with every
problem, with every trial? We ought to seek the gracious
influence of the Holy Spirit. God, I want to be faithful to
my wife. I want to be faithful to my husband. I want to be faithful
in my church, and I want to deal with people righteously. I need
the Spirit, because apart from the Spirit, I just make a mess
of things. Apart from the wisdom of God from on high, I just ruin
things, and I don't want to do that. Secondly, seek to apply
biblical law to all matters of judgment. It's an amazing thing. Again, we see the law of God
violate an abortion. We all condemn with reference
to the sixth commandment. We see the law of God violated
with reference to homosexuality, seventh commandment. But we don't
see this violation of the law of God when it comes to our own
practice. You've probably heard me say many, many times, and
if it's becoming ad nauseum, I'm sorry. I don't know how else
to say it, but Proverbs 18 is absolutely crucial. There are
two passages in Proverbs 18 that every Christian ought to commit
to memory. He who answers a matter before he hears it, it's sin
or shame and folly to him. Do we ever do that? We hear one
side of a story and we just flip out. Before we've heard the matter,
before we've heard the situation, before we understand the facts
of the case, imagine going to court and you're prosecutor,
you're the defendant, and the prosecutor comes and sets forth
his case, the judge slams down the hammer and says, that's it,
we've heard enough. Wait a minute, what about my
defense? What about the other side? And
you know, how many times as Christians do we get one side of a story
and we jump, we run, we fly to judgment? Proverbs 18, 17, the
first to plead his cause seems right, until his neighbor comes
and examines him. I know that was you that robbed
that bank. I'm alibied, man, I was in Hawaii
on vacation. You just never know the scenario
until you hear both sides. How many times are churches destroyed,
not by a denial of the deity of Christ, though they can be
destroyed by that, not by a denial of justification by faith, but
because of gossip, because of slander, because of things that
arise, and then persons give ear to one side of the story,
and it causes a rift, and it ruptures, and it splits the people
of God. We need to pursue humility and
kill pride. A judgmental attitude is descriptive
or demonstrative, rather, of pride, of arrogance. Who are
you to stand in judgment over other persons according to your
whims, according to your feelings, according to what you think?
We need to judge with righteous judgment according to God's law. We need to understand the biblical
doctrine of sin and how it is true of us. Remaining corruption. I know. We ought to know. We
ought to be able to say, I know it's in me to make a false assessment. I know it's in me to be wrong.
Right? Am I making sense? If you think
that you're never wrong, or you're always right, you've got bigger
problems than this passage addresses. Spurgeon said, instead of beholding
with gratified gaze the small fault of another, we should act
reasonably if we penitently consider the greater fault of ourselves. So that's understanding the doctrine
of remaining corruption in us. But remember the doctrine of
remaining corruption in others. Do we expect too much out of
people? No, we ought to expect perfect,
exact, entire, and perpetual obedience to the law. That's
really what we ought to expect because that's what God commands.
It's never been relaxed. It's never been reneged. It's
never been pulled back. So on the one hand, we should
expect that. But when we're dealing with blood-bought children of
God, and we know their weaknesses, and we know their remaining corruptions,
I'm not saying excuse their sins, I'm not saying pretend they don't
sin, but I am saying exercise charity, compassion, love, kindness. You can rebuke someone and then
hug them. You can rebuke someone and then
go have coffee with them. You ought to be able to do this. This is what greases the wheels
of the kingdom of God. Love, kindness, gentleness, graciousness,
love to one another. We ought to value, esteem and
love our brethren. Do you realize to one another
we ought not to be judges and hypocrites? We ought to be brethren.
This is absolutely crucial. And then interestingly enough,
the final observation in terms of prevention is found in our
passage. That golden rule in 7.12, Therefore,
whatever you want men to do to you, do also to them, for this
is the law and the prophets. Right? Imagine if 7-12 was actually
in practice in our homes, in our churches, in society. Imagine
if people actually looked out for the well-being of others.
I mean, it's a very simple rule. Whatever you want men to do to
you, do also to them. You don't want them to swing
their planks and to hit you in the side of the head while they
fetch the speck out of your eye. Well, don't do that to them.
You want them to deal with you in kindness, with charity, with
love, with graciousness, then that's what you want to do with
them. You see, it's a very simple rule, but it does require great
grace, and it requires the presence of the Holy Spirit in the lives
of God's people. And certainly, finally, the way
by which we get these things under control is at the cross. We don't get them under control
at the cross. God gets it under control by means of the cross.
In other words, what's the best death knell to self-righteousness
in the heart of a person? It's the cross. It's the crucified
Savior. It's the Lord of glory. It's
the gospel. We understand the Gospel. If
by the grace of God we believe the Gospel, if we have come to
Christ, we have the ability, we have the empowerment by the
Spirit to actually follow what God's Word says. And if you are
not a believer here tonight, the only means by which self-righteousness
will ever, ever vanish in your life is through the cross. You
need Christ, you need His righteousness, you need that forgiveness. You
are in sin and in rebellion against God Almighty. Pettiness and fault-finding
and nitpicking and censoriousness might not be your issues particularly. But if we look at that law of
God, idolatry, or blasphemy, or insubordination to authority,
or Sabbath-breaking, or murder, or adultery, or theft, or lying,
or covetousness, those things will find you out. The only remedy
and the only hope for salvation is through Jesus Christ the Lord. Believe, and by God's grace,
you will be saved. Well, let us pray. Our Father,
we thank You for Your Word, and we thank You that Christ does
Address such things in this Sermon on the Mount, and I pray that
we'd have ears to hear and hearts to receive, and that the Word
of God would have a positive effect, not only in our lives
as individuals, but in our families and in our church. Help us, as
the people of God here, to endeavor to keep the unity of the Spirit
and the bond of peace, Keep us from these sorts of things that
evidence a carnal heart rather than a spiritual heart. Give
us grace, God, to put into practice these things so that we may honor
you, that we may glorify you, and that we may legitimately
show love for our brothers and our sisters. We have been saved
to love God. We have been saved to love one
another. Help us to do this, we pray, through Jesus Christ
our Lord. Amen.