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Exodus chapter 20. Exodus 20, I'll pick up reading
in verse 1. And God spoke all these words saying, I am the
Lord your God who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out
of the house of bondage. You shall have no other gods
before me. You shall not make for yourself
a carved image, any likeness of anything that is in heaven
above or that is in the earth beneath. or that is in the water
under the earth. You shall not bow down to them
nor serve them. For I, the Lord your God, am
a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children
to the third and fourth generations of those who hate Me, but showing
mercy to thousands, to those who love Me and keep My commandments.
You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain, for
the Lord will not hold Him guiltless who takes His name in vain. Remember
the Sabbath day to keep it holy. Six days you shall labor and
do all your work, but the seventh day is the Sabbath of the Lord
your God. In it you shall do no work, you nor your son, nor
your daughter, nor your male servant, nor your female servant,
nor your cattle, nor your stranger who is within your gates. For
in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea
and all that is in them, and rested the seventh day. Therefore,
the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and hallowed it. Honor your
father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the
land which the Lord your God is giving you. You shall not
murder. You shall not commit adultery.
You shall not steal. You shall not bear false witness
against your neighbor. You shall not covet your neighbor's
house. You shall not covet your neighbor's wife, nor his male
servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor
anything that is your neighbor's. Now all the people witnessed
the thunderings, the lightning flashes, the sound of the trumpet,
and the mountain smoking. And when the people saw it, they
trembled and stood afar off. Then they said to Moses, You
speak with us, and we will hear. But let not God speak with us,
lest we die. And Moses said to the people,
Do not fear, for God has come to test you, and that His fear
may be before you, so that you may not sin. So the people stood
afar off, But Moses drew near the thick darkness where God
was. Amen. Let us pray. Father, we
thank You for Your holy law. And we pray that Your Spirit
would guide us in our study of Your Word. And that You would
just help us, Father in Heaven, to seek by Your grace to obey
these things, knowing that we have been saved under this. Knowing
that we have been saved by grace through faith in Christ, so that
we may live a life that is well-pleasing in Your sight. We also pray,
God, for any and all that do not know you. We pray that the
law would do that work of conviction, that that law would indeed show
the sinner who he is before a holy God, and that the gospel of free
and sovereign grace would come as welcome relief. We pray this
in Jesus' name. Amen. Well, this evening we're
going to sort of jump right into Mount Sinai here and just take
one of the commandments, specifically, the ninth commandment that deals
with honesty. The commandment reads in verse
16, you shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.
It is repeated in Deuteronomy 5.20. Deuteronomy simply means
second law. It is the second giving of the
law, the same law, to the young people that were now older when
they came out of the wilderness wandering. The wilderness generation
died, their posterity was getting ready to enter into the promised
land, and so the law was re-read, re-ratified with them to prepare
them for life in Canaan. Now, before we actually jump
into verse 16, you should know that there are a few different
ways to use the law of God. The Apostle Paul says in 1 Timothy
1a, we know that the law is good if one uses it lawfully, which
implies that there is an unlawful use for the law of God. It is
unlawful to try and be saved by law keeping. We are sinners. We break that law all the time. No man can do everything written
in the Law of God. And so one of the uses of God's
Law is what's called a pedagogical use. or a child tutor. The Law
comes to convict. The Law comes to show us what
we are before God. The Law comes to humble us and
break us and display to us why we need the Savior, the Lord
Jesus Christ. That has been called the first
use of the Law. The second use is the civil use. And that means that the Law of
God is good as it applies to people within society. And then the third use of the
law is called the normative use. And the normative use means simply
this, that we come by grace to the Lord Jesus Christ. He saves
us freely, graciously, mercifully. It's not by works that we do.
It's not by law keeping. But then once He saves us, He
then shows us the will of God In the law. So the law becomes
a guide for us. Again, not so that we can earn
our salvation, but because we've been saved by grace, it serves
as a pattern, or it displays for us what is pleasing to the
Lord our God. So we're approaching this this
evening with the first and the third use in mind. Pedagogical. If you don't know Jesus Christ
tonight, my hope and my prayer is that if you are a liar, God
will find you out and convict you and show you that this is
indeed a great and a heinous sin and that there is only one
remedy and that is in the Lord Jesus Christ. than as well for
Christians, those who have been saved. We ought not to bear false
witness. We ought to speak truthfully.
We ought to be honest people. We shouldn't keep back. We shouldn't
lie. We shouldn't be shady characters.
It ought not to be the case that people can't trust a Christian. That is simply a block on the
gospel itself. And so we need to take these
commandments seriously, and we need to be concerned with what
they teach with reference to our Christian life. Now the Ten
Commandments themselves break down into two tables or two sections. We often have the idea of the
first four being on this tablet and then the last six being on
the other tablet. That's probably not the way it
was. There was probably all ten on
one tablet and all ten on the other tablet. The two tablets
being respectively, one that the Lord our God would keep and
then one that the people would keep. Similar to when you engage
in a contract today. They usually give you a copy
and they retain a copy. That's probably more akin to
what was going on with those two tablets in terms of their
structure. They were kept, of course, in
the Ark of the covenant, among other things, to show that God
holds in high regard His law and His testimony. But there
are two tables of the law. The first four are our duty toward
God. They are summed up in that statement,
You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul,
mind and strength. The last six are our duty toward
men. They are summarized by that statement,
you shall love your brother as yourself. And when we get into
that second table of the law, they are given first to protect
life. That's the sixth commandment.
Secondly, they are given to protect marriage. The seventh commandment,
then to protect property. The eighth commandment, God is
pro personal property. He is the one who owns all things,
but He graciously gives us stuff so that we can effectively steward
over it. So if we steal or take from others,
we are violating God's holy law. And then the last two commandments
move from action to word and thought and forbid false witness
and covetousness. And so we find ourselves in verse
16, and we'll look at three things with reference to the command.
First of all, the prohibition of the command. Secondly, the
reason for the command. And thirdly, the positive aspect
of the command. Reformed commentators and interpreters
have always, or at least, long as I know, have always taken
the statement, you shall not bear false witness, looked at
that as a prohibition, but then implied the positive element. You look at the Westminster Larger
Catechism, for instance. Or you look at Calvin's Institutes.
That's the way they treat the commandments. Not only what is
forbidden, but what is prescribed in the command. So when the Bible
says, you shall not murder, We haven't fulfilled the camp command
just because we don't get AK-47s and gun people down in post offices. We also must try to promote life. We must also try to promote health
and well-being and healing. We must go out of our way to
try and aid a brother who is hurting. When Jesus taught the
parable of the Good Samaritan and He said, Go thou and do likewise,
what lie behind that is a love for neighbor. Don't just walk
by. I mean, it's not enough to not
walk by and finish the job and make sure he's dead. But no,
you want to actually positively help him. So that's what I mean
by the prohibition and then the positive aspect. But sandwiched
in there, we'll look at the reason for the command. But notice first
the prohibition. And I believe there are at least
seven things, and I realize There could be more sad. There could
be less sad. But seven seems to be the lucky
number tonight. Just kidding. I don't believe
in luck. The first is obviously perjury. Notice the language
of the text. It says, you shall not bear false
witness against your neighbor. The idea is that the courtroom
is involved. The idea is that a man is being
called to testify in a criminal or civil case. And perjury is
the deliberate willful giving of false, misleading, or incomplete
testimony under oath. God takes these things very seriously. You may not always think about
it, but God really does desire honesty and truthfulness. And the courtroom is a place
that He is jealous about. Notice in Exodus chapter 23.
Exodus chapter 23, verses 1 to 3. You shall not circulate a
false report. Do not put your hand with the
wicked to be an unrighteous witness. You shall not follow a crowd
to do evil, nor shall you testify in a dispute so as to turn aside
after many to pervert justice. You shall not show partiality
to a poor man in his dispute. What a beautiful statement. We
often think about showing partiality to the rich man. Johnny Cochran
said, the color of justice in America is green. The idea being,
he who has the most money gets the best legal representation.
There is that sense where people show partiality to the rich man
because he can afford it. God says very specifically, don't
show partiality to a poor man in his dispute. That's as much
a temptation. We feel sorry for the poor guy.
He's the downtrodden. He has a bad life. He has a tough
go. Let's just lie a little bit or sort of pat our witness a
little bit so things will go favorable for him. No. God does
not condone Robin Hood. God says, do not show partiality. You tell the truth, the whole
truth, and nothing but the truth, so help you God, is what you
are required to say. Proverbs 19. Proverbs 19. The
Proverbs are filled. You go through Proverbs sometime
and you just see how often lying or any form of lying is condemned
by the Lord our God. Proverbs 19, verse 5, a false
witness will not go unpunished, and he who speaks lies will not
escape. It's repeated in verse 9, a false
witness will not go unpunished, and he who speaks lies shall
perish. One of the reasons for this is
stipulated in Proverbs 22, verse 1. It says, a good name is to
be chosen rather than great riches, loving favor rather than silver
and gold. God puts premium on our good
name. He is not about letting it get
walked all over or trashed by someone who is ungodly and unjust
and unrighteous with his tongue. God is about our reputation,
and he has put a commandment in place to protect it. You know,
sometimes people say, well, you know, my reputation isn't that
important. You're not thinking biblically. Your reputation is
very important. What people think about you,
now, it could be wrong, it could be skewed, but make it their
problem. Let them not have a real reason to devalue your reputation. God says we are to protect one
another. In Deuteronomy 19 verses 15 to
21, I'll just sort of summarize the passage. The idea is simple,
that if I allege that somebody did something to me and we stand
before the judges and it turns out that I am lying, it turns
out that I'm a false witness, it turns out I'm just trying
to get this guy into trouble, whatever punishment would have
been to him if he was guilty is given to me. That's pretty
strong. You didn't play games in old
covenant Israel. You weren't so happy. It wasn't
a litigious situation. Everybody didn't trip on, you
know, in Walmart. I got a lawsuit here. Quite ingenious. Do you imagine
that? If you bring up a man and you
accuse him of doing something, you know deep down inside that
if they find out you're lying, whatever punishment would have
been for him is given to you. Calvin comments, he says, whence
it appears that false witnesses and murderers stand in the same
light before God. A second aspect of the command,
or a second prohibition, is lying. Is lying in general. Not just
lying in general. Lying is a bad thing. Walter Kaiser says we ought to
promote the sanctity of truth in all areas of life. So you
can't reason, well I'm not in the courtroom, I'm not on the
witness stand, I am not sworn under oath, I can just play loose
with my language. No! You have to speak the truth. That's what God requires of us. Leviticus 19 and verse 11. Leviticus verse 19, it says,
You shall not steal, nor deal falsely, nor lie to one another. Verse 16, You shall not go about
as a tail bearer among your people, nor shall you take a stand against
the life of your neighbor. I am Jehovah. Don't be a tail
bearer. Don't be a gossip. We'll deal
with that in just a moment. The idea is that you speak those
things which are calculated to promote love, which are calculated
to promote necessary edification. That's what Paul says in Ephesians
4. And lying, and deceiving, and tearing off the edges, and
being ungodly with your speech does not do that. Thirdly, backbiting
or slander. Backbiting or slander. We've
all been victim to this, haven't we? Probably. You've all had
somebody talk stuff about you behind your back. You've had
somebody say bad things about your reputation. It hurts, doesn't
it? It hurts to find out that you
didn't do what people think that you did. Or that you did what
they don't think you did. But not only have we all had
it done to us, you ready? We have all done it to others.
Somehow we justify that. Somehow that's okay. Somehow
when I speak about others, I'm in my rights to do so. Not according
to God's holy law. Backbiting and slander. This
includes false and malicious statements made about another. Malicious means evil. Malicious
means bad. One of the differentiations between
murder and manslaughter. Manslaughter is if I kill somebody
accidentally. They're still dead, but I didn't
have malice in my heart. I didn't calculatedly take their
lives. I didn't premeditate it. And
backbiting and slander is false and malicious statements made
about another. Proverbs 10, verse 18, whoever
hides hatred has lying lips, and whoever spreads slander is
a fool. If you don't know the truth about
something, shut your mouth. You don't always have to comment.
You don't always have to add your two cents. You are not being
paid by CNN to give your spin on everything that comes your
way. We need to shut our mouths more. We need to guard our tongues. We need to guard against this
temptation of being backbiting and slanderers. Notice in Romans
chapter 1, as the Apostle is highlighting the universal condemnation
of all men everywhere under sin. He says in verse 18, the wrath
of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness
of men. Why? Because they suppress the
truth in unrighteousness. He goes on to describe how this
manifests itself. What does it look like when we
have a group of people who do not honor God as God, who do
not give Him thanks, who would rather worship and serve the
creature rather than the Creator, who is God, blessed forever?
What does a people look like that are given over to that kind
of idolatry? What do a people look like when
they are given over into abandonment to sin? Well, of course, he says
in verse 26, for this reason God gave them up. to vile passions,
for even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against
nature. Likewise also the men, leaving
the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one
another, men with men, committing what is shameful, and receiving
in themselves the penalty of their error which was due. And
even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge,
God gave them over to a debased mind. to do those things which
are not fitting. Being filled with all unrighteousness,
sexual immorality, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness,
full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil mindedness. They are whisperers, back biters,
Haters of God. Violent, proud boasters. Inventors
of evil things. Disobedient to parents. Undiscerning. Untrustworthy. Unloving. Unforgiving. Unmerciful. Who, knowing the
righteous judgment of God, that those who practice such things
are deserving of death, not only do the same, but also approve
of those who practice that. Well, you look at that catalog
of sins. There's some pretty heinous things in there. Homosexuality. Wow! It's an abomination. Greg Bonson says, therefore,
homosexuality that is publicly accepted is symptomatic of a
society under judgment. Inwardly corrupted to the point
of impending collapse, Paul the Apostle regarded it as the most
overt evidence of that degeneracy to which God, in His wrath, gave
over the nations. Homosexuality. Murder. These
are the big ones, right? Sexual sin. Vile activity. So is backbiting and whispering.
Whispering doesn't mean, you know, you don't want to be heard.
The idea is you're speaking about somebody else. It's not like
in church when you're saying, shh, be quiet. You're whispering
under your breath, we'll eat when we get home or whatever.
That's not the whispering. God's not anti-whisper. He probably
would like me to whisper more often. It's this talking behind
people's backs. You've got homosexuality. You've
got murder. You've got God's wrath and judgment
on a people for having abandoned Him. So, in essence, God abandons
them. That's the point of Romans 1.
God gave them over. And linked with those big things
that we all hate are these sins of the tongue that we all practice. Much as we rail against engaging
in outward wickedness like homosexuality, let's be against speaking evil
with our tongues. A fourth way is gossip and tailbearing. Gossip and tailbearing, similar,
but perhaps the maliciousness isn't there. This is more of
the busybody. This is more of the person who
just can't keep their nose out of someone else's business. Not
everything that comes near you is your business. Please, remember
that. Rumor or talk of a personal,
sensational or intimate nature. Somebody might confide something
in you. They don't want you to broadcast
it. They certainly don't want you to email it to the church.
Guard yourself. Watch out. Don't be a gossip. Don't be a tail-bearer. Leviticus
19 and verse 16, we already saw that. Leviticus 19 and verse
16. Again, the Proverbs are full
of this. You shall not go about as a tail-bearer
among your people. That's just simply wrong. You
shouldn't do it. I'll write this down for later.
Proverbs 11, 13, 18, 8, 20, 19, 26, 20, and 26, 22 all deal with gossip
or tail bearing. God actually cares about these
things and He would rather you close your mouth than sin against
Him and against His people. A fifth is hypocrisy. Isn't hypocrisy
lying? Hypocrisy is bearing false witness. We see this a lot in religious
circles. People who profess faith, but
do not possess faith. People who say they follow Jesus,
but live like the devil. Hypocrisy is damnable. Hypocrisy
is wicked. Now, I'm speaking of reigning
hypocrisy, because all of us have remaining hypocrisy. All
of us do those things which are inconsistent with our profession
of faith. But if your overall tendency
or characteristic is to live like the devil, but to profess
faith in Jesus, then you are a liar, you are a hypocrite,
and you are bearing false witness and are subject, therefore, to
the wrath of Almighty God. Proverbs 11, 9. The hypocrite
with his mouth destroys his neighbor, but through knowledge the righteous
will be delivered. Matthew chapter 7. At verse 5,
Jesus' Sermon on the Mount. Hypocrite! First remove the plank
from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the
speck from your brother's eye. And then in James 3, verse 17. James 3, verse 17, describing
that wisdom that is from above. And then he says, the wisdom
that is from above, verse 17, is first pure, then peaceable,
gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits, without
partiality and without hypocrisy. 1 Peter chapter 2 and verse 1. I'm sorry, that was 2 Peter. 1 Peter chapter 2, verse 1. Therefore, laying aside all malice,
all deceit, hypocrisy, envy, and all evil speaking. You see,
brethren, God hates hypocrisy. And when people say, I don't
go to the church because it's full of hypocrites. I hate them. Well,
so does God. God hates hypocrites as well.
They should be in church because that's where hopefully they'll
get healing. It's like saying, I hate going to the hospital
because there's a bunch of sick people there. Oh, really? That's why
they're supposed to be there. If anybody ever says, oh, that
Free Grace Baptist Church is full of hypocrites. Yeah, it
is. Come on in. Maybe God will heal you too because
that's what we're looking for. We're looking for help. We all
got that in us. There is a difference between
remaining corruption and reigning corruption. Professing without
possessing is a sin against our God. It is to bear false witness.
So I don't know if these are actually two more, but the idea
of engaging in these things, being an active proponent, being
an active user of our tongue in such lying practices, but
then also receiving these things. You might say, well, I never
talk anything about anybody. Yeah, but do you listen to it?
I don't gossip, but do your ears sort of glow when you hear gossip? I forget where I was just recently.
Oh, it was Daniel. Daniel Fields, the man who visits
here on Wednesday nights. He said, boy, your ears are red.
I understand my ears get really red. Pastor Barcelos used to
tell me that. I don't know why. Maybe it's
just the ambient temperature causes the heat to reveal itself
in my ears. Do your ears get that way when
gossip is around? Now whenever you see my red ears,
you're going to think, oh, he's hearing gossip. No, that's not
the case. Not that I am prone or not prone or not that I don't
have it in me. But brethren, do your ears tingle?
You may not be an active proponent. You may not go out and with your
tongue lash other people. But with your ears, you may be
a hardy receptor. With your ears, you may receive
those things. Calvin said we must also close
our ears against false and evil speaking. You don't have to listen
to it. You can't ever say, well, they
made me listen to gossip. Oh, really? They tied you down? They handcuffed you? They used
flex cuffs and they hog tied you in such a position and they
just yelled gossip into your ear to the point where you had
to hear it? That doesn't happen to us. We're
oftentimes willing participants hearing about other people's
issues. Face it, we like dirty laundry. We like those things that make
others look bad. You look at the news. What do
they show? People that get up every day
and go to work and work hard and come home, love their families
and do it all over again the next day. Who wants to watch
that? Right? Who wants to read about that
in the newspaper? We gravitate toward the sensational. We gravitate toward the criminal. We gravitate toward those things
which are ungodly. We need to identify that about
ourselves and we need to stop. Somebody comes along and they
have to tell you something about someone else. You're free to
say, I don't want to hear it. I really don't. You should go
pray about that. You should go talk to that person.
But I don't want to hear it. We must also close our ears against
false and evil speaking. Proverbs 17 and verse 4. Proverbs 17 and verse 4. An evildoer
gives heed to false lips. A liar listens eagerly to a spiteful
tongue. An evildoer gives heed to false
lips. You are an evildoer when you
give heed to false lips. That's what Solomon says there.
Proverbs 18 and verse 8. Proverbs 18, 8. The words of
a tailbearer are like tasty trifles, and they go down into the inmost
body. Is that how it is with you? The
words of a tailbearer are like tasty trifles? Or do you say,
I don't want that stuff in me. I don't want to hear it. Proverbs
26 to 22. Proverbs 26, verse 20, where
there is no wood, the fire goes out, and where there is no tailbearer,
strife ceases. As charcoal is to burning coals
and wood to fire, so is a contentious man to kindle strife. The words
of a tailbearer are like tasty trifles, and they go down into
the inmost body. So perjury, lying, backbiting,
slander, gossip, tail-bearing, hypocrisy, engaging in these
things and receiving these things. They're all prohibited, plus
probably a lot more things. If you get the Westminster larger
catechism and you look at their exposition of the Ninth Commandment,
you will probably see that I've only touched the surface. The
reason for the command. First is the character of God.
He is the Lord God of truth. God does not lie. God does not
speak evil. God does not show partiality. God is not a false witness. He is, in the language of Psalm
32, verse 5, the Lord God of truth. He is, in the language
of Titus 1-2, God who cannot lie. Jesus Christ identified
Himself as the way, the truth, and the life in John 14, verse
6. Lying is consistent with the
character of the devil, not with God. Jesus said in John 8, you
are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father
you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning
and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in
him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources,
for he is a liar and the father of it. The character of God demands
that we bear no false witness. Secondly, the character of man.
God made man in his own image and calls for all of us to respect
that image and to honor man. You should protect your brother's
reputation just as you would protect his property. You're
driving home and you see brother so-and-so's bicycle out front. You're going to stop and put
it away or tell him about it. You see Brother So-and-So's reputation
on the line. You're not going to join in the
witch hunt and attack him. You're going to say, give the
man some fairness. Give him some righteous treatment.
Don't speak about things you don't know anything about. Brethren,
this goes on way too much. Proverbs are very clear in this
regard. The first to plead his cause seems right until his neighbor
comes along and examines him. I think the golden rule fits
very well here. as you want to be treated. You
know how it is to have people speak ill about you. Don't do
it to other people. Stop the cycle of wickedness.
Don't propagate it. Don't promote it. Don't continue
it. Solomon also says in Proverbs
18, he who answers a matter before he hears it, it is folly to him. You get one bit of a situation
and you're ready to render a verdict. That's ungodly. That is unholy. That is unrighteous. Thankfully,
some of our civil or criminal courts operate even more fairly
than what Christian churches do. At least they have a jury. At least they do deliberate.
At least they listen to witnesses on either side. At least they
look at some evidence. Very often, within the Christian
church, we'll hang our own before we even know the facts, before
we even understand the situation. Brethren, you need to protect
your reputation and you need to protect other people's reputation
by speaking the truth in love, the character of man. Also, a
reason for the command is the stability of the social order.
I know that sounds pretty large and pretty macrocosmic, but it's
true. We can't do anything in a society
of lies. How do we transact business when
people are lying to us? The commandments protecting life,
family, and property must necessarily include the protection of truth
for the social order to maintain stability. When God, through
the prophets, is indicting Israel or Judah for their manifold wickedness,
specifically in Isaiah chapter 1, He is saying that their nation
is messed up, and one of the contributing reasons is that
they don't speak the truth. The stability of the social order
depends on this. How do we do family if we lie
to each other? How do husbands and wives live
in harmony with one another if they're lying to each other?
How do we engage in business contracts and dealings if we
lie? It's sickening. We must insist on truth. R.L. Dabney said, lies destroy
confidence. He said, in short, if confidence
is destroyed, then all the bands which unite man with his fellows
are loosed. Each man must struggle on, unaided
by his fellows, as though he were the sole forlorn remnant
of a perishing race. Lies reduce us to this place
where we can't trust anybody, so we're the only ones to fend
for ourselves in the world. That's not good. The stability
of the social order demands truthfulness. Then thirdly and finally, the
positive aspects of the command. First, speaking the truth in
matters of justice and judgment. If you're called upon to witness
in a crime or in a civil matter, tell the truth. Not based on who's poor, who's
rich, who's going to benefit, what's the circumstance. No,
you tell the truth. The whole truth and nothing but
the truth. That's a requirement from the 9th Commandment. This
is what the Bible affirms throughout. Secondly, speak the truth in
all areas of life. Not just in the courtroom. Be
a man of your word 24-7. Be a man of your word always,
constantly, fervently and earnestly. This is the foundation for Christian
communication according to Paul in Ephesians 4.25. Ephesians
4.25. describing the conduct of the
new man. And he says, Therefore, putting
away lying, let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor,
for we are members of one another. That is foundational to what
follows there in Ephesians chapter 4. Putting away lying. He'll go on to explain how we
are to not talk to people and how we are to talk to people.
Notice in verse 29, Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth,
but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart
grace to the hearers. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit
of God by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let
all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be
put away from you with all malice. I'm convinced that if we asked
ten Christians, probably nine and a half of them would say,
if questioned, what are the sins that grieve the Holy Spirit?
We are trained to think in terms of the big sins and overlook
what one man calls our respectable sins. We will say homosexuality
is horrible and it must grieve the Spirit. Fornication is horrible
and it must grieve the Spirit. Murder is horrible and it must
grieve the Spirit. Child abuse is horrible and it
must grieve the Spirit. That's not what Paul's talking
about in Ephesians 4. He's talking about the way you
use your tongue. I'm not suggesting those other
sins don't grieve the Spirit, but I am telling you that in
the context The grieving of the Holy Spirit comes about when
people in the same church engage in bitterness, wrath, anger,
clamor, and evil speaking. When you cannot control yourself,
when you must say something, when you must listen to something,
when you do it and it breaks God's law, you grieve His Holy
Spirit. That's what Paul is saying there.
Now foundational to those positive and negatives is don't lie to
one another. So speak the truth in all areas
of life. Thirdly, swear to your own hurt.
I don't know if you caught that in Psalm 15, verse 4. He swears
to his own hurt and does not change. Now that does not mean
you knowingly engage in messed up contracts. You knowingly engage
in things that are not good. But the idea is you enter into
an agreement, you enter into a covenant, you enter into a
contract, and then you find out that you're not going to benefit
like you thought. What does the Bible say? Breach
the contract? Break the covenant? Cast shame
on the name of Christ and your profession of faith? No. Swear
to your own hurt and don't change. You say you're going to do something,
you do it. You say you're going to be somewhere,
you be there. Now, if you get hit by a car,
you get serious illness, or there's other mitigating circumstances,
you call, you make arrangements, and that's fine. But as a pattern
of life, can you say that you swear to your own hurt and do
not change? That's what identifies a godly
man. Ultimately, that describes Jesus
alone. But Revelation 14, 5, describing
those who follow the Lamb says, and in their mouth was found
no deceit. The background of Revelation
14, at least in that section, seems to be Psalm 15. So I think
those two go hand in hand. In their mouth was found no deceit. That's what ought to typify and
characterize those who profess faith in Jesus Christ. Fourthly,
promote the truth by exercising charity toward others. Charity,
love, kindness, compassion, gentleness. Cut somebody a break once in
a while. What do the Proverbs say here?
He who covers a transgression seeks love, but he who repeats
a matter separates friends. You can't let love cover a sin. That's okay. Now, I have my own
thoughts or grid or idea on how and when to do this. If it's
a repetitious thing, you may not always want to cover it.
You may want to deal with it. If it's a big thing, you may
not want to cover it. You may want to deal with it.
But if it is something that isn't repetitious, it isn't that severe,
you can let love cover some things. You don't have to be the policeman
with everybody. You wronged me. You did this.
All right. OK. But let's let love cover. a multitude of sins. This is
most helpful in a marriage. Y'all are constantly reproving
one another about all of your shortcomings. That is going to
be a very unhappy home. I can say this because my wife's
not here. I have to let love cover a multitude of sins. Just kidding. Actually, she has
to let love cover a multitude of sins. If every single day
we got up and we kept track of everything that displeased us,
and we read our list, what would ever get done? We sin all the
time. And this, and that, and that,
and that, and say, come on already. Let love cover a multitude of
sins. He who covers a transgression
seeks love. And very often, they're not even
transgressions. They're preferences. And then
finally, promoting the truth by discouraging the slanderer
or gossip. This is tough. It's difficult
to tell someone, I don't want to hear what you have to say.
It's difficult to reprove somebody who likes to run their mouths
about other people. It's difficult to cover your
ears and go, ah, so you don't hear what they have to say. They're
going to think you're weird. They're going to think you're
a Pharisee, or you're too pious, or you're too holy, or you're
a legalist. No, that's not it at all. I just
don't want that stuff rotting my soul. Because no good comes
from it. It is not calculated to promote
or help. It does not edify. It does not
build up. But you are not a victim in this
world to the gossips. You must take a stand. You must
say no. You must be able to declare,
I don't want to hear these things. So please, promote the truth
by discouraging the slanderer or gossip. In conclusion, the
facts about lying. We saw in John 8 that it originates
with the devil. When you lie, you associate with
the devil. It is characteristic, unfortunately,
of mankind. Psalm 58, verse 3 says, the wicked
are estranged from the womb. They speak lies as soon as they
are born. That's a tough one. Only the
Reformed doctrine of total depravity can account for such a statement.
When God traces back our depravity, He goes right back to the womb. It is forgivable by Christ. We need to understand that. We've
condemned, we've prohibited, we've said what is included in
this command. We need to understand that our
blessed Savior said this. He said, therefore, I say to
you, every sin and blasphemy will be forgiven men. Every sin
and blasphemy will be forgiven men. That doesn't mean universalism. He's talking, of course, about
those who put their faith in Jesus. He's talking about those
who go to Christ for remission of sin. If you are a liar, if
you bear false witness, if you are a backbiter, if you are a
gossip, if you are a slanderer, if you do not promote good health
with your tongue, if you love to hear gossip, there is forgiveness
with Jesus. You need to believe on Him, you
need to receive that forgiveness, and you need to pray for grace
to change. Stop using your tongue for such
ungodliness. And then finally, it is punishable
in hell. Revelation 21 describes those
who will be in the lake of fire. It says, the cowardly, unbelieving,
abominable, murderers, sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters,
and all liars. shall have their part in the
lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second
death." Manton commenting, and James says, a tongue that is
set on fire from hell shall be set on fire in hell. You know who wished for a drop
to cool his tongue. The hot words of wrath, strife
and censure come from Satan and lead to Satan. When you feel
this heat upon your spirit, Remember from what hearth these coals
were gathered. When you want to lie or misuse
your tongue, it is of the pit. Do not give in. Look to Jesus. Look by grace through faith to
the one alone who can forgive you and who can guard you and
who can keep you. Well, let us pray. Father, we
thank you for the Word of God. We thank you for that Law of
God that has those wonderful purposes in our lives. And we
pray that You would indeed convict us and show us that mercy which
is in Jesus Christ. And we pray for those in Christ
that we would speak the truth in love, that we would speak
those things which are good for necessary edification, that we
would not tear down with our words. and that we would guard
one another's reputation. Do forgive us, Lord. We would
all confess that we have broken this ninth commandment in many,
many ways. We pray that you would just wash
us and cleanse us and just give us a love for the truth such
that anything that is contrary would be despised by us. And
I pray that you would go with us now and watch over us in this
coming week. And we pray through Christ our
Lord. Amen.