A Biblical View of Lying
Biblical Ethics
You may turn in your Bibles to Deuteronomy chapter 19. Deuteronomy chapter 19 as we continue our series on Christian ethics or biblical ethics. This morning taking up the ninth commandment and a biblical view of lying. The general statement of Exodus 20 verse 16 and repeated in Deuteronomy 5 and verse 20 says, you shall not bear false witness. The Bible is very clear on this particular point. It is illustrated in a whole host of ways. I just want to read in Deuteronomy 19, verses 15 to 21. One witness shall not rise against a man concerning any iniquity or any sin that he commits. By the mouth of two or three witnesses the matter shall be established. If a false witness rises against any man to testify against him of wrongdoing, then both men in the controversy shall stand before the Lord, before the priests and the judges who serve in those days. And the judges shall make careful inquiry. And indeed, if the witness is a false witness who has testified falsely against his brother, then you shall do to him as he thought to have done to his brother. So you shall put away the evil from among you. And those who remain shall hear and fear. and hereafter they shall not again commit such evil among you. Your eyes shall not pity. Life shall be for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot." Amen. Let us pray. Our God, we pray for the mind of Christ even now through the power of Your Holy Spirit. Lord, as we consider what the Bible says concerning lying and dishonesty and those things Your Word condemns, help us to make the application first to ourselves, God. It's so easy to consider the lies of politicians or the lies of people we know. God, help us to search our own hearts. Help us to see that the man who fears God will speak with integrity, will be honest, will be able to ascend into the holy hill of Zion based on the righteousness of Christ, but will indeed seek to imitate his beloved Savior. We thank you, God, for your mercy and your grace. Thank you for all of the sins that you have forgiven us of. Thank you for the blood of Jesus, which does cleanse us from all sin and unrighteousness. May we never forget this. May this be our ultimate source of comfort and hope, not in our integrity, but in the gospel of Jesus Christ. And it's in his blessed name that we pray. Amen. What we just sang, who shall the mount of Jehovah ascend, or who in the place of his holiness stand? The man of pure heart and of hands without stain, who has not sworn falsely, nor loved what is vain. The commandments that we have considered thus far, murder, adultery, or specifically homosexuality, in fact, or stealing, deal with the outward actions of man. And I say men to include women as well. Not as if men are the only murderers, adulterers, and thieves out there. Women are just as guilty. But man does speak inclusively of women. Now the commandments move from word and thought, or move to word and thought. You shall not bear false witness affects how we speak concerning others. And then, of course, You shall not covet reflects a matter of the heart, which God willing, we'll look at next Lord's Day. But as we consider a biblical view of lying, we'll take up our exposition in the same manner that we looked at the Eighth Commandment. We'll notice, first of all, the prohibition of the command, what the command prohibits. Secondly, the reason for the command. And thirdly, the positive aspect. of the command. Not only does the Bible forbid us to bear false witness, but it also enjoins upon us speaking truth. Now, we're not going to be able to deal with every single thing this morning. There are instances in the Bible, such as Rahab and the Hebrew midwives, and things that obviously will cause us to reflect on this particular commandment. But suffice it to say that in the language of one commentary, he says, the Christian is under obligation to God to tell the truth at all times where normal communication exists. This is absolutely crucial. This truth-telling means not the exposure of our privacy. The Ninth Commandment doesn't mean you have to go out and tell everybody everything all the time about yourself. That's not what's enjoined by the command. Not the exposure of our privacy, but bearing a true witness in relation to our neighbor. It does not apply to acts of war. In a wartime situation, you may not necessarily have to say, my wife is over there, go rape and pillage and destroy her. Spying is legitimate, as are deceptive tactics in warfare. In other words, camouflage in a time of war. That's okay. God is not anti that. And as well, protection from thieves requires concealment and walls. You don't leave your valuables on your dining room table. You usually hide them somewhere. Well, that hiding is an attempt, ultimately, to deceive a potential burglar. Is that condemned in the Ninth Commandment? No, it is not. But we cannot examine all of the details this morning. I just give that by way of a necessary qualification to say that in normal circumstances, when we're not engaged in an act of war, when we're not trying to trick a burglar or, you know, tell a robber that our money's at home or whatever the case may be, we are to tell the truth. That's what God enjoins upon His people. First of all, the prohibition of the command. The first thing is perjury. Perjury. That simply means the deliberate, willful giving of false, misleading, or incomplete testimony under oath. Now, does this have relevance today? Absolutely. Perjury is rampant. Johnny Cochran, who after the O.J. Simpson trial said that the price, or the color of justice in America is green. The idea being, the more money you had, the better case you were able to present, and the more able you were to walk from the trial. Well, the color, or the money, or anything like that shouldn't affect anything. It should be true. But just about everybody agrees truth really doesn't have a lot of place in the courtroom today. The Ninth Commandment is primarily concerned with the courtroom. Exodus 23 verses 1 to 3, Exodus 23 verses 6 to 9, and then here in Deuteronomy 19 verses 15 to 21. If you followed the reading there, you will see that a false witness brought before the judges, if it was determined that he was a false witness, he would be liable to the punishment that he was hoping the other man would incur. Sometimes you'll hear that the Bible is unfair or barbaric or we can't really return to a biblical ethic. There is nothing fairer than this. We live in a litigious society where everybody sues everybody. I mean, if you trip at McDonald's, there's going to be some shark there saying, you've got a case. Oh, we shouldn't have our lives looking for a case. What happened to hard work? Discipline, industry, frugality, threat. You drink that hot coffee, spill it in your lap, and you can sue the man. Stick it to the man. Well, this highly discourages such an activity or practice. What's at play here is, let's say for a moment, I've got a problem with Don. And I allege that Dawn has done something vicious and vile. And I really wouldn't do that. That's why I'm picking Dawn as my example here. And I bring her before the judges and I allege that she's done this vicious, vile thing. But I know in my heart of hearts that if I am found out lying, whatever would have been the punishment for that vicious and vile thing will be given unto me. I'm going to think twice. I am going to count the cost. Does my desire for Don's demise outweigh my desire to live, should I be found out a false witness? Perjury is wicked. Calvin, commenting on this section, says, it appears that false witnesses and murderers stand in the same light before God. See, again, I think we've accepted so many of these ethical scriptures in the scriptures, all these requirements. Well, everybody breaks that. Why bother? I mean, it's just an accepted thing. Everybody lies. Everybody tells lies. Why? Because we haven't prayed to the Lord God that His will be done on earth as it is in heaven, and that liars and that perjurers be found out and be punished accordingly. It's not wicked to want that. That's to pray that petition. May thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. A second thing is lying in general. The sanctity of truth in all areas of life is commanded and enjoined by this commandment. In Matthew 5, 33 to 37, Jesus says we're not to swear. We're not to be like these men that, you know, I'll swear on a stack of Bibles. No, let your yes be yes and your no be no. You need to tell the truth. In Matthew 15, 19, he highlights that lies come out of a heart. that is ungodly. He says, out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies. These are the things which defile a man. That to eat with unwashed hands does not defile a man. It's absolutely incredible how many of us actually think it's okay to lie. Again, not to give up all of our privacy information, not to tell everybody everything, It's actually a lie. It's wrong. It's wicked. It's sin. It's vile. And God abhors it. We all need to understand that. There's an old statement. Honesty is the best policy. It really is. Romans 1. 29, it is indicative of an ungodly age for there to be lying. Ephesians 4, 25, the Apostle Paul says that the Christian church, the people of God, are not to lie. So perjury, lying, thirdly, is backbiting and slandering. You don't bear a false witness. Don't backbite. Don't slander. I unfortunately fear that we're good at this. False and malicious statements made about another. If you have ever been the victim of this, you know how much it hurts. How much it stings. How much it stinks. How wretched it is. There's another old statement. Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me. That's a lie from the pit of hell. God says in the book of Proverbs that words are like swords and clubs and daggers and knives. Backbiting and slander, circulating false and malicious statements made about another is wicked. We actually think it's okay. Please keep the injunction of Solomon. Please. If you get one thing out of this sermon, please take this one home. Proverbs 18. The first to plead his cause seems right until his neighbor comes and examines him. If somebody comes and tells you something, don't automatically, oh yeah, that's horrible. If you've ever had it done to you, brethren, you know how horrible it is. When people will believe the worst about you, people will put the most evil construction upon you, We saw this in our Bible study over the last couple of weeks. Paul comes back to Jerusalem after the third missionary journey. He comes to the church in Jerusalem, meets up with James, and James says, it's good to see you, brother Paul. It's good to see the fruits of your missionary enterprise. I do need to talk to you about something, Paul. I've heard, and James wasn't doing what I'm saying. He is checking with Paul to determine the validity of the allegation. I'm hearing, Paul, that when you're out preaching, you're telling the Jews that they no longer have to keep the customs, that they no longer have to be circumcised. This is causing a bit of a wreck. Paul says, no, that's not what I've been doing. In fact, it's such a good show to maintain good spiritual relationships between Jew and Gentile. Paul went into the temple and kept a religious feast to show that he was not anti-custom of the Jews. And then, lo and behold, a mob riot breaks out. I mean, Paul's a great study in people saying bad things about you. This mob breaks out. They want to kill Paul. They want to destroy Paul because he's a lawbreaker. Lo and behold, he was in the temple doing what the law said. So then they bring him before the Roman governor, and Paul addresses the Roman governor in Greek. The Roman governor says, you speak Greek? Paul says, yes. Oh, aren't you the Egyptian who led the rebellion some time ago? No, that wasn't me. You see, we get a half of a statement we run with. I don't want to sound trivial, I don't want to sound trite, I don't want to sound really, you know, wimpy here, but one of the things I think as Christians we need to set an example in, you're going to think, oh, this is crazy, email. And the one thing I picked, I remember seeing this several years ago, it's not even going around anymore, thankfully, that the owner of Procter and Gamble was a Satanist. and that he was taking all the proceeds made from their business, Procter & Gamble Products, and throwing it into the Church of Satan. That's not accurate. But as Christians, sometimes we'll hit send, or forward a reply, and we want everybody to get on this bandwagon. I'm sorry, brethren. If that isn't a violation of the Ninth Commandment, I don't know what is. Respecting a man's livelihood. We will see one of the reasons for the command is his character. We actually think it's okay to engage in character assassination, but the Bible says that a good name is valuable. God's not anti-reputation. We all try to be humble, and we all repudiate pride, and, oh, I'm so ungodly, I'm so unholy, I'm so great, but we still need a good reputation. And to break the ninth commandment infringes upon this protection that God has given. Proverbs chapter 10, verse 18. Proverbs 10, 18, whoever hides hatred has lying lips, and whoever spreads slander This is what the Bible says, if you spread slander, you're a fool. You're a fool if you spread slander. 25-23. 25-23, Proverbs. Get familiar with the Proverbs if you want to understand biblical ethics. Proverbs 25-23, the north wind brings forth rain and a backbiting tongue and angry countenance. The one I referred to earlier in Proverbs 18 is verse 17. The first one, to plead his cause seems right until his neighbor comes and examines him. Backbiting and slander. Fourthly, gossip and tail bearing. Rumor or talk of a personal, sensational, or intimate nature. I actually think that sometimes our prayer meetings aren't as honest as they ought to be for fear of gossip. We are told in Galatians 6 verse 1, to bear one another's burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ. But when we come into the prayer meeting, we might fear, if I say this, I don't know what's going to happen. I don't know, you know, who else is going to hear about it. We've had that happen in our own church. We've had members meetings where intimate things were shared. And they got all the way up to northern B.C. and back to my ears. What's that do? It makes you think twice about being intimate again. I'm sorry. Gossip. Tailbearing. Leviticus 19. Leviticus 19. Isn't it amazing that God's Word speaks so boldly on these issues? Leviticus 19.15, you shall do no injustice in judgment. You shall not be partial to the poor nor honor the person of the mighty. Isn't that great? That's why justice has a blindfold on as she's holding her scales. She's got a blindfold on so she doesn't see green, so that she doesn't see rich, so that she doesn't see poor. She's got a blindfold on because she is to be Impartial. You're not to regard the poor. Oh poor guy, I completely sympathize. It's okay that you committed grand larceny. Just go on your way. No it isn't. Or for the rich man to be able to walk because of his influence and because of his connectedness. No. Doesn't matter. Verse 16, you shall not go about as a tail-bearer among your people, nor shall you take a stand against the life of your neighbor. I am the Lord. Proverbs 11, 13, Proverbs 18, 8, Proverbs 20, verse 19, Proverbs 26, 20, and Proverbs 26, 22, all deal with gossip and with tail-bearing. You can say, well, what business? Is this really important? This is very important. And you know one of the things that Yahweh abominates in Proverbs 6? It's mentioned twice. A lying tongue and a false witness. In that list of seven things abominable to the Lord, we don't find homosexuality. We don't find bestiality. We don't find, you know, auto theft. We find worry. A fifth application with reference to the ninth commandment is hypocrisy. Hypocrisy. Religious hypocrisy. Professing without possessing. Right? Talking a good game. Proverbs 11, verse 9. Proverbs 11, verse 9. The hypocrite with his mouth destroys his neighbor, but through knowledge the righteous will be delivered. The Lord Jesus Christ spoke often against hypocrisy. Matthew chapter 7. Matthew chapter 7. In a grossly misunderstood verse, verse 1, judge not that you be not judged. People say, well, you can never be judgmental as a Christian. And yet, a little later, Jesus says, don't throw your pearls before swine. Sorry, brethren, but that takes a judgment call to figure out who's a swine and who isn't. Can we get away from that current exegesis? Can we abandon the garbage 20th century approach to biblical ethics that has plagued and affected and brought the Church of Witness down? You're going to actually tell me in the light of an open Bible that God says, never discriminate? I don't mean by black or whatever. I mean by truth and standard. You're going to say that God says never to judge? Jesus is judging in this passage. What he is saying or condemning is a hypocritical attitude. Don't come to judgment with a log hanging out of your eye trying to get the speck out of your brothers. Oh brother, come here, let me help you. You've got a speck in your eye, as this guy's got a redwood hanging out of his eye. It's interesting because Jesus in John 7 says, we are to judge with righteous judgment. In other words, the standard of judgment is what's in view here. It is not supposed to be our feelings, our sensitivities, or our sensibilities. We are to go to the law and to the testimony. They do not speak according to this, there is no light in that. With what judgment you judge, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you. Why do you look at the speck in your brother's eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, let me remove the speck from your eye, and look, a plank is in your own eye. Hypocrite! First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye. We need to realize, sixthly, the prohibition of the command applies to engaging in these things. In other words, when I use my mouth to perjure, or to lie, or to backbite, or to gossip, or to be a hypocrite, the Bible restricts that. The Bible forbids that. The Bible says, don't do it. You shall not bear false witness. You shall not take an active role in the promotion of falsehood. Charles Bridges in his commentary on Proverbs made this statement, and I think if you get this in your head and you actually live by it, you'll do well. He says we are to think twice before we speak words. Isn't that beautiful? Think twice before you speak words. You know what James says? James says, be slow to speak. Do you realize that God physiologically has orchestrated you to speak less than you listen? You've got two ears and one tongue. You should listen twice as much as you talk. I mean, we all like to... So cool, the other day, Lily was at our house, and she had a little toy car. And she started roaming it around the floor going, brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr A lot of us listen just so that we can seize the opportunity to talk when the other person takes a breath. Think twice before you speak once. Be slow to speak. Loose lips do think shifts. God is so awesome that he tells us like it is. He says in the Proverbs, even a fool is counted wise when he holds his peace. Isn't that beautiful? You look at a guy and you say, man, that guy's full of wisdom. He may be as ignorant and as foolish as anybody in this world, but because he does that blessed thing of shutting his mouth, He is regarded as a wise man. God tells it like it is. Seventhly, not only are we not to engage in these things, we are to fight against receiving these things. We're not only to not be the active participant in promoting falsehood, but you know, for everyone that promotes falsehood, there's a set of ears receiving it. Right? You may in your own hearts right now be saying, well, I don't perjure. I've never been in a courtroom. I don't lie. I don't backbite and slander. I don't gossip and tailbear. I'm not a hypocrite. But do you receive these things? For if you do, as Calvin said, we must also close our ears against false and evil speaking. Well, that'll offend them. So what? They shouldn't be gossiping anyway. Well, what will they think of me? Who cares? They're sinning. Look, maybe we shouldn't talk about sister so-and-so or brother whoever right now. It's wrong. We don't know all the facts. Hopefully, anybody with the Spirit of God in them is going to say, you know, you're right. We shouldn't gossip. We shouldn't tail bear. We shouldn't lie. We shouldn't slander. We shouldn't be hypocrites. I mean, I have had very few say, oh no, you've got to listen to what I have to say. We need to guard our hearts. There's something tantalizing about dirt, isn't there? An old song called Dirty Laundry. We love Dirty Laundry, don't we? I mean, look at the 5 o'clock news. It's all about Dirty Laundry. You don't get the story of the man who fears God, who goes to work, who does his job well, who is renowned among his contemporaries for being a faithful, good guy. You don't get those stories on the news. This guy's good. He does what he's supposed to do. Wife is good. She does what she's supposed to do. Kids are good. They do what they're supposed to do. That's not what you get. Why? Because dirty laundry sells. We're attracted to it. Don't say, well, not me, Pat. We are attracted to it. You may be the holy or pure one among us that has transcended this base and carnal and lower end of most of God's creatures. For you, you can temporarily tune out. But for the rest of us, we gravitate often toward the base. We gravitate often toward the carnal. We gravitate often toward the sensational. Proverbs 17, verse 4, an evildoer gives eating to false lips. A liar listens eagerly to a spiteful tongue. Proverbs 18, verse 8, the words of a tailbearer are like tasty trifles, and they go down into the inmost body. Hear that? That speaks of the hearer. When that tail bearer comes around and you get wind of it, it's like, ee, that's yummy. And it goes into the inmost body. All right. Why is that? I mean, that's psychologically messed up when you stop and think about it. Why do we thrive on the base, the carnal, and other people's misfortune? I've wrestled with that. The only thing I can come up with is total depravity. This is what it is. It's an expression of our depravity. It's an expression of that base character. That Adamic nature. And we need to resist it. Secondly, by way of a major concern, the reason for the command, the first is, of course, God. It is theological in nature. He is Lord God of truth. This is how David addresses Him in Psalm 32, verse 5. Paul describes the Lord God of truth in Titus 1-2 as the God who cannot lie. The Lord Jesus Christ said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. So therefore, as Christ's people, we must value and prize truth. We must abhor and loathe lies and slander and perjury and all that stuff that the command prohibits. The second reason is the character of man. You see, the Ten Commandments are structured in such a way as to provide protection for man's life. The latter table, the second table. Protection. to a man's family adultery, protection for a man's property, if you shall not steal, and protection for a man's reputation. It's not right to slander. That hurts people. If you've ever done it, and you've never had it done to you, shame on you. It's wrong, it's wicked, it's base, and it really hurts people. I hate that statement, sticks and stones may break my bones. The worst I've ever been hurt is not by physical punches, not by any, I've broken a wrist, I've broken a collarbone, I've broken fingers, I've broken toes. That is nothing compared to a broken spirit because people can't control their tongue. It's wicked. It's criminal. It's vicious. Tell the truth. Or shut your mouth. It's that simple. Proverbs 22 verse 1 and Ecclesiastes 7. Both promote a man's reputation. Again, God is real. God is awesome. God is glorious. God knows us. We try to be super pious, super holy. Oh, let my name perish. Okay, in the right context, that's good. When Spurgeon said it, he's right on. Let the name of C. H. Spurgeon die, but let the name of Jesus Christ reign supreme. Amen, 104. But in matters of horizontal relationship, we ought to seek to protect one another's reputation. A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches. You pass on much more of a heritage to your children, a great name, than a pile of money. Ecclesiastes 7-1 repeats that. God instituted protection for parents, life, marriage, and property, all of which assume a foundation of trust in order to carry such things out. And that's the third reason for the command, the stability of the social order. How do we do life if everybody's lying? How are we doing life, that's my question, in a society where lies are so rampant? R.L. Dabney spoke of lies destroying confidence. He says, in short, if confidence is destroyed, then all the bonds which unite man with his fellows are loose. Each man must struggle on unaided by his fellows, as though he were the sole forlorn remnant of a perishing race. That's the way to live. Sometimes I tell my kids, you know, I'm out driving around, and you look at someone, and they get mad at you. You ever done that in show act? I don't think it's just show act. I mean, it probably happens in LA too. You actually lock eyes with somebody for months. And they look at you like you've just done a criminal act. I mean, I'm part of a society. I hope I can lock eyes with a fellow member of the human race without him wanting to kill me. Is that where we've gotten to? And yet we hear, oh, biblical ethics, biblical law, that's barbaric. You could walk down the streets at night and probably lock eyes with one another and not want to get in a fight. What Dabney is saying is that if trust and truth and those things are broken down, we have no confidence in our fellows. I praise God that I haven't heard it yet, that we're not there. But there's some that, oh, I've given up on society. Yeah, I mean, it's bad. I'm right there. I'm at the front of the line to say it's bad, man. But to give up? God hasn't given up. We're not all in hell. The earth is still rotating. I mean, those things are still true. We need to understand that. Israel was indicted of all through the prophets several times for this fact. They forgot the truth. Society breaks down. Society crumbles. What happens in one another? Thirdly, the positive aspect of the command. Guess what? You're to speak the truth in matters of justice and judgment. You're to speak the truth in matters of justice and judgment. This is what the Bible affirms. This is what we're called to do. If you are a witness to a crime, you testify. If you are the victim of a crime, you testify honestly. Oh, he slapped me up both sides of my head. No, maybe he only slapped you up one side. It's funny how Will sort of had on the side the truth when it affects us in a real practical way. Another positive aspect of the command is what's called corroboration. I know you kids are going, man, that's a little corroboration. That simply means what we read in Deuteronomy 19. You have witnesses. We don't live in a society where every man's a law unto himself. He has to just say whatever he wants unchecked. The courts, as Rush Dooney says, represent God's vengeance as ordered and channeled through human, but God-ordained agencies. within the courts for justice to prevail, honest and faithful testimony is a necessity. However, because man is a sinner and the agencies of human society reflect man's sin, checks and balances are necessary. You see that? The two or three witnesses isn't just because, you know, that works. It's absolutely crucial in a society of sinners. The testimony of a witness must be subject to cross-examination and to corroboration. This is true in the civil realm, as we see throughout the Old Testament. It is true in the ecclesiastical realm. Your brother sins, go to him. He hears you, he repents, everything is great, wonderful. You hug him, you embrace him, you love on him. If he doesn't hear you, take two or three witnesses. What about 1 Timothy 5.19? Do not receive an accusation against an elder except on the basis of truth or witnesses. Because God knows anything less is harassment. Harassment. We need to speak the truth in all areas of life. Speak the truth in all areas of life. Again. Every bit of our privacy, not in a time of war. I mean there's, God will give you wisdom in those particulars. I'm not saying in a time of war go out and lie like the devil. I'm just saying that this command has to be interpreted in light of the fact that we're in a fallen world. Sometimes in a fallen world, countries war with each other and is it wicked and a violation of the commandment to put camouflage netting over a hospital? I don't think it is, Percy. But we are. to speak the truth in all areas of life. We are to promote the truth by exercising charity toward others. Boy, I just think if we would get that. Ephesians 4, classic passage dealing with the grieving of the Holy Spirit. You hear about that a lot in evangelical circles. You hear a lot about that in reforms. We can't grieve the Spirit. Can't grieve the Spirit. Don't grieve the Spirit. And I agree. We aren't to grieve the Spirit. It's interesting in the context what is mentioned. We would think grieving the spirit must be murder, must be abortion, must be people within our ranks that have had a divorce, must be people in our ranks that have done this out of the other. I'm not saying those things make the spirit happy, but it is interesting and intriguing to me in Ephesians chapter 4 what is in view with reference to not grieving the spirit. Ephesians 4.25, Therefore, putting away lying, let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor, for we are members of one another. Be angry, and do not sin. Do not let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil. Let him who stalls feel no longer, but rather let him labor, working with his hands what is good, that he may have something to give him who has need. Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." Everything surrounding the command not to grieve the Holy Spirit has to do with what comes out of our mouths. Because you know what the Bible says? What comes out of our mouths is indicative of what's in our hearts. And when you speak ill of others, and when you gossip, and when you lie, and when you slander, it's indicative of a bad heart, man. You don't get good water out of a polluted well. And we ought to promote the truth by discouraging slander and gossip. Somebody comes to you and says, oh, I don't want to hear it. Well, then we have nothing to talk about. Okay. That's it. Smile at each other. Or better yet, we can pray for people. Don't do it, man. Let us discourage slander and gossip. Well, in conclusion, we need to remember lying originated with the devil. That right there should make us want to work. Anything connected to the devil should make us want to run. What? How does Jesus describe the devil in John 8, verse 44? He was a liar and a murderer from the beginning. He cannot speak truth. He has no resources for the speaking of truth. Lying is a sin which affects us. In fact, we don't like this, but it affects us from an early age. In fact, the psalmist says that the wicked go estranged from the womb, speaking lies as soon as they're born. Isn't that amazing? It's there. It's in you. Don't say, oh no, this sermon's not for me. I'd say you're lying, if that's your heart's attitude. And that proves it is for you. It is an abomination to God. Proverbs 6, 16-19. I alluded to it earlier. It's good to read it. Proverbs 6, 16-19. These six things the Lord hates, yea, seven, are an abomination to Him. Verse 17, a proud look, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that are swift in running to evil, a false witness who speaks lies, and one who sows discord among brethren. So actually, if we take one who sows discord, that falls under the parameters of this as well. So out of seven, we have three connected to the ninth commandment. I don't think in the church we have, you know, a real Christian says, I'm going to go and sow discord among the brethren. But if we're not careful, it can happen. I don't think when Peter stood up to Jesus and said, Lord, I don't want you to go to Jerusalem, he had prayed that morning and said, I want to be filled with the devil, and I want to go and reprove Jesus Christ. No. But nevertheless, Jesus said, get thee behind me, Satan. We need to be very careful that we're not opening ourselves up to that influence. And it is punishable, ultimately, by death and hell, according to Revelation 21, verses 8 and 27. Those in the lake of fire include all liars. We need to reform our speech. We need to use our tongues as a weapon, or not as a weapon rather, but as an instrument of blessing. Proverbs 18.21 says, death and life are in the power of the tongue and those who love it will eat its fruit. How about our ears? Do they just tingle at the thought of gossip? Calvin says, we must go further and not be suspicious or too curious in observing the defects of others. Right? We're not supposed to put them on our project list of examining how messed up they are. I remember a long time ago, I heard a pastor preach. He said, make sure that when you're sitting in church and you're hearing sermons, you don't go home and have roast pastor for lunch. But, oh this and oh that, oh this and oh that. You know, those things may be true, but if there's something said that's true in the sermon, let's focus on that. We're too quick to want to look at everybody's life. I think it's because we're so jacked up, it's better to have someone else below us. It's just the nature of the game, man. We are messed up, we're insecure, and we want to exploit others. Oh no, that's not me. Oh good, good for you. He goes on to say, for such eager inquisitiveness betrays malevolence, or at any rate, an evil disposition. Being caught up with the false, being curious about them, being so, you know, moved by what makes sense. No, man, that's just weird. That's just really weird to be so caught up with someone else. James speaks of bridling our tongues. If any man among you thinks he is religious, but does not bridle his own tongue, he deceives himself. I love that passage because he says he bridles his own thoughts. And I know the temptation. We're going to go home today and instead of Rose Past, we're going to have Rose Kid. You know, kid, you speak ill. You know, kid, you lie. You know, kid, you this. Bridle your tongue. Now, help your child bridle theirs, but we need to bridle our own tongue. The Bible always focuses on the person first. Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life. I guarantee you, that's a full-time job. You keep your heart, and you bridle your tongue, you're going to have a lot, you're going to have little energy at the end of the day. To fix everybody else. Right? That's a full-time man, 24-7. Keeping your heart, bridling your tongue. That takes work. It takes effort. In order to bridle our heart, first and foremost, we must be born again. To bridle our tongue. You can't bridle your tongue if you're not a Christian. How do I become a Christian? Let's just say for the sake of argument, I'm sitting at the Pre-Grace Baptist Church on Sunday morning, the 15th of February, and I am not a believer. You know what the answer is? Believe. The answer is not leave from this place, resolve never to tell a lie again. Leave from this place, resolve never to gossip or slander again. Leave from this place, resolve that if I'm ever called to testify, you won't perjure yourself in a court of law. That's not the answer. The answer is believe on the Lord Jesus Christ. We read about Him in Matthew 27. We read about Him throughout the pages of the Bible. God says that because we have lied, because we have perjured, because we have spoken evil, because we have sown discord, because things that proceed from our mouths are filthy and reveal an ungodly heart, because of that, God sent His Son into this world. His son never lied, his son never slandered, his son never gossiped, his son never committed any sin with his tongue. He always fulfilled the law of God. He exacted every, every ounce of God's law. In fact, he says, it is my delight to do your will, O God. And not only did he live a perfect life in obedience to God's law, never using his tongue in a bad way, He then died for our sins and he rose again. So the way of salvation today is not clean up your act, bridle your talk. The way of salvation is believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you shall be saved. One of the temptations I believe we run when we study biblical epics To study the law, it's great, it's great, and I could definitely be guilty of this. I love God's law, not because I'm so good, but because I see the beauty of it. And the tendency is to see law, law, law, law, law, but we stand by grace, grace, grace, grace, grace, through blood shed at Calvary. There is a fountain open for sin and uncleanness, and it's not filled with your good works. It is filled with the blood of Jesus Christ that cleanses us from all sin. Do not take this message today and say, I'm going to be a better person and not tell any more lies. Go to the Lord Jesus Christ and become a Christian. Become forgiven. And then he will say, you're not going to go tell any more lies. Well, let us pray and ask God to give us clarity in these things. Father, we thank you for the Holy Scriptures. We thank you for their beauty. We thank you, Lord God, for all of the scriptural admonitions concerning truth, concerning your mind and your heart revealed against lying. We pray that you would help each one of us who are Christians to bridle our own tongues. And Father, for those who do not know you, I pray that you would cause them to believe the gospel, to be saved, and to know the joy of being found in Christ Jesus. We pray, God, for our church. We pray for other churches and for society as a whole, God. We pray that your will would be done on earth as it is in heaven. We know there's no lying going on in your kingdom, God. We know there's no lying and perjury going on in heaven. So we would pray, Father, that you would help us to reform our own minds and hearts, and we pray, God, to those among whom we live, that truth and that honesty and that those things would be valued and they would be prized, and that you would give us grace, even in this day, to lead the way. We ask through Christ Jesus our Lord. Amen.
