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Well, please turn with me in
your Bibles to 1 Timothy 3. 1 Timothy 3. We'll continue our exposition
of the book of Acts next week. This is a bit of an excursus. After the first missionary journey,
the apostle Paul and Barnabas, on their way back to Antioch
in Syria, stopped or revisited the churches so that they could
appoint elders in the churches in those cities. And I thought
it would be helpful for us to look at that appointment of elders. And 1 Timothy chapter 3 verses
1 to 7 gives us the qualifications for elders. And in order to appoint
elders, we must have qualified men. And as a church, we must
understand what those qualifications are so that we can take up our
responsibility consistent with God's Word. So I'll begin reading
in 1 Timothy chapter 3 at verse 1. This is a faithful saying. If a man desires the position
of a bishop, he desires a good work. A bishop then must be blameless,
the husband of one wife, temperate, sober-minded, of good behavior,
hospitable, able to teach, not given to whine, not violent,
not greedy for money, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous,
one who rules his own house well, having his children in submission
with all reverence. For if a man does not know how
to rule his own house, how will he take care of the church of
God? Not a novice, lest being puffed up with pride, he fall
into the same condemnation as the devil. Moreover, he must
have a good testimony among those who are outside, lest he fall
into reproach and the snare of the devil. Amen. Well, let us
pray. Our Father in heaven, we thank
you for the written word of God. We thank you that it speaks to
all matters of faith and practice. And help us as a church to understand
these qualifications. Help us as a church to vet men
that are aspirants for Christian ministry. And God, help us to
see the installation, the ordination of men. For certainly the harvest
is plentiful, but the laborers are few. And not only for this
church, but the church at large and the missionary enterprise,
we need to lift up our eyes and to see those fields white unto
harvest. And we pray to the Lord of the
harvest to to equip and to furnish the church and to furnish missions
with faithful men who will preach and teach the Word of the living
and true God. We pray for your blessing upon
the church in Vernon. We pray that in your kindness
and in your grace you would provide for them a man that labors in
the Word and doctrine. We pray for the brethren in Surrey,
and thank you for Pastor Mike. and ask God that you would continue
to look with favor upon that local congregation. And even
now, Lord, forgive us for all of our sins, all of our transgression
against your holy law. Cleanse us in that precious blood
of the Lord Jesus, and guide us now by your Holy Spirit as
we consider the appointment of elders in the churches of Jesus
Christ. And we pray in his most blessed name. Amen. Well, before
we get to the actual exposition of 1 Timothy chapter 3, I just
want to point out that the New Testament authors use several
words synonymously to speak to one office in the church. The
words elder, overseer, and pastor are used, as I said, interchangeably
with reference to the one office in the church that is tasked
with preaching and teaching and leading the church. The other
office, if we would have continued to read in verses 8 to 13, is
the deacon. So there are two abiding offices
in the Church of Christ. Elder slash pastor slash overseer
or bishop, and then you have deacons. And then there are no
more prophets, there are no more apostles, but rather the emphasis
in the pastoral epistles, which are 1st and 2nd Timothy and Titus,
is upon sound doctrine and the place of pastors preaching and
teaching sound doctrine for the good of the churches. We saw
that in Acts chapter 14. They could have easily got back
to Syria or back to Antioch in Syria by just passing through
Tarsus, but rather they went back through the churches so
they could appoint elders so that the churches would be stabilized
and furnished with men that would, in fact, equip the people of
God. And there are several reasons why we see the synonymous use
of these terms or several passages. You can turn to Acts chapter
20 for just a moment. Now if you hear the word bishop,
I don't want you to think Roman Catholic, I don't want you to
think Big Red Hat. I want you to think of a biblical
term which is basically overseer. So the word episkopos is translated
here in 1 Timothy 3.1 as bishop, but it simply means overseer.
overseer. Again, we see these terms used
synonymously here in Acts chapter 20. If you notice in verse 17,
from Miletus, he sent to Ephesus and called for the elders of
the church. And then in verse 28, he's charging
those elders of the church, and he says, therefore, take heed
to yourselves and to all the flock, among which the Holy Spirit
has made you overseers, or episkopoi, or bishop, and then he goes on
to say to shepherd or to pastor the church of God which he purchased
with his own blood. So pastor is sort of the comprehensive
term that is functional in nature and encompasses the reality that
pastors shepherd, pastors guide, pastors govern or lead the flock,
not according to their own authoritarian designs, but as ministers of
the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ. Turn over to Titus chapter
1. Again, just to see the synonymous
use or interchangeable use of the various terms that are utilized
for this office in the church that is tasked primarily with
leading or governing and with teaching. And in Titus chapter
1, 5 to 9, we have a parallel passage to 1 Timothy 3. And in
Titus chapter 1, verse 5, he says, For this reason I left
you in Crete, that you should set in order the things that
are lacking, and appoint elders in every city as I commanded
you. And then notice in verse 7 for
a bishop, okay, or an overseer. So he is speaking about the same
persons, but he is using these various terms that just sort
of flesh out or indicate the nature of their responsibility
in the context of the church. They are overseers. They watch
over the flock. They are elders, they are men
that are qualified, consistent with what we find in 1 Timothy
chapter 3, to serve in the flock. And they are pastors, men that
shepherd, men that seek to govern. Again, not according to their
own desires or designs, but by the Word of God. When you hear
that language of leadership or government or ruling elders,
I think at times it suggests sort of this authoritarianism,
but that's not how the Bible approaches it. Rather, the men
that are governing, the men that are leading, the men that are
exercising oversight are doing it by the Word of God, the primary
way in which government leadership, shepherding is done is through
the proclamation of God's truth, wherein we are disciplined or
discipled by the Word of God and conformed hopefully further
to the image of His Son, the Lord Jesus Christ. So just understand,
if I say elder, if I say bishop, if I say overseer, or I say pastor,
all those terms refer to the same office that is being addressed
here in 1 Timothy 3, verses 1 to 7. Now, I want to look at several
things with reference to qualifications for eldership. I hear that word
several, and perhaps you're thinking we're going to be here a while.
Well, please don't think that. We'll try to be out of here like
normal. But there are several things
that Paul sets forth must be in place before a man is received
into the eldership. I want to look first at the man's
desire for eldership in verse 1. Secondly, the man's personal
holiness in verses 2 and 3. Thirdly, the man's domestic faithfulness
in verses 4 and 5. Fourth, the man's experience
in the faith, verse 6. Fifth, the man's testimony toward
outsiders, verse 7. And then finally, the man's ability
to teach in verse 2. You'll notice I took that one
out and put it at the bottom because you'll see the similarities
between elders and deacons in terms of virtue, in terms of
things that must be true of the men. The only thing that differentiates
elders from deacons is aptness or ability to teach. And as well,
when we look at these particular virtues, there's something that
everybody should aspire to. There's something that everybody
should be pursuing. There's something that shouldn't
be surprising. You mean guys in the church should
be Blameless? You mean guys in the church shouldn't
be violent? Again, this ought to be every
Christian's pursuit, but with reference to men that we choose
to function as elders, they must have demonstrated particular
faithfulness in each of these areas. So again, it's not difficult,
it's not, wow, I can't believe we want guys to serve in the
church that don't like to fist fight. No, that's a no-brainer,
but they must be men who have demonstrated the ability to not
engage in, just this example, fist fighting. But before we
look at the specifics, note the context. It's intriguing because
in 1 Timothy chapter 2, Paul deals with the place of women
in the context of the local church. And look at what he says in verse
12. I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over
a man, but to be in silence. Now much to the chagrin of many
people today, that means precisely what it says. Paul does not permit
a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man. And when
he goes on to describe the particular qualifications, we see that they
are peculiarly fulfilled by men. A man must be. Now, this is no
harm or foul to women. This is not an indictment upon
your abilities or intellect. It is simply to highlight that
in God's world, he has purposed certain things to happen. He
purposes for fish to swim, for birds to fly, and for men to
function as the leaders in both the church and in the home. In Ephesians chapter 5 he says,
the husband is the head of the wife. I think in so many instances
we try to turn these things over on their heads and we end up
transgressing God's design, God's purpose, and God's plan. So here
he tells us specifically in 2.12, I do not permit a woman to teach
or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence. Some suggest,
well, that's because the culture in Ephesus was bad. They had
these kind of empowered women that were pushy and obnoxious
and all that sort of thing. But Paul doesn't argue based
on culture. He argues based on creation.
And that's precisely what we see in verse 13. For Adam was
formed first, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but
the woman being deceived fell into transgression. Nevertheless,
she will be saved in childbearing if they continue in faith, love,
and holiness with self-control. So he prohibits women, which
indicates that he only wants men to preach or teach in the
context of the church. But 1 Timothy 3 verses 1 to 7
goes further to delimit what kind of man. It's not just any
old man, but it must be a man who demonstrates faithfulness
with reference to these particular categories. So it's not open
to any man just because you breathe like a man and You look like
a man and you have the anatomy of a man, therefore you teach
or preach in the church. No, you must be a man that is
qualified according to the stipulations set down by the apostle here
in 1 Timothy 3, 1 to 7. So let's look first at the man's
desire for this role. Verse 1 says, this is a faithful
saying. Some take it as what has previously
been written. Others take it to govern what
is stated here. I take it to govern what is stated
here. This is a faithful saying. If a man desires the position
of a bishop or overseer, he desires a good work. So there must be
desire on the part of men that would serve or function in the
eldership. It's not just sort of a routine
that the churches do once in a while, hand every member a
list, put a few names on it, and check the guy that you think
would be good for a particular season to function in this capacity.
No, there's a desire on the part of a man to serve in this capacity. And I think Albert N. Martin
is very helpful when it comes to discerning a genuine call
to the Christian ministry. And I take from him these four
particulars with reference to a call to the ministry. If a
man has these, it doesn't necessarily mean that he's going to serve
in that capacity, but these things must be present for a legitimate
call to the ministry. In the first place, working with
1 Timothy 3.1, he says there is a desire born of right motives. There is a desire born of right
motives. I've often said that people look
at pastors like they do at the garbage man. The garbage man
only comes to your house on Wednesday, so you might think the rest of
the week he isn't doing anything. Pastors get up and preach on
Sundays, so you might think for the rest of the week they're
not doing anything. their golf game is improving,
their coffee drinking is improving, their guts are getting bigger,
whatever the case may be, they conclude that the pastoral ministry
is for prissy, sissy men, and it offers a very happy and comfortable
lifestyle. Brethren, that's not the case.
That is absolutely positively not the case. In fact, look at
Paul's language in Colossians 1. Colossians 1, relative to
his ministry as an apostle of Jesus Christ. Now, pastors aren't
apostles, but there is some interrelationship, there is some connectedness.
And notice what he says in Colossians 1.28, him we preach, warning
every man and teaching every man in all wisdom. that we may
present every man perfect in Christ Jesus. To this end, I
also labor, striving according to his working, which works in
me mightily." Turn to 2 Corinthians chapter 11. 2 Corinthians chapter
11. The apostle here is asserting
his specific qualifications in terms of his apostolic ministry. I think I've told you before
that some had come in Paul's absence to the church at Corinth
and basically tried to undercut his ministry. They said things
like, Paul's only in it for the money, Paul's only in it because
he's got a big ego, Paul doesn't have your genuine good as his
desire. That's why 2 Corinthians, Paul
sounds like he's defending himself, because he is. He knows that
if the Corinthians reject him, they will reject the gospel.
Paul says that he is a man that has suffered on behalf of the
cause of God and truth, and he gives that. Notice in 2 Corinthians
11, 22, he's talking about these men, some have called them super
apostles, these persons that have come in, these pig theologians,
as Luther would have called them, these theologians of glory, these
men that would assert themselves in a way that was ungodly, and
they would speak ill of the apostle. Verse 22, he says, are they Hebrews?
So am I. Are they Israelites? So am I.
Are they the seed of Abraham? So am I. Are they ministers of
Christ? I speak as a fool, I am more.
In labors more abundant, in stripes above measure, in prisons more
frequently, in deaths often. From the Jews five times I received
40 stripes minus one. Three times I was beaten with
rods. Once I was stoned. Three times I was shipwrecked.
A night and a day I have been in the deep. In journeys often,
in perils of waters, in perils of robbers, in perils of my own
countrymen, in perils of the Gentiles, in perils in the city,
in perils in the wilderness, in perils in the sea, in perils
among false brethren, in weariness and toil, in sleeplessness often,
in hunger and thirst, in fastings often, in cold and nakedness.
There's no connection there with Paul in terms of the modern day
eldership. I grant that wholeheartedly and
absolutely and positively. That ain't happening to elders
in the Western world. But the next thing he says does
happen to elders in the Western world. Verse 28, besides the
other things, what comes upon me daily, not just Sunday in
the preaching ministry of the church, but what comes upon me
daily, my deep concern for all the churches. So a man must have
a desire born of right motives. He cannot be simply looking for
a comfortable life where he gets paid to read books. That concept
is absolutely positively contrary to the whole gist of biblical
eldership. A second thing that must be there
in terms of assessing one's call to the ministry is the graces
indicating genuine Christian experience. In other words, he
must be born again. He must be a believer. He must
have partaken of the very gospel that he stands up to preach to
others. Now, this shouldn't be a revolutionary concept. This
shouldn't be a, wow, I can't believe it, we want converted
men to lead the churches. But just in case it is, I want
to stress this reality. How can a man engage in spiritual
ministry when he's not spiritual himself? There must be graces
indicating genuine Christian experience. He has been born
again. He knows something of the conviction
of sin. He knows something of his own
transgression against the law. He knows something of the only
fount that is open for sin and uncleanness, that God Most High
has plunged him beneath that flood and he has lost all of
his guilty stains. There must be graces indicating
genuine Christian experience. A third aspect in terms of assessing
a desire to ministry or qualification or fitness for the ministry are
the gifts indicating divine provision. So when we look at this list
in 1 Timothy 3, verses 1 to 7, it's mainly virtue. He must be
holy. He must be faithful to his family.
He must be faithful to those outside. He must be all those
things in terms of his conduct, in terms of his personal holiness.
But there is a gift. And that's 1 Timothy chapter
3 at verse 2. He must be able to teach. That doesn't mean he must be
C.H. Spurgeon, he must be John Calvin, he must have the ability
of any man or of the best of men that have ever lived. No!
But both publicly and privately he needs to be able to open the
Word of God and speak the truth as it is in Jesus. Doesn't mean
he has to yell, doesn't mean he has to preach for an hour,
doesn't mean any of those things. But it does mean he needs to
be able to assimilate the truth for himself and be able to articulate
that truth for others. He not only needs to eat the
food, but he needs to, and I say this graciously, regurgitate
the food so that others can eat it as well. That is absolutely
crucial. Listen to Spurgeon on this point
relative to gifts indicating divine provision. He says, God
certainly has not created behemoth to fly. Now behemoth, according
to the book of Job, some say it was a hippopotamus, some say
it was a dinosaur, but it was without wings, okay? So behemoth,
whatever its specific identity was, he says, God certainly has
not created behemoth to fly. And should Leviathan, that was
a water creature, again, lots of speculation in terms of what
it was, but, and should Leviathan have a strong desire to ascend
with the lark, it would evidently be an unwise aspiration since
he is not furnished with wings. Do you understand? When God calls
somebody to do something, he fits them and makes them able
to do it. Hippopotamuses don't fly. I saw
an interesting video the other day. They certainly get out of
wherever they live and walk around a gas station in Florida. But
they don't fly because they don't have wings. They don't fly because
God hasn't equipped them that way. Spurgeon goes on, if a man
be called to preach, he will be endowed with a degree of speaking
ability which he will cultivate and increase. If the gift of
utterance be not there in a measure at the first, it is not likely
that it will ever be developed. That is a good thing to take
into consideration. And here, brethren, I will give
the qualification I always give relative to talking about eldership. It is not a sin to not be an
elder. It is not a sin to not be able to teach. It is not a
sin to not be given by God a particular gift. If you are never called
to teach or preach in the life of the church, you can be as
faithful, and in many cases, far more faithful than men who
have been set apart to preach the Word of God as a vocation.
So never get it into your head that I'm less somehow if I'm
not teaching, or I'm not preaching, or I'm not leading a Sunday school.
Brethren, faithfulness is required among the people of God. Wherever
you are planted, you're supposed to grow. If God has equipped
you and God has given you this desire, then by all means seek
by grace to pursue these things. But don't ever judge yourself
as having committed sin against God because you can't lead a
Bible study. That's okay. That's perfectly
acceptable. No harm or no foul. God is not
going to say on the day of judgment, I can't believe you didn't have
a neighborhood Bible study. I can't believe you didn't jockey
for position in the context of the church. He's not going to
say that, because these are gifts given by God, and if these gifts
are absent, that's okay. No harm or foul on the part of
the person who hasn't received the gift. And then the fourth
thing, relative to a call to the ministry, is an opportunity
indicating providential opening. Again, I'm giving credit to Pastor
A.N. Martin. Desire born of right
motives. Grace is indicating genuine Christian
experience. Gifts indicating divine provision.
And then that fourth one, an opportunity indicating providential
opening. The same sort of thing obtains
here. If God wants behemoth to fly, he'll put wings on it. If
God wants a man to preach, he'll give him people that will listen
to him. Solomon in the book of Proverbs
says that a man's gift makes room for him. There is a specific,
dare I say, conspicuous order in that passage. He does not
say, a man makes room for his gift. That is a different ball
game or a different animal altogether. And I have shared, and I'll probably
die sharing it, that when people come here and the first time
they meet me, they tell me, I should be teaching your Sunday school,
or I should be preaching in your pulpit. That doesn't typically
make me want to sign on the dotted line and sign them up right here
right now, because a man's gift makes room for him. He doesn't
make room for it. He doesn't parade himself as
the rabbi. He doesn't demonstrate himself
as the holy one of Israel, but rather he's humble and he bides
his time. and he waits for the providential
openings under God, and when such occasion arises, all these
other things being in place, qualifications met, hands laid
upon him, then he can preach and he can teach until the proverbial
cows come home. Brethren, these things must be
present. Now, to varying degrees, to varying
experience within the context of the particular man himself.
But this is a great sort of rubric or metric on how to measure a
man's call to the ministry. Now, secondly, we look at the
man's personal holiness. And we're not going to spend
a lot of time here because each of the words means precisely
what each of the words says. Again, it's not difficult. Virtue
ought to be pursued by the blood-bought children of God, right? We have
the Holy Spirit. The Lord Jesus points us to the
moral law as our pattern for sanctification. Obviously, we
should seek by grace to do what God calls us to do. But again,
with men that are appointed into the eldership, they must be men
who have proven a degree of faithfulness with these things. Not perfection,
not sinlessness, not absolute moral purity, because we never
have pastors in the Church of the Lord Jesus Christ. Take,
for instance, this first one. It's sort of the overarching
concern. Verse 2 tells us a bishop then must be blameless. A bishop then must be blameless. John Calvin writes, there will
be no one found among men that is free from every vice. But
it is one thing to be blemished with ordinary vices, which do
not hurt the reputation, because they are found in men of the
highest excellence, and another thing to have a disgraceful name,
or to be stained with any baseness. So he makes a distinction. I
typically use the language of garden variety sin, and then
those things that are above garden variety sin. He speaks of ordinary
vice. Can we ever find a man to function
or serve in the context of a biblical eldership that is without ordinary
vice? If you have for a moment ever
entertained the thought that Butler doesn't have ordinary
vice, let me disabuse you of that notion right here and right
now. Every single man functioning in pastoral ministry has sin. That is why Jesus came into the
world. It was to save his people from
their sins. But this blamelessness that is
invoked by the apostle has to do with what Calvin illustrates,
reputation. If he is notorious for a particular
sin, if he has a habit or a reputation for a particular sin, that ought
to keep him out of the pastoral ministry. Notice, secondly, he
says he must be a one-woman man. He is the husband of one wife.
Now, interpreters typically go one of four ways in this. Now,
as I said, we're not gonna spend a lot of time, but a few of these
terms does bear our attention. So there are four ways to deal
with this statement, the husband of one wife. The first is that
the elder must be a married man. In other words, we don't ordain
a man, and we don't receive into the eldership a man that's single.
I do not think that's what Paul means here. It would bring us
into conflict with teaching of Paul in 1 Corinthians chapter
7. I think functionally, and I think practically, and I think
for the most part, elders will be married men, but this text
is not necessitating that they be. But if a married man is able
to speak to married man sort of issues, a man with children
is able to speak to men with children sort of issues, there's
a practical edge that that man has having a wife and having
kids. But does the text demand that
elders in our churches be married? No, I don't think it does. The
second option is that the elder must have only ever had one wife
his entire life. In other words, if his wife dies,
he is not free to remarry. Again, I think that brings us
into conflict with other teaching in Scripture. Again, 1 Corinthians
7 and then Romans 7, a very analogy that the Apostle Paul uses, assumes
the validity of remarriage after the death of a spouse. The third
option is that it forbids polygamy. Polygamy. If you read the Old
Testament, and oftentimes I've heard this question, what about
the Old Testament? David had a multitude of wives. Solomon
had a multitude of wives. Well, let Solomon be the beacon
of warning as to why that's a horrible idea. Because those wives led
his heart astray and brought him into truck or contact with
these idols. But the text does forbid polygamy,
but I think option 4 does that better than strictly identifying
it as polygamy. Option 4 basically states, the
elder is to be faithful in marriage and in sexual matters. We might
say he is a one-woman man, and that is the literal translation
of the passage. He is a one-woman man. And therefore, it does forbid
concunibage, it does forbid polygamy, but it also forbids other areas
of sexual infidelity. And so the elder must be a man
with proven faithfulness in this particular regard, or he's not
to function or serve in the eldership. Now, if he gets better, if there's
growth, if there's help, if there's hope, if there's that, I would
never say that is absolutely disqualifying. There's an intriguing
passage in 1 Timothy 5 that I'm not sure the church is ready
for. Look at 1 Timothy 5 for just a moment. I don't mean this
church alone. I mean churches in general. Look at verse 19. I think we
all know this passage. We just don't pay any attention
to it. Do not receive an accusation against an elder except from
two or three witnesses. Now note verse 20. Those who
are sinning rebuke in the presence of all that the rest also may
fear. It's that sort of old covenant
model when you punish somebody that all Israel would hear and
fear. It's the same sort of a concept.
But does Paul actually mean that an elder could have sinned in
the eldership, be publicly rebuked for that sin, repent, and continue
on in the eldership? The text seems to suggest that. I mean, there are disqualifying
sins. There are things that should
be a means or the reason for removing a man, you know, forthwith. But if it's a garden variety
sin, or there's a pattern, or there's a habit, and he's rebuked,
and he confesses, and he forsakes, and he maintains faithfulness,
do we necessarily defrock him at that point? I think the typical
pattern, at least in my experience, is defrocked for just about everything. Well brethren, that might lend
itself to the lack of elders in our Reformed Baptist churches.
Perhaps we have become more holy than God Almighty. Can a leader
be publicly rebuked? Can that leader confess a known
sin? Can that leader be restored to
faithful gospel ministry? Again, I think there are gross
violations, adultery, various sexual sins, various other sorts
of things, embezzlement, you know, things where the man is
proven unfaithful in terms of leadership as a whole. That ought
to be the grounds for immediate dismissal. But are there a class
of sins where a guy could be rebuked and continue on in gospel
ministry? Again, I don't want to lower
the bar, but at the same time, we don't want to make it so that
no one could ever serve as an elder. Brethren, if you look
at our Reformed Baptist churches, it's not just this one. It's
not like we're bursting at the seams with elders. The harvest
is white and the laborers are few. And we are supposed to pray
to the Lord of the harvest to raise men up and to send them
out. But if we raise the bar so high, that's why when it comes
to this atlas to teach, I've had to examine my own art. I've
had to look at my own heart. Am I looking for C.H. Spurgeon?
Am I looking for John Calvin? I don't think that I am, but
I am looking for somebody that can assimilate truth for their
own benefit and then articulate that truth to another. But if
we append a certain degree, a certain type, a certain measure of aptness
to teach, well then we are raising the bar higher than the Apostle
Paul does. And we need to guard our hearts
in that way. So he must be blameless. He must
be a one-woman man. Thirdly, he must be temperate.
This can be used with reference to sobriety in the use of wine. But because Paul speaks specifically
with sobriety in the use of wine, here it has to do with the mental
sobriety. The word denotes self-control,
balanced judgment, and the avoidance of rash behavior. There is no
place in an eldership for rash behavior. Brethren, we have to
deliberate, we have to think through issues, we have to search
the scriptures, we have to look for explicit text, we have to
look for implicit text, we have to ponder, we have to reflect,
and then we move. There ought not to be ready,
fire, aim guys serving in elderships. You get that? Ready, fire, aim. Any of you who've ever gone shooting,
don't shoot that way. Never shoot that way. You ready,
aim, and then fire. Okay? We need men that are sober-minded
in the gospel ministry, men that are not given to reaction versus
contemplation, rationality, and reflection upon issues that demand
our attention. Notice, then, he goes on to say,
he must engage in good behavior. The same word is used in chapter
2, verse 9, where it is translated modest. It simply means respectable,
orderly, and well-behaved. He must then be hospitable. Again,
this isn't something, wow, I can't believe, no, it's all over the
New Testament. There are many one-anothers,
not just for elders, but for the people of God. Be hospitable
to one another without complaint. Doesn't Peter tell us that in
1 Peter chapter 4? There needs to be hospitality. And I think
in this area, or in this arena, this is where a married elder
is well served by a faithful wife that engages in this sort
of activity and can serve as his helpmate to make sure that
this is being met in their day-in and day-out lives. As I said,
we'll take up, he must be able to teach at the end. Then seventhly,
he says he must not be given to wine. He is not a slave of
drink. He is not preoccupied with it or overindulgent. The
Bible does not condemn the use of alcohol. The Bible condemns
the abuse of alcohol. The Bible does not forbid man
partaking in the good creature that God has made. It does forbid
man in overindulging in that good creature. And that is prohibited
by the apostle relative to eldership in the Christian ministry. He
must not be violent. And I think this one is probably
self-evident. You know, you come to your pastor
for counsel, you shouldn't want to leave with a black eye. That
just, you know, goes on to just pretty consistent with life.
He's not pugnacious. He's not a striker. He's not
one that, you know, this is a little bit of discipline for you. I
got the five fingers of discipline. That's not what an elder should
be. Again, remember temperate, sober-minded. Not rash, not a
ready, fire-aimed guy, but rather he must not be violent. Next,
he says he must not be greedy for money. This is absent in
other Bible versions. It's here in the King James Tradition.
It's certainly indicated in Acts 20. Paul says, I have coveted
no man's silver or gold. I've not been in this for the
money. 1 Peter chapter 5 tells us that elders are not to serve,
they're not to do it for greedy purposes or greedy gain. Now
that doesn't mean you make your elders live in huts out in, you
know, the parking lot of the church and call it a manse. If
a man labors in the Word and Doctrine according to 1 Timothy
5.17, he is worthy of double honor, and honor in that context
means payment. Now, no man should get rich from
the gospel ministry, but no man should have to go begging in
the gospel ministry as well. And we need to keep that in mind
as the church, and I've got to give the qualification. This
is not a complaint. I am not suggesting... No, no,
no. I'm very happy. The Lord is good. This is what
the scripture says in terms of elderships. Not greedy for money. He must be gentle. He must be
gentle. Now remember, all men have their
ordinary vices. And not all men may be as gentle
as other men. So we got to make sure that we
understand these statements. It's going to vary from man to
man. Some men dispositionally are more gentle than others.
That doesn't mean the man who's less dispositionally gentle is
not gentle. He's just not as good at it as
perhaps his brother or his fellow is. But a man of God must be
gentle. Notice as well, he must not be
quarrelsome. Turn over to 2 Timothy chapter
2, where this is illustrated vividly. 2 Timothy chapter 2. verses 24 and, well, verse 23.
But avoid foolish and ignorant disputes, knowing that they generate
strife. And a servant of the Lord must
not quarrel, but be gentle to all, able to teach, patient in
humility, correcting those who are in opposition, if God perhaps
will grant them repentance, so that they may know the truth,
and that they may come to their senses, and escape the snare
of the devil, having been taken captive by him, to do his will. Must not be quarrelsome. That
doesn't mean you can't answer. It doesn't mean you can't give
a defense. It doesn't mean you can't rationally engage with
people. But it simply means you can't grab them by the shirt
collars and shake them until they adopt your position. There
must be that in the man of God where he's not a quarreling man.
He's not a violent man. He's not so bent on his agenda
that he's unwilling to hear everything that somebody may have to say.
Brethren, this is what Paul says concerning men who serve in the
eldership. And then the final one in this
arena is he must not be covetous. He must not be covetous. Notice
at the end there of verse 3. Again, it's not okay for you
to be covetous. The Tenth Commandment forbids
covetousness, but we need men with a proven track record of
not being covetous men. And that's what Paul's point
is. And as I understand it, there was money to be made in religion
in the first century, in the Roman Empire. There was money
to be made if you were a philosopher or you were a religious teacher.
Do you know that in Acts chapter 19, the Apostle Paul rents the
school of Tyrannus? He rents the school of Tyrannus
and there he preaches the gospel and the text says that all Asia
Minor heard it. Well, the school of Tyrannus
was probably a philosophy school. It was probably a building where
they taught philosophy. Paul books, you know, whatever
slot or whatever time of the week it was, and there he sets
up and he preaches. Philosophy, theology, metaphysics,
things that mattered then don't really matter a lot now, but
men made money from that. They had disciples. They had
people that were followers. They had supporters. That's why
Peter says in 1 Peter 5, they must not be greedy for money.
Because that is a reality, at least in this particular instance.
I guess it is true today. I mean, these guys have mansions
and helicopters or planes. What does the one guy have? He's
got three planes? I guess there still is money to be made in
religion. But that is why these prohibitions are there, so that
men who want that are kept out. If a man says, boy, I want to
be a pastor, and I want to agree on this salary so that I can
buy it. No, no, no, no. That's just weird, man. We don't
want to talk about that sort of thing. That's just odd. You're
not in this for the money. As C.H. Spurgeon famously said,
if a man wants to get rich, he shouldn't join the Baptist ministry.
I mean, that's just an oxymoron. Don't ever pursue that. But then
C.H. Spurgeon as well wasn't a Gnostic.
There's a famous story where Spurgeon was riding in the first
class cart in a train. And a minister that he knew got
on the train and looked at Spurgeon and said, well, this servant
of the Lord, I'm going to spare the money of the Lord by riding
in coach. And Spurgeon says, well, I'm
going to spare the servant of the Lord by riding in first class. Now, I don't advocate that. First
class in the plains is a bit different than trains and all
that sort of thing. But I thought that was a witty
sort of comeback. Another man once said to Spurgeon, they asked
about paying pastors, and if you ever have to bring that up
with your deacons. And then the deacons say, well, you should
be preaching for souls. Well, yeah, but I can't eat souls.
And my kids can't wear souls on their shoes. No pun intended.
But you see, there are these realities. On the one hand, we
don't want to overpay a man, but on the other hand, he shouldn't
be the beggar on the five point or five corners because we're
too cheap to pay the guy who's laboring, especially in the word
and doctrine. Brethren, as I said last week
or two weeks ago with the Eighth Commandment, men want religion,
but they want it cheap. And oftentimes that's reflected
in the way that people pay pastors. In short, George Knight says,
the bishop's life is not to be dominated or controlled by wine
or money, nor may it be one of strife, but rather it must be
one of peace and gentleness. So that's the man's personal
holiness. Notice thirdly, the man's domestic
faithfulness in verses four and five. Notice what he says, one
who rules his own house well, having his children in submission
with all reverence, and then parenthetically, for if a man
does not know how to rule his own house, how will he take care
of the church of God? Now the argument here is from
the lesser to the greater. It is an argument from the lesser
to the greater. If he can't manage his own house,
how in the world is he going to be a steward in the Church
of God? And the two words are different. He manages the house. He leads, or dare I say, rules
the house. But in terms of the church, he's
a steward. He's a minister. The language
of government or leadership or ruler, again, it's not packed
with authoritarianism, but with ministerialism. And so the argument
is very clear, very consistent. If he can't rule his own house
well, how in the world is he going to be able to take care
of the Church of God? This means that he must be not
only a one-woman man, But he must love his wife the way the
Bible says. Do you get that? Ephesians 5.
Husbands, love your wives just as Christ loved the church and
gave himself for her. If a man doesn't love his wife
the way the Bible calls him to, then you don't want that man
overseeing your soul. You don't want that man in charge
of your life in terms of feeding and preaching and teaching you
the Word of the Living God if he's cold or he's calloused or
he's hard or he's distant or he's unkind or ungodly with reference
to the person he's supposed to be the most devoted to. Brethren,
the marriage relationship is a one-flesh relationship. How
a man takes care of his wife is very, very much an illustration
of how he's going to relate to you and I. And if he doesn't
do this well, that adverb is there. Notice what Paul says,
he must rule his household well. See, he's not just sitting on
the easy chair with his heavy hand telling everybody what needs
to be done and making sure it gets done. That's not well management. It may be management. It may
be leadership. It may be government. But the
subjects are miserable. Well management, the subjects
are happy. They're adjusted. They're healthy.
They're secure. They're stable. And that's what
Paul calls for relative to elders. Again, this isn't something every
one of you brothers in here should be aspiring. Everybody should
be aspiring to this. We should all seek to rule our
households well, but there must be demonstrated faithfulness
for the men we bring into the context of the eldership. So
he must love his wife, but then notice as well with reference
to his kids. Having his children in submission
with all reverence. The parallel in Titus 1.6 says
having faithful children, not accused of dissipation or insubordination. The NIV translates it as believing
children. That has given rise to the interpretation
that no man can function as an elder unless his children are
converted. John MacArthur holds that particular
view. Again, qualification. I love
John MacArthur. I esteem the man. He's been a
faithful, proven minister of the gospel. But at this point,
he's wrong. Faithful is the better translation. We cannot make our
children converted. Brethren, we are not Arminians.
We are not Pelagians. We believe in sovereign grace.
It must be God who opens the heart. It must be God who grants
the graces of faith and repentance. It must be God who saves them,
calls them out of darkness into marvelous light. But the faithfulness
and the reverence means that they're under control. Not that
they don't sin, but that when they do sin, they're dealt with
by their parents. That's what Paul is saying. When
you go to their home, it's not chaos. When you go to their home,
it's not a free-for-all. When you go to their home, it's
not like you've just walked into the circus. It is rather a place
that is managed, and it's managed well. Wife is happy, children
are happy. Again, not perfectly, not always. There's sin in wives, there's
sin in children, there's sin in husbands and fathers. All
of that thing, all of those things notwithstanding, the man rules
his house well. And that adverb as well needs
to be appreciated well. What does that demand? It demands
time. Brethren, work is good. Hard
work is excellent. But the hard work that keeps
us from those that we're supposed to love and those we're supposed
to manage well, we need to reorient ourselves as to how better to
function in a well capacity in terms of household management.
It's not just management. Again, you could probably walk
into businesses and see that they're managed. But then you
start asking employees, and they don't look like they're managed
well. Everybody's unhappy. There's no morale. They walk
around like they're, you know, just worker drones. There's no
sort of joy in their life whatsoever. Paul says that ought not to be
characteristic of elders' homes. Again, it's not spotless, holy,
perfectly pure. but rather stuff is getting dealt
with by the elder. He's not passive. He is not checked
out. He doesn't just come home and
tune out, but rather he's involved in the lives of his wife and
children. He takes the time to nourish them and to nurture them.
George Knight again says, what must not characterize the children
of an elder is immorality and undisciplined rebelliousness,
if the children are still at home and under his authority.
Paul, that's important as well. Brethren, we got one kick at
the can with our kids. They get married and they move
out. We're going to keep a man out of the eldership because
his kids have grown up and now denounce Jesus Christ? Again,
maybe there are mitigating circumstances, maybe there are realities that
reflect ultimately upon the elder, but it's not necessarily in every
case the way. Think back to Luke chapter 15.
The brother says, give me my share of the inheritance so I
can go out and vent it on my lusts. Who's the father in this
scenario? It's God Almighty. And yet we're
always there to judge our fellows. Well, did you see how their kids
turned out? Brethren, can I implore you don't do that? It's reflective
on them. It's their fault. Now again,
I don't doubt. I see things in my kids that
I have contributed, and I'm not real happy about it. You see
those little traits where, oh yeah, they take after dad in
that one. Believe you me, I've got that list. And it bugs me,
and I wish it wasn't the case, but it is the case. But there's
a far cry difference between that, things we pass on, even
unsavory things, versus blaming somebody that their children
went off into the far country. Because we would then assume
the posture in Luke 15 of blaming God the Father because his child
went off into the far country. You know, I said it, I think
it was last week in Surrey, when we looked at the woman, the anointing
at Bethany, I preached that here, the Last Lord's Supper, and what
does Jesus say to the disciples when they want to mess with this
poor woman in Mark 14? He says, leave her alone. That's good counsel, not just
in that setting, but for a lot of things. Leave people alone. When it comes to a child going
off into the far country, your brother, your sister doesn't
need a lecture on how they messed up when that kid was five. They
need a hug. They need prayer. They need encouragement. That's what they need. If you're
going to do that, then don't leave them alone. Love them,
hug them, encourage them, and pray for them and with them.
He goes on to say, Paul is not asking any more of the elder
and his children than is expected of every Christian father and
his children. However, only if a man exercises
such proper control over his children may he be an elder. So again, I think that principle,
not only relative to the children, but extrapolated over all of
them. It isn't the case that any man
shouldn't be aspiring to these things, but it should be the
case that every man considered for eldership has proven faithfulness
in these areas. Now it occurs to me, brethren,
I am already moving fast. I don't want to move fast through
the rest of this. We're going to stop at this point. I'm going
to make a couple of final observations, and we'll take up the appointment
of elders, part two, God willing, next Sunday. If you're interested
and intrigued and you're a visitor, then I invite you to come back.
because there's more that the Apostle says that demands our
attention. But at this particular place,
let us, in the first place, underscore this reality. When we look at
these things, the man must be blameless, the husband of one
wife, temperate, sober-minded, of good behavior, hospitable,
able to teach, not given to wine, not violent, not greedy for money,
but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous, one who rules his
own house well, having his children in submission with all reverence.
For if a man does not know how to rule his own house, How will
he take care of the church of God? That's everybody's requirements. Now, if you're a woman, just
switch the language, a one-man woman. That's how the widow is
described in 1 Timothy 5. She's not to be put on the widow's
list unless she's been a one-man woman. That means she's been
faithful in sexual matters to her husband in the entirety of
his life. So if you're a woman, it's the
same sort of thing that you should be seeking relative to eldership. Now, as long as I'm breathing
in this church, you will never be ordained as an elder in this
church, because Paul, under God, by the power of the Spirit, prohibits
a woman from teaching or exercising authority over a man. If that
bugs you, if that makes you unhappy, if that irritates you about Jim
Butler, it ain't Jim Butler you got a problem with. It's God
the Lord because He moved Paul to write 1 Timothy 2.12. but
with reference to a woman and the virtues of Christianity,
this is a great list. With reference to men and the
virtues of Christianity, this is a great list. This shouldn't
have been earth-shattering for any of us. I hope nobody has
come this morning going, wow, I can't believe spiritual leaders
should actually look like spiritual men. It shouldn't be the case
that a man given to ministry should be greedy for, oh yeah,
this is no-brainer stuff. But what is different with men
that we choose or select for eldership, they must demonstrate
faithfulness. That's why the qualifications
exist, and that brings us to a second thought or consideration.
It is imperative in the context of the local church that we don't
let feelings, experiences, or like or love dictate and ultimately
trump biblical truth. It's the Bible that we go to. If a man goes forth for gospel
ministry and he's not qualified, we shouldn't ever say, but he's
so likable, he's so nice, and he's so good in a whole host
of other ways. All that stuff may be true, brethren,
but we are not given the prerogative under God to compromise the qualifications
that God himself has given. Now where is Timothy when Paul
is writing to him? Timothy is in Ephesus. Paul stationed
Timothy in Ephesus to wage the good warfare. Turn over to Revelation
2 to see the church at Ephesus in a later situation. Revelation
chapter 2. These are the seven letters to
the churches of Asia Minor. And the first comes to the church
of Ephesus. And I think with reference to
the church of Ephesus, we oftentimes only ever remember that they
lost or left their first love. What a horrific thing, isn't
it? That is a horrific thing, to lose your first love, to have
a less than fervent or earnest appreciation for the Lord Jesus
Christ. But Ephesus is commended for
doing something as well. And I think that they are related. And I'll try and show you why
in just a moment. But before we look at Revelation 2, there's
a pattern in these letters. There's an obvious pattern. Jesus identifies, I almost said
conspicuous, I said obvious. Jesus identifies himself, and
that identification will come up later in the book of Revelation.
Then Jesus either condemns if the church has need for condemnation,
and then commends if the church has need or deserves commendation. And then he gives the exhortation
or points out something specific within their church, and then
he ends with the same exhortation about overcoming. You've got
to overcome. You've got to persevere. And I think that end helps us
understand one of the population or one of the people populating
the Lake of Fire in Revelation 21.8. Revelation 21.8 describes
a bunch of people we'd say are wicked, horrible sinners. But
one of the identifying marks is that they are cowards. The
Lake of Fire isn't populated with people who are afraid of
snakes. The Lake of Fire isn't populated with, well, I mean,
it may be, but that's not the reason why. Cowardice in Revelation
21.8 is not overcoming. It's not persevering. It's not enduring. It is not
being faithful. It is what John speaks of in
1 John 2. They went out from us, but they
were not of us. Because if they were of us, they
would not have gone out from us. They would have continued
in our midst. So when you look at Revelation 21.8, and you see
that coward, and you think, boy, am I afraid of hippopotamuses. Those are vicious, horrible creatures.
I'm glad I wasn't at that gas station in Florida when that
thing was roaming about. It's always amazed me. We teach
our kids to play with hippos. That's that game, Hungry, Hungry
Hippo. Hippos are vicious, vile, horrific killing machines. If
I saw one, I'd be terrified. But I wouldn't conclude that's
why I'm going to go to hell, because I'm afraid of hippos.
The cowardice of Revelation 21.8 is not a phobia. It is rather
a failure to persevere by God's grace to the New Jerusalem. But
look at the letter to Ephesus. Verse 1, to the angel. That angel
is the bishop. That angel is the overseer. That
angel is the man that is the pastor of the churches. The word
angel doesn't just mean disembodied spirit, but it means messenger.
To the messenger of the church of Ephesus write, these things
says he who holds the seven stars in his right hand, who walks
in the midst of the seven golden lampstands. Don't we love that?
You may not feel it, you may not sense it, you may not experience
it in the way that you perhaps should, but when a biblical church
gathers together for worship, Christ is in the midst. It's what it says. It's what
it says. Now, you say, well, this church
is cold, or it's boring, or it's this, or it's that. Well, it's
still a biblical church, and we still have faith that when
we gather together, Christ is in the midst. See, it's not predicated
upon our feelings. If you feel that he's with you,
then he is. Don't you love that statement
of the Lord Jesus when he says, when you go into your closet
and there you pray, your Father who sees in secret will reward
you openly? Do you always feel God in your
closet? Do you always experience God
in your closet? No, that's not necessary. It's
good when God does that or when you have that, but that's not
requisite to God's presence. God's presence doesn't always
associate with us feelings and experiences and mysticism. There's an objectivity about
faith. We walk by faith, not by sight. Too many Christians today walk
by sight. They walk by feeling, they walk
by experience, they walk by what really moves them. Brethren, that is not how the
presence of God is measured. Notice, back to the text. Verse
2, he says, I know your works, your labor, your patience, and
that you cannot bear those who are evil. That's good. And you
have tested those who say they are apostles and are not, and
have found them liars. So the church in Ephesus took
seriously 1 Timothy chapter 3. They applied it when men came
into the church saying, we're apostles, we should teach in
your pulpits. They said, wait a minute, let's
look at these qualifications and let's scrutinize your life
and conduct and let's see if you have the mettle to be able
to teach and preach in the church. Nope, you're not, you're liars,
you're out. Brethren, that is a commendable
trait on the part of a church. That is a most excellent trait
on the part of a church. Now, I think that's probably
why the condemnation then comes. Notice in verse 3, you have persevered
and have patience and have labored for my name's sake and have not
become weary. Now notice in verse 4, nevertheless
I have this against you, that you have left your first love.
that he's still writing to them and addressing them as a church
indicates that it was an apostasy. It doesn't mean they had defected
completely in wholesale. It doesn't mean that they were
done. It just means that the earnestness with which they expressed
their devotion to Jesus had suffered to some degree or other. You
have left your first love. Now, I would suggest, practically,
it was probably in the context of fighting against, not physically,
because an elder must not be a striker, but fighting against
these claimants to the apostolic ministry. When you're in that
particular trench, engaged in that particular battle, you're
not typically reading morning and evening. Not that morning
and evening isn't good. Morning and evening is great.
But you're reading Calvin, you're reading Turretin, you're reading
Bovink, you're reading the sorts of guys that will help you test
the claims of these false apostles so you can rule and say, no,
that's not true of you, get out. You see, in that context, I think
it's understandable, not that it's okay, we should maintain
white-hot love for Jesus and fight for Jesus all in the same
swath. But it doesn't always happen
that way. And that's why Jesus commends them and then says to
them, nevertheless, I have this against you, that you have left
your first love. Now, look at the encouragement.
Remember therefore from where you have fallen, repent and do
the first works or else I will come to you quickly and remove
your lampstand from its place unless you repent. That's grace,
that's kindness, that's love, that's encouragement. He doesn't
say, you've left your first love, that's it, you're apostates,
I'm pulling away the lampstand, you're done. That's not it at
all. He tells them repent. He tells them to burn with that
white hot love for Jesus and keep these false apostles out.
That's the mission of the church and that is absolutely crucial.
But the larger point is, is that the church in Ephesus followed
the qualifications. They didn't say, well, we like
that guy. It's a lot of guys serving in elderships that are
liked by people. And I don't think that's bad.
People should be liked. But it's bad if they're functioning
in an eldership simply because they're liked. And it kind of
goes back to that thing I used in 2016. When I went and got
hip surgery, my doctor was nice, but I didn't go to him because
he was nice. I went to him because he knew how to pull out an old
rotten hip and put in a new funky titanium one. That's why I went
to him. Now, obviously, it'd be nice
to have a nice doctor and one who's well-equipped at what he
does. That's what I think elders ought to be, apt to teach, able
to preach, faithful men and all that, and still be nice. I mean,
can't we have both and? That would be good. You're probably
thinking, well, you're not real nice. OK, it's a work in progress.
But the bottom line is, brethren, It is not a popularity contest,
it is not a likability contest, and it's not directly correlated
to a man's success in the world. A man may be an effective business
owner, he may be an effective business manager, he may be effective
in that arena and not be so much so in the context of the church.
There are similarities in terms of leadership in the church and
the world. There are similarities and perhaps analogies that are
useful and helpful, but there is not a direct transference
or a direct correspondence. A man may be gifted and fitted
and excellent for a particular task outside of the church and
not so much in the church. So we can't just say, well, he's
so great in this arena, therefore he'll be great in that arena.
He may be, but he still needs to be scrutinized vis-a-vis 1
Timothy 3, 1 to 7, to make sure that he is all the things that
God has said he must be. So the church in Ephesus followed
this, the church in Ephesus pursued this, and the church in Ephesus
was commended by Jesus as a result. And then finally, and this goes
with the exposition in Acts 14. The appointment for elders, or
the appointment of elders in the context of these newly founded
churches, is a good thing. It is an excellent thing. It
is a helpful thing. Not to say you cannot read your
Bible, you cannot read Bavink, you cannot read Turretin, you
cannot read Calvin for yourself and profit. You can, absolutely,
positively so. But God has purposed a preaching
ministry in the churches of Jesus Christ. God has purpose, not
drama, not social media, not mind, not skit, not movie, not
theater, not any of that. God is pleased through the foolishness
of the message preached to save those who believe and to edify
and strengthen those who do believe. That's why they appointed elders
in every city. It was for the maturation, the
growth of the body and their conformity unto Jesus Christ.
As well, it was for the calling of sinners to repentance and
faith that they may close with Christ and have everlasting life.
So the end game that I want to leave with each of you now, especially
those who do not profess faith in Christ, see, if I can use
this language predicated of God, I don't speak properly, but if
you're following you'll appreciate, God is willing to save sinners. That is absolutely positively
displayed in Scripture. It is absolutely positively displayed
in the sending of the Son of His love. It is absolutely positively
displayed when the Father was pleased to bruise Him, putting
Him to grief. But it's also positively displayed
in the reality that he has fitted and equipped a class of men to
preach the gospel, to do the work of an evangelist, to call
sinners, to come out of the darkness into marvelous light, to believe
on Jesus Christ alone for salvation. The gospel ministry is another
token of God's willingness to save you from your sins. And
if you're a sinner here this morning, the way of salvation
is not to imitate what Paul says here. The way of salvation is
to believe the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ, who lived,
who died, and who was raised the third day. As Paul summarizes
it in Romans 4.25, he was delivered up because of our offenses, and
he was raised for our justification. All those who look to Him in
faith will have everlasting life. That is good news. Well, let
us pray. Father, thank You for Your Word.