how much marriage counseling should pastors be able to provide like should they um and you can't be experts on everything as you say right so um what's I always liken pastoral Ministry to your your general practitioner your family doctor he can troubleshoot quite a few things but sometimes people need Specialists so if somebody needs Specialists then I think a good pastor has some names or numbers that he can refer people to to to get that more indepth um help for their particular problems but I think for the most part in my observation it usually comes down to a failure to obey God either husband's not loving his wife as Christ loved the church or the wife is not submitting to her husband as unto the Lord
