but I think for the most part in my observation it usually comes down to a failure to obey God either husband's not loving his wife as Christ loved the church or the wife is not submitting to her husband as unto the Lord usually one or the other or often times both aren't doing what God calls them to do so I think that's a pretty you know in terms of complexity it's pretty simple response you need to repent and obey God and do what he says in terms of of your marriage
