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Genesis 20:1-18

Jim Butler · 2019-05-29 · Genesis 20 · 8,090 words · 49 min

Genesis chapter 20. Last few weeks, we looked at 
the overthrow of Sodom and Gomorrah. And here in chapter 20, Abraham 
and Sarah moved to Gerar. And I'll begin reading in chapter 
20 at verse 1. And Abraham journeyed from there 
to the south and dwelt between Kadesh and Shur and stayed in 
Gerar. Now Abraham said of Sarah his 
wife, she is my sister. And Abimelech, king of Gerar, 
sent and took Sarah. But God came to Abimelech in 
a dream by night and said to him, Indeed, you are a dead man 
because of the woman whom you have taken, for she is a man's 
wife. But Abimelech had not come near 
her. And he said, Lord, will you slay 
a righteous nation also? Did he not say to me, She is 
my sister? And she, even she herself said, 
He is my brother. In the integrity of my heart 
and innocence of my hands, I have done this. And God said to him 
in a dream, Yes, I know that you did this in the integrity 
of your heart, for I also withheld you from sinning against me. 
Therefore, I did not let you touch her. Now therefore, restore 
the man's wife, for he is a prophet, and he will pray for you, and 
you shall live. But if you do not restore her, 
know that you shall surely die, you and all who are yours. So 
Abimelech rose early in the morning, called all his servants, and 
told all these things in their hearing. And the men were very 
much afraid. And Abimelech called Abraham 
and said to him, What have you done to us? How have I offended 
you that you have brought on me and on my kingdom a great 
sin? You have done deeds to me that 
ought not to be done. Then Abimelech said to Abraham, 
What did you have in view that you have done this thing? And 
Abraham said, because I thought, surely the fear of God is not 
in this place, and they will kill me on account of my wife. 
But indeed, she is truly my sister. She is the daughter of my father, 
but not the daughter of my mother. And she became my wife. And it 
came to pass when God caused me to wander from my father's 
house that I said to her, this is your kindness that you should 
do for me. In every place, wherever we go, say of me, he is my brother. Then Abimelech took sheep, oxen, 
and male and female servants and gave them to Abraham. And 
he restored Sarah, his wife, to him. And Abimelech said, see, 
my land is before you. Dwell where it pleases you. Then 
to Sarah he said, behold, I have given your brother a thousand 
pieces of silver. Indeed, this vindicates you before 
all who are with you and before everybody. Thus she was rebuked. So Abraham prayed to God and 
God healed Abimelech, his wife and his female servants. Then 
they bore children. For the Lord had closed up all 
the wombs of the house of Abimelech because of Sarah, Abraham's wife. Amen. Well, we have seen a very 
similar account in Genesis chapter 12. As soon as God gives the 
promise to Abraham that of him he will make a great nation, 
he will bless all the families of the earth through Abraham, 
Abraham, as a result of famine, goes into Egypt. And so he tells 
Sarah to tell Pharaoh that she is his sister. And we know how 
that account worked out. Pharaoh, when he finds out, is 
upset. God plagued Pharaoh, and then 
ultimately Pharaoh drove Abraham and Sarah out of the land. Well, 
we see a similar situation here with Abimelech. Now Gerar is 
in Philistia. So these are Philistines. At 
this particular time in the patriarchal history, they weren't the sort 
of foes and enemies that they will later become, especially 
at the time of the judges. So the Philistines, at this particular 
point, aren't really the enemies of Israel. But as we look at 
this particular section, we'll notice, first of all, the taking 
of Sarah in verses 1 to 7, and then secondly, the interaction 
between Abimelech and Abraham in verses 8 to 18. And essentially, 
what we see is that not every city is a Sodom. Abimelech comes 
off pretty good in this narrative. I'm not suggesting he's necessarily 
converted, but he's definitely a recipient of God's common grace, 
and he is a man of integrity. God acknowledges him as such, 
and God confirms the reality that he had, in fact, acted in 
integrity toward Abraham's wife. And so not every city is Sodom. 
And I think that's something for us to remember and recognize. I think as Calvinists especially, 
we have a tendency and a propensity to see the worst in everybody. 
And we need to remember that not every city is necessarily 
a Sodom or as bad as a Sodom. God's common grace is a reality. The fact that God has common 
grace on this earth means that it's not a hell on earth, that 
occasionally you'll get an Abimelech, occasionally you'll get a decent 
pagan, occasionally you'll get somebody that doesn't function 
in a complete lawless fashion. So let's look specifically at 
the taking of Sarah, verses 1 and 2. We see this move to Gerar. 
Again, this is Philistine country. And then in verse 2 we read, 
now Abraham said of Sarah his wife, she is my sister, and Abimelech 
king of Gerar sent and took Sarah. John Gill says concerning this, 
this was little better than a lie. It at least was an equivocation 
and deception, and not at all justifiable, intended to expose 
his wife's chastity, and discovered a distrust of divine providence. the same infirmity he had given 
way to, and the same evil he had fallen into in Egypt, and 
therefore was the more inexcusable now. Good men not only fall into 
sin, but have their relapses." And that is precisely what is 
happening here. Now, in Abraham's defense, I'd 
like to remind each and every one of us that there's not a 
book written with our shortcomings. There's not a book written with 
our relapses. There's not a book written with 
our sins sort of out there or demonstrated for everybody to 
see. So on the one hand, we ought 
to appreciate that reality. But on the other hand, we need 
to remember the overarching trajectory of Abraham's life was a life 
of faithfulness, a life of godliness, a life of uprightness. But nevertheless, 
it was not a life of perfection. Remember that Scripture always 
indicates the shortcomings, the errors, the blemishes, the faults, 
and yea, even the sins of the people, because the Scripture 
everywhere testifies that there's only one real hero, and that 
is the Lord Jesus Christ. There's only one. that's wholly 
harmless and undefiled. There's only one that is without 
blemish. There's only one that didn't 
have relapses, that didn't lie to pagan kings concerning the 
relationship that he sustained to his wife. Now notice, with 
reference to this information, after Abraham announces that 
she is my sister, it says at the end of verse 2, Abimelech, 
king of Gerar, sent and took Sarah. Now, no doubt, this was 
to become one of his wives. Remember, she's 90. And how she 
would have been this beautiful at 90, John Calvin actually has 
a helpful page on that particular subject. It was a bit extended, 
so I didn't bring it. But if you have Calvin's commentaries 
and you want to look at it, it'll probably cause you to smile a 
little bit, too. It's on page 522. But suffice to say, she 
was still obviously beautiful in her appearance, and this king 
of Gerar Abimelech was interested in her and took her into his 
harem to be one of his wives. Now, notice the intervention 
by God in verses 3 to 7. Before that, I want to mention 
something by Waltke. He says, on the brink of Isaac's 
conception, the program of redemption is placed in jeopardy. There 
is no doubt that salvation depends on the faithful Lord, not on 
unfaithful humans. In other words, if it were up 
to men, it would be sidetracked. If it were up to men, it would 
go astray. Chapter 21, verses 1 to 7 record 
for us the birth of Isaac. That's why twice in chapter 20 
we are told that Abimelech did not touch Sarah, so that when 
we get to chapter 21, there's no hint whatsoever that Abimelech 
is the father of Isaac. It is Abraham. It is Sarah. It is a supernatural act of Almighty 
God. And so the author is conspicuous 
to make sure that we know that, that Abimelech didn't go near 
her. Divine commentary in verse 4 at the very beginning, and 
then God reiterating his knowledge that he in fact did not touch 
her, God kept him from touching her in verse 6. So as we look at this intervention 
by God, notice the charge in verse 3. It says, God came to 
Abimelech in a dream by night and said to him, indeed you are 
a dead man because of the woman whom you have taken, for she 
is a man's wife. So he comes to him by this dream 
at night, and he threatens him with the death penalty. Now this 
foreshadows what's going to come out later in the law with reference 
to adultery. Leviticus 20.10 and Deuteronomy 
22.22 prescribes the death penalty for adultery. As we see Abimelech's 
response in this narrative, the idea horrifies him as well. So within the pagan nations, 
they may have been given to fornication, but it was consistently understood 
that adultery was bad. You didn't go into another man's 
wife. And I think of Bimelech's response 
here, evidence is that he knew that. By God's common grace, 
by natural revelation, by the law written on the heart of man, 
man knows that it's wrong to take another man's wife. And 
so God charges, God threatens, God says, indeed you are a dead 
man because of the woman whom you have taken, for she is a 
man's wife. Now notice his defense. Verse 
4 at the very beginning is not Abimelech's defense, rather it's 
divine commentary. It's the omniscient narrator. He tells us in verse 4a, but 
Abimelech had not come near her. Again, that is for the benefit 
of everybody that continues to read the history into chapter 
21. so that when we see that Sarah is with child, it will 
never be thought that it possibly is a bimilex, because there is 
no ambiguity here. In chapter 12, when Sarah is 
taken by Pharaoh, there is some ambiguity. We do not know for 
certain that Pharaoh and Sarah did not have relations. They 
could have had relations. The text, again, is ambiguous 
there, and we do not know for certain. You cannot leave chapter 
20 with that mindset. There's no ambiguity whatsoever. 
There's utter certainty that Abimelech never had Sarah. So 
there's no question whatsoever in terms of Abraham as the father 
of Isaac. But notice his testimony after 
this divine comment in verse 4a. He said, Lord, will you slay 
a righteous nation also? Here he sounds like Abraham. Remember in Genesis chapter 18, 
when God announces the overthrow of the cities of the plain, Abraham 
intercedes on behalf of those cities and says to God, would 
you destroy the city if there's 50 righteous? And he goes all 
the way down to 10. And in the midst of that, he 
says, shall not the judge of all the earth do what is right? 
Well, that's the same line of defense that Abimelech is asserting 
here. He says, Lord, will you slay 
a righteous nation also? In other words, I didn't do this 
particular crime. I didn't engage in this particular 
activity of adultery. I did not lay with Sarah. Will 
you judge me and will you judge our nation? And then he goes 
on to highlight or declare his innocence. He says, did he not 
say to me, she is my sister, and she, and notice the emphasis 
here, and she, even she herself said. So he has the confirmation, 
he has the testimony, he has the evidence. Abraham told me 
that she was his sister, and she, she herself said that she 
was his sister. In the integrity of my heart 
and innocence of my hands, I have done this." Again, this is a 
pretty amazing assertion for a pagan to be able to make. Abimelech 
comes off very well in Genesis chapter 20. Now notice the verdict 
in verses 6 and 7 from God. In the first place, God confirms 
his integrity. This is an incredible statement. 
Yes, I know that you did this in the integrity of your heart. 
It's a beautiful thing for a Bimelech to be able to have the living 
and true God be able to say that. But we need to appreciate it's 
not solely the integrity of a Bimelech, but it's the sovereignty of God 
that ensured that he wasn't able to touch Sarah. Notice what it 
says in verse 6b, for I also withheld you from sinning against 
me, therefore I did not let you touch her. So yes, Abimelech 
had a degree of integrity. Yes, Abimelech was not guilty 
of this particular act of adultery, but the fundamental reason and 
the overarching cause was because of the sovereignty of God. Turn 
to Psalm 105 for just a moment. Psalm 105, where this is brought 
out in the Psalter in a glorious way. Psalm 105, verse 7, he is the 
Lord our God. His judgments are in all the 
earth. He remembers his covenant forever, the word which he commanded 
for a thousand generations, the covenant which he made with Abraham 
and his oath to Isaac and confirmed it to Jacob for a statute to 
Israel as an everlasting covenant. I guess there is covenant in 
this, Isaac, saying to you, I will give the land of Canaan as the 
allotment of your inheritance when they were few in number, 
indeed very few and strangers in it, when they went from one 
nation to another, from one kingdom to another people. He permitted 
no one to do them wrong. Yes, he rebuked kings for their 
sakes, saying, Do not touch my anointed ones, and do my prophets 
no harm." It's a beautiful statement. He permitted no one to do them 
wrong. Yes, he rebuked kings for their 
sakes. He exercises this restraint over 
Abimelech so that Abimelech does not go into Sarah. He does not 
commit the treachery of adultery, and God is able to confirm the 
integrity of Abimelech because of the sovereignty of God. It 
was that reality that caused the fruitfulness of the integrity 
of Abimelech so that he would not engage in this wickedness. 
And then notice, it does not simply reduce Abimelech's guilt, 
but again, it eliminates the possibility that this man sired 
Isaac. It is certainly the case that 
that did not happen. Now note verse 7, he says, Now 
therefore, restore the man's wife, for he is a prophet, and 
he will pray for you, and you shall live. But if you do not 
restore her, know that you shall surely die, you and all who are 
yours." So this is the first time the word prophet is used 
in the Bible. It's applied specifically to 
Abraham in this instance. Abraham would be the prophet 
of God. speaking forth the word of God, 
and as well he would serve in that intercessory capacity as 
praying to God on behalf of others. He does that later in verse 17, 
very specifically for this man Abimelech himself. And incidentally, 
one of the other means by which God perhaps prohibited or kept 
Abimelech from going into Sarah was the affliction of some sort 
of disease. If you look at verse 17, so Abraham 
prayed to God and God healed Abimelech, his wife, and his 
female servants. Then they bore children. For 
the Lord had closed up all the wombs of the house of Abimelech 
because of Sarah, Abraham's wife. Now there's a lot of speculation 
in terms of how that came to pass or what the specific malady 
or problem was. but it could have been the case 
that he wasn't able to go into Sarah's wife because of some 
physical abnormality inflicted upon him in God's sovereignty 
so that he could not carry out that act, which may put it in 
the light as well that Abimelech isn't as righteous as perhaps 
he is suggesting. He had integrity to be sure, 
and he was a good man insofar as things go, but he himself 
was not a perfect man either. The Lord in his sovereignty kept 
him from engaging in the act of adultery. Now notice the interaction 
between Abimelech and Abraham in verses 8 to 18. Now, Abimelech 
is understandably a little upset. I think that goes without saying. I mean, he, as the old commentators 
say, he expostulates with Abraham in this particular situation. 
Again, he's a good guy overall, but he's irritated and he's frustrated 
because Abraham has brought the wrath and fury of God down upon 
his head. Here he is, a king in Gerar, 
minding his own business, and Abraham and Sarah show up, and, 
oh, she's my sister. Well, good. I'll take her into 
my harem. And the next thing you know, he's having a dream, 
and Yahweh's coming to him and threatening to kill him. So his 
response to Abraham is a bit understandable when we get to 
verses 8 to 10. But notice first, in verse 8, 
Abimelech rose early in the morning, called all his servants, and 
told all these things in their hearing. And the men were very 
much afraid. Now, notice this and keep this 
in mind, because when Abraham responds, he said, I concluded 
there was no fear of God in this place. Well, he was wrong. Again, 
it's not the fear of God that leads to life. It's not the fear 
of God that the righteous have as a result of the Holy Spirit. 
But it's this pervasive, overarching realization that there is a God 
in heaven and that he does hold men responsible. parallel to 
the fear of God displayed by those sailors at the time of 
Jonah in Jonah 1 at verse 16. Remember, Jonah says, I fear 
the Lord. I fear Yahweh. Well, obviously, 
that was simply a cognitive sort of a fear. He had it in his head, 
but his actions indicated otherwise. He runs from God instead of runs 
to God. And yet those sailors are really 
afraid, and they offer up sacrifice unto Yahweh. So it's an intriguing 
thing. Throughout the Old Testament, 
you see these times where pagans are struck with the fear of God, 
and when the godly, who are supposed to have the fear of God, are 
void of it. And the fear of God is something 
in the hearts of God's people that should affect us in terms 
of truth-telling, in terms of trusting Him, in terms of dealing 
with one another. But in this instance, at verse 
8, He arose early in the morning. There's no time to waste. He's 
been spoken to by God. He's got to get things right. 
He's got to return Sarah to Abraham to set things in the proper order. He tells all these things in 
their hearing, and the men were very much afraid. And then Abimelech 
called Abraham and said to him, excuse me, what have you done 
to us? Now, this is a good sign as well. 
When Pharaoh complains to Abraham, he says, what have you done to 
me? Which, again, it's subtle, but it is conspicuous. We have 
this instance where Pharaoh really only cares about Pharaoh's bacon. 
But when you look at Abimelech, at least he's concerned about 
the kingdom. He's concerned about the people under his charge. 
Again, this chapter portrays Abimelech as a pretty decent 
guy. And so he says to him, what have 
you done to us? How have I offended you that 
you have brought on me and on my kingdom a great sin? Again, 
this is a realistic complaint on the part of Abimelech. Fill 
me in, Abraham. Tell me why you did what you 
did, Abraham. I'd like to kind of know what I've done to bring 
this on, to instigate this. And then he says, you have done 
deeds to me that ought not to be done. That's legit and true. You've done deeds to me that 
ought not to be done. And then Abimelech said to Abraham, 
what did you have in view that you have done this thing? Again, 
Pharaoh doesn't listen to Abraham. Pharaoh just dismisses Abraham 
and has him escorted basically out of the country. Whereas Abimelech 
says, I want to hear from you. Go ahead and expostulate back. Respond to me and let me know 
what you were thinking. Now look at Abraham to Abimelech 
in verses 11 to 13. In the first place, he highlights 
this thought that there was the absence of the fear of God. Verse 
11, and Abraham said, Because I thought, surely the fear of 
God is not in this place. Again, his experience recently 
has been Sodom, Gomorrah, the cities on the plain, and those 
overthrown for their gross wickedness against the living and the true 
God. So he probably at this point didn't have a whole lot of hope 
for any pagan city in terms of the fear of God being present. 
And it's probably not a personal dig at Abimelech. It's probably 
not, you know, I did some research on Google and found out that 
you're a bunch of wretched people, so that's why I came to you. 
No, he didn't know this. This was his general operating 
assumption. Again, he was a Calvinist. He 
was reformed. He understood the doctrine of 
total depravity. And typically, we view people 
in the worst possible light. Now, that's not always a bad 
thing, living in a generation that we do. But it's bad when 
we do that with one another. It's bad when we just assume 
that everybody's as wretched as they could possibly be without 
giving them the benefit of the doubt. But he says, I thought 
surely the fear of God is not in this place. He misread the 
situation. He didn't understand the particularity 
involved in this city. But even more telling, it's back 
to what Gil said earlier. He says that when he lied, it 
was an equivocation and deception, and not at all justifiable, and 
tended to expose his wife's chastity, and then he goes on to say, and 
discovered a distrust of divine providence. And that's one of 
the biggest problems in this particular chapter in terms of 
Abraham. It's not his distrust of the 
city-state of Gerar. It's not his distrust of Abimelech. 
It's his lack of confidence in the living and true God. Because 
God had always been there for Abraham. What do we find in Genesis 
chapter 12 when he enters into Egypt? God protects him. What 
do we find in Genesis chapter 14 when Lot is abducted by that 
coalition of eastern kings and Abraham gives pursuit? He goes 
after him and he recovers Lot and all of the goods and all 
of the persons that were abducted. Where's that courage and where's 
that zeal that we see in Genesis 14 applied to this situation 
with reference to Abimelech? He had been a man who had experienced, 
again, the goodness and the graciousness and the providence of God. God 
had communicated to him by covenant in Genesis 15, and then again 
in Genesis chapter 17. God had listened to him intercede 
in Genesis 18, and God answers that intercession by the deliverance 
of Lot in Genesis chapter 19. So when we get to Genesis chapter 
20, and he resorts to these old ways of lying to the king, that 
Sarah is my sister and not my wife, it is to demonstrate a 
distrust in divine providence. Now again, there's not books 
written that show all of our distrust of divine providence. There's not books written for 
us to stand around or sit around and study and say, wow, I can't 
believe that guy didn't trust God in that particular instance. 
So we can't be too hard on Abraham. Again, the overarching trajectory 
of his life was a life of faithfulness, a life of godliness, and a life 
for each of us to emulate and to imitate. But there was not 
perfection in this man. And it comes out glaringly so 
in a passage like this. He's afraid of Abimelech. He's 
afraid of these Philistines, when rather he should be trusting 
in God's providence to see him through these various situations. So he highlights the absence 
of the fear of God. Notice as well, he highlights 
his own fear of death. Verse 11, because I thought, 
surely the fear of God is not in this place, and they will 
kill me on account of my wife. She must have been really beautiful. He must have felt some sort of 
a threat. Something in this scenario is 
a bit puzzling in terms of telling men that she's my sister versus 
telling men that she's my wife. He probably thought they'd just 
cut his throat and take her. But if she's his sister, they're 
going to do what Abimelech does and bring her into the royal 
palace. This is a dangerous place to be for Abraham in terms of 
fearing for his own life. He needs to trust God and he 
needs to recognize God's sovereignty. And as I say that, I realize 
that we traffic in those concepts a lot. We talk about trusting 
in God. We talk about God's sovereignty. 
We talk about providence. We study the confession of faith 
that has a wonderful summary statement concerning divine providence. And yet, we struggle with these 
concepts, practically. Whenever something comes along 
that threatens our well-being, or anything that comes along 
that threatens to upset the apple cart a little bit, we freak out. So it's easy to see with reference 
to Abraham, how come Abraham's doing these sorts of things and 
yet not always see it with us. We've tried our God and proven 
that he is faithful. We pray, we've experienced his 
providence, we have garnered his benefits and his blessings. 
Certainly we ought to be a people that are stable and secure and 
don't resort to lies and subterfuge in order to promote our lives. We are in 
the hands of a good and a gracious God. And then notice, thirdly, 
he highlights a technicality concerning Sarah in verse 12. 
But indeed, she is truly my sister. She is the daughter of my father, 
but not the daughter of my mother, and she became my wife. Last 
week, as we considered the situation between Lot and his daughters, 
we made the observation that the prohibition against incest 
hasn't been given yet. I'm not justifying this particular 
scenario in terms of that, but that is technically the case. But God already said to Abimelech, 
she's his wife. God didn't say, well, there's 
a technicality there, and she's kind of his sister. No, in verse 
3, indeed you are a dead man because of the woman whom you 
have taken, for she is a man's wife. This is what Gil means 
when he says this is equivocation and deception. Technically it's 
true, but that's not going to help you in this particular instance. Kids are masters at this, aren't 
they? You say to them, you're not supposed 
to have a cookie, and they take two, and they say, well, I didn't 
have a cookie. Oh, OK. I had two cookies, right? 
Three cookies. They're all lawyers. They're 
masters of equivocation and deception. Well, adults can be that way 
too. The Jewish Talmud is very much like that. Technicality 
upon technicality upon technicality to ultimately justify lawlessness. It's a wicked practice. Let your 
yes be yes and your no be no. Abraham, it's more admirable 
at this point to just say, look, I was afraid and I'm sorry. I 
shouldn't have done it. No, technically, she is my sister. She is the daughter of my mother 
or my father, but not the daughter of my mother. And she became 
my wife. So he's just kind of skirting 
the issue a little bit, but again, stuff that you and I do, but 
it's written down here for us with reference to Abraham. And 
then notice he highlights the strategies for their journeys 
in verse 13. And it came to pass, when God 
caused me to wander from my father's house, that I said to her, this 
is your kindness that you should do for me. in every place, wherever 
we go, say of me, he is my brother." It's precisely what we see there 
in Genesis chapter 12. In fact, this provides the rationale 
for that. He tells us, this has been our 
practice from the moment that God called me out of Ur of the 
Chaldeans, we went to Haran, and then ultimately came into 
the promised land of Canaan, and this has been our strategy, 
this has been our posture, This has been our story, so that as 
we meet these kings, as we go along in this nation and we meet 
these various persons, we can hide behind the idea that she's 
my sister, so they won't cut my throat and take her from me. 
Again, the reality is that if she's his sister, they're still 
going to take her. I don't know, is that not obvious to anybody 
other than me that just because she's his sister doesn't mean 
she's off-limits? This very scene shows us Abimelech 
took her. The very scene in chapter 12 
shows us that Pharaoh took her, and there the ambiguity is strong 
in the sense that we're not sure if he took her to his bed or 
not. Now notice Abimelech's gifts to Abraham and Sarah in verses 
14 to 16. Then Abimelech took sheep, oxen, 
and male and female servants and gave them to Abraham, and 
he restored Sarah his wife to him. So the gifts given to Abraham 
are parallel to gifts given to Abraham by Pharaoh. But with 
reference to Pharaoh in Genesis chapter 12, it almost seemed 
like gifts given for the acquisition of a bride, almost as if it were 
a dowry, almost as if it were a significant piece of gratitude 
for his having received Sarah. But in this instance, this has 
been the return of Sarah, and nevertheless Abimelech bestows 
upon Abraham all these gifts. Wenham says mentioning these 
gifts here seems to imply that unlike Pharaoh's gifts that were 
given at the time of Sarah's marriage as convention dictated, 
Abimelech gave these presents after the proposed marriage had 
fallen through by way of reparation for his behavior. So there is 
a sense of repentance or reparation going on in the passage, and 
it's Abimelech. As far as Abimelech is concerned, 
he has dishonored Abraham, and he has dishonored Sarah, and 
that leads him then to convey gifts upon Sarah as well. Notice 
in verse 15, Abimelech said, see, my land is before you, dwell 
where it pleases you. Again, completely contrasted 
with Pharaoh in Genesis chapter 12. Pharaoh couldn't get Abraham 
out of his country fast enough. Sure, he loaded him with gifts, 
but it was put them on your horses or your oxen and your donkeys 
and get out of Dodge. We don't want you here. Not so 
with Abimelech. He knows that he has wronged 
them, and so he is now giving them this privilege. Abimelech 
said, see my land is before you. Dwell where it pleases you. And 
then to Sarah he said, behold, I have given your brother a thousand 
pieces of silver. That ain't chump change. That 
was a great deal of money. That was a huge, massive, massive 
amount of money. But notice how he refers to him 
as your brother. That may be indicative of his 
irritation. That may be him needling her 
just a little bit. Again, Abimelech comes off well 
here, but he's not perfect. And you could understand why 
Abimelech would have a little bit of an ax to grind, and he 
needles her by saying, I have given your brother 1,000 pieces 
of silver. Again. Technically true. Again, 
they are brother-sister, at least halfway, but he may be trying 
to expose her complicity in the lie with reference to the problems 
that they had. John Gill says, since the words 
are directed to her and in which there is a sharp cutting expression 
calling Abraham her brother and not her husband, thereby putting 
her in mind and upgrading her with her equivocation and dissimulation. So it's just a bit of a, you 
know, we're in this situation because of you guys. Again, not 
always the righteous attitude. We would despise that if our 
kids did that. We don't always despise it when 
we do it, but it's pretty obvious that that might be what's happening 
in this particular instance. But then notice the last clause. 
Indeed, this vindicates you before all who are with you and before 
everybody. Thus she was rebuked. The margin is a covering of the 
eyes for you to all." I think that the essence or the sense 
is that in this payment, not only to Abraham, but to Sarah, 
this makes good on the damage done to them by Abimelech. In other words, the payment of 
these gifts, the giving of these things, the entitlement to whatever 
part of the land you want to live in, This is a public display 
of Abimelech's making things right with reference to Abraham 
and Sarah. The margin has at the very end, 
thus she was rebuked, or thus she was justified. If it's justified, 
I think that fits in with the context. She is vindicated, her 
honor is maintained, Abimelech did not go into her, and Abimelech 
made things right with Abraham and Sarah at this particular 
juncture. Now notice finally Abraham's 
intercession for Abimelech in verses 17 and 18. So Abraham 
prayed to God and God healed Abimelech, his wife and his female 
servants. So there's two interesting things 
here. On the one hand, God in his grace and his mercy healed 
the pagans. Abimelech was on dangerous ground, 
Abraham prays and God heals. But the second thing that's intriguing 
is that God hears Abraham and answers his prayer and blesses 
the household of Abimelech. So, all that to say that when 
we sin, we don't disconnect ultimately from God. Now, I always run the 
risk of saying things like this because it might embolden people 
to go out and sin, but if you understand Romans 6, 1, that 
won't be the mindset. What shall we say then? Shall 
we continue in sin that grace may abound? May it never be. 
The reality is that Abraham lies in this particular chapter. The 
reality is that Abraham does some things in this particular 
chapter that betrays his confidence and his faithfulness and trust 
in God. And yet when he prays, God answers. 
There is forgiveness with thee that thou mayest be feared. We 
have an advocate with the Father, even Jesus Christ the righteous. 
Brethren, we need to remember that God hears the prayers of 
Abraham, a man that wasn't perfect. God hears the prayers of every 
man in Scripture justified by faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, 
who are nevertheless imperfect men. What do we find in James 
chapter 5? The fervent, effective prayer of a righteous man avails 
much. Who's the man in view there? Elijah. And James says he was 
a man of like passions with us. And yet the Lord God hears the 
prayers of his upright, those who are in Jesus Christ. So Abraham 
prays to God and God heals Abimelech, his wife and his female servants. 
Then they bore children. Now notice verse 18, for the 
Lord had closed up all the wombs of the house of Abimelech because 
of Sarah, Abraham's wife. Now in terms of literary sort 
of construction, this is beautiful. The author here, obviously operating 
under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, is writing God's 
truth to be sure. He's writing history, sacred 
history. but he's writing it in such a 
way as to sort of wet our appetites or cause us to reflect upon the 
reality that if God is able to close and open the wombs of Abimelech 
and his wife and his female servants, then God is able to open and 
close the wombs of people like Sarah and like Rachel and Rebecca. And lo and behold, we turn the 
page, literally for me, if you've got my copy of the Bible, it's 
a literal turn of the page to see God open the womb of Sarah. This long-standing promise that 
Abraham and Sarah were going to have a son of promise together, 
this young man called Isaac. Doesn't verse 18 just whet your 
appetite for that? Verses 17 and 18. If you didn't 
know that chapter 21, 1 to 7, was going to deal with Isaac 
and the birth of Isaac, you would have at least in your head this 
concept or idea that Yahweh is sovereign. He closes the womb, 
but he also opens the womb. We get to chapter 21, and he 
opens the womb in fulfillment of the promise that he had repeatedly 
given to Abraham and Sarah concerning their seed, concerning their 
son Isaac. Well, in conclusion, I think 
we ought to appreciate, in the first place, the fear of Abraham. The fear of Abraham. Not appreciate 
it in the sense of, wow, that's great, but appreciate it in the 
sense that, praise God that He records for us not only the victories 
of His men, but also their difficulties. Not so that we'll emulate and 
imitate their difficulties, but we'll find our repose and our 
safety and our security in their God. He concluded there was no 
fear of God in Gerar, and thus he would ultimately be killed. 
But even more so, he concluded that there was no favorable providence 
of God in Gerar. That's the big problem, because 
he had witnessed and he had seen that in his history. When we 
look at the transaction of God with the soul of Abraham, there 
was everything in Abraham to have that rock-solid confidence 
in God Almighty. When we get to chapter 22 at 
Mount Moriah, what's Abraham do in obedience to God? He takes 
his son, his only son, the son of his love, whom he waited all 
those many years for to get, and he just obeys God and marches 
dutifully up to that site where the temple would ultimately be 
built. I mean, when we get to Genesis chapter 22, the significance 
of that scene for the rest of redemptive history is massive. It's huge. But we see Abraham 
respond to God in a way that is absolutely beautiful. I don't 
know of anybody that would just say, Okay, go grab their son, 
take them up to the mount, and prepare to kill them. But Abraham 
does that. That's the kind of faith, faithfulness, 
loyalty, integrity that Abraham has. But along the way, there 
are these missteps, there are these issues, there are these 
problems. And as we see in Psalm 105, verses 
11 to 15, God had purpose to spare his people from the threats 
of the pagan kings around them. with reference to the faithfulness 
of God. See, whenever we see the fear 
of man in Scripture, and God coming through nevertheless, 
we see that the promises of God ultimately rely upon Him, and 
in this we rejoice, and in this we have confidence. But He has 
sovereignty over Abraham and Sarah. Whether Abraham acknowledges 
that when he goes to Gerar or not, It doesn't seem like it 
because he concocts the same sort of lie and says this to 
Abimelech. But God's got them. God's protecting 
them. God is over them. And that's 
something we need to be consciously aware of as well. Even when we 
don't think that God is there, God is there. There's that blessed 
statement in Deuteronomy chapter 1, for those who are reading 
McShane's calendar, you just read that either yesterday or 
the day before. And in Deuteronomy, in fact, 
turn there, Deuteronomy chapter 1, it's a beautiful statement 
that completely is an interpretation of the wilderness that was contrary 
to what Israel possessed. Notice in Deuteronomy 1 at verse 
29, So he's saying that the past faithfulness of God with reference 
to the Exodus is going to obtain with reference to the wilderness. In other words, the God who brought 
you out of Egypt by His power and might in the display of the 
plagues and ultimately the destruction of Pharaoh's army, that God's 
not going to let you die in the wilderness. He's not going to 
bring you out by His outstretched arm of power only to let you 
starve to death in the wilderness. Isn't that how Israel interpreted 
the wilderness? You've read that, right? Did 
they just say, praise God, we're in the wilderness and we're going 
to do whatever He says. It's like every step of the way 
they whine, every step of the way they grumble, every step 
of the way they complain. They complain about God, they 
complain about Moses, they complain about everything. We had, you 
know, great food to eat when we were in Egypt, and now we've 
got this manna, and, you know, we're just not thrilled with 
this. It's just like every step of the way. Their interpretation 
of the wilderness is that this is just a mess in our existence. But back to the text. Verse 30 
again, the Lord your God who goes before you, he will fight 
for you according to all he did for you in Egypt before your 
eyes. Now verse 31, and in the wilderness where you saw how 
the Lord your God carried you as a man carries his son in all 
the way that you went until you came to this place. I guarantee 
you they didn't interpret things that way. They did not think 
when they were eating manna that they were being carried by God 
the way a man carries his son. Any of you fathers who've ever 
had to pick up a child and carry them know what's involved there. 
You love them, you care for them, and you want to keep them safe. 
And that's the picture created here for us. Even though they 
didn't see it, and even though they didn't interpret it that 
way, didn't mean it wasn't true. And I think that happens with 
you and I. We don't always see it. It's not always conspicuous. 
It's not always obvious. And so we conclude, well, you 
know, God really wasn't there for me. Where would we be if 
for any moment God wasn't there for us? And then in verse 32, 
yet for all that, you did not believe the Lord your God who 
went in the way before you to search out a place for you to 
pitch your tents, to show you the way you should go in the 
fire by night and in the cloud by day. But that theme or that 
concept is most excellent that you find there in verse 30. The 
Lord your God who goes before you, He will fight for you according 
to all He did for you in Egypt before your eyes. If you go through 
the Psalms, especially the Psalms of Asaph, and you go through 
the Psalms that are the more melancholic. I mean, Asaph was 
a melancholic soul, that much I know. The Psalms ascribe to 
Asaph, he didn't seem like the happiest camper that you'd ever 
made. He's the one who says in Psalm 
73, God is good to Israel. But as for me, I almost went 
astray. I saw the righteous suffer, I 
saw the wicked flourish, and it just caused this great perplexity 
in my heart. So when you look at these Psalms 
of Asaph and then other select Psalms throughout the Psalter, 
the key event that oftentimes comes up to remind the people 
of Israel about the faithfulness of God is the Exodus. In other 
words, if this God who brought you out of the land of Egypt 
with this mighty display of His power, how is He not going to 
deal with and vanquish your foes in the present? The past faithfulness 
of God is a present argument for the faithfulness of God, 
and that's Moses' talk there in Deuteronomy chapter 1. It's 
something that you and I need to keep in our minds. Abraham 
had seen the faithfulness of God. Abraham should always rest 
in the faithfulness of God. We have seen the faithfulness 
of God. We should always rest in the faithfulness of God. Now, 
as it comes out of my mouth, I know that by tomorrow we're 
going to be perplexed or confused or we're going to have an issue 
of some sort. Reflect on God's goodness and 
faithfulness. So he's sovereign over Abraham 
and he's sovereign over Sarah, but he's also sovereign over 
pagan kings. He communicates with Abimelech 
in a dream. He acknowledges Abimelech's integrity 
and he commands Abimelech in a course that will restore health 
to his family and ultimately preserve his life from death. 
So that's pretty amazing, the God of heaven and earth and of 
pagans as well. Proverbs 21.1, the king's heart 
is in the hand of the Lord, like the rivers of water. He turns 
it wherever he wishes. And he does that specifically 
here with Abimelech. And then the final practical 
observation is we see here the fulfilling of God's promise. 
Go back to Genesis chapter 12 for just a moment, and then we'll 
close. Genesis chapter 12. Verse 1, now the Lord had said 
to Abram, get out of your country, from your family, and from your 
father's house, to a land that I will show you. I will make 
you a great nation, I will bless you, and make your name great, 
and you shall be a blessing. Notice, I will bless those who 
bless you, and I will curse him who curses you, and in you all 
the families of the earth shall be blessed. Abimelech blesses 
Abraham. Abimelech confers great riches 
upon Abraham and Sarah. Abraham then intercedes for Abimelech 
at the throne of grace, and what does God do? God blesses Abimelech, 
his wife, and his female servants. God takes from them the affliction 
that they had that kept them from having babies. So the Lord 
makes good on his promise, I will bless those who bless you. God's faithfulness is obvious 
in the book of Genesis, throughout the entirety of the Bible, and 
I think if Abraham teaches us anything, it is the fact that 
God is faithful to his people. Well, let's pray. Our Father, 
we thank you for your word and we thank you for the life of 
Abraham and for the way that you sustained and blessed and 
strengthened him all the way. How we thank you for that faithfulness 
displayed in the Bible and displayed in our own personal lives. And 
I pray that we would have confidence in these things, that we would 
trust in you, that we would walk faithfully before you, knowing 
that you are a God who keeps His promises, a God who is covenanted 
to do His people good. We pray that you would go with 
us now. We pray that you would bless us in the remainder of 
this week. We look forward to the Sabbath when we can gather 
together to worship you corporately. And we pray that you would be 
glorified and honored and worshiped in this church. And we ask in 
the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.